 Hi, I told y'all I had to go live today, and I had to go early. I usually go at 12, but I'm so sorry I gotta go early because I have To take somebody somewhere my kids somewhere So I just came on early, okay, so how are y'all y'all here? I'm waiting on people to come. How y'all doing? What's up, what y'all doing? Anyways Okay, so hi y'all. Okay, so last night I was posting on the group My group on Facebook Sorry about my voice And I was talking about like trashy versus classy, you know what? Wealthy guys or you know financially stable guys look for and women Things like that because a lot of a lot of you girls You know you have what it takes, but you don't look the part you gotta look the part, you know, you can't You know keep Wearing and you know the same type of clothing that you you know been wearing when you're dealing with certain guys or broke guys So you have to kind of Upgrade yourself a little bit so that you can be taken seriously, you know for a serious relationship for you know A wife not just you know a side piece or someone to you know take home for the night you want to look The part okay, that means nothing too crazy or flamboyant Nothing too, you know tight or you know That doesn't fit well and Things like that because that just means like you know You don't have class because you'll just throw on anything no matter how it looks, you know Just because it comes in your size doesn't mean you're supposed to wear it or you know You're trying to show off too much skin or you know something like that and you're just Flaunting everything out, you know, it's okay to show a little bit But if you show too much you're gonna be not taken seriously, okay? so Cover it up a little bit, you know if you're gonna show legs cover up this if you're gonna show this cover up everything else You know, you can't show this this this and that you know what I'm saying, so Cover something up, you know Play up one nice feature about yourself Don't overdo it, you know what I'm saying like some people will put You know everything on and they'll just look like a Christmas tree, you know what I'm saying So you don't want to overdo the jewelry. You don't want to overdo the makeup You don't want to overdo the you know accessories, so keep it classy. Okay. I was posting a I posted a video by this one youtuber on my page on my group and She was telling you guys how to keep it classy what kind of outfits to wear and She was saying like, you know nude colors, you know classic colors black white blue You know just nice classic pieces just you know to wear because you know when you're out and about and you know wealthy guys sees you you know you're You're gonna have to look the part like you can hang out with them like you can fit in with them So you can't be dressing like you know sneakers and You know long nails about this long You know lashes that aren't even all right and up here And you know clothes that's too tight for you, you know, maybe they came in your size But you know, they're still not right for your body type So you don't want to be that girl You don't want to be the girl that people are staring at and like what? Because we see a lot of those women and you know They might be confident and they might have the confidence to wear what they have on it doesn't mean that it's classy You know what I'm saying? There's a difference. So So Yeah, someone said that they always wear workout pants and t-shirts. Well, if you're gonna do that you got to at least have a nice Brand of you know sweats like we're have dressy sweats or dressy, you know Let go to pink or Victoria's secrets and get their nice things, you know what I'm saying or Something like that you're gonna and wear some nice sandals or shoes with it or nice flip-flops Like if you're gonna go lounge you at least look expensive not expensive But like you have taste not just some you know stuff you put out the laundry So Yeah, and Also with makeup, you know, you don't want to overdo it and you don't want to not put on any at all But you know you could just right in the middle or maybe even you know just very classic looks New lips red lips are very popular To look classy so you don't want to do all the crazy colors like purple and green Or you know when you're out, you know looking for you know potential partners because Even though we like it and we can do that with our girls when we go out You can't do that when you're looking for a man because all you can see is the blue lipstick on the lips. I am like So make sure you save that lipstick for you know girls night out or when you're not even trying to you know be Getting attention from men You know, it's cute on models on on Instagram and stuff, but let's face it like in reality. It doesn't fly So yeah, so I'm trying to see y'all comments. Oh Okay, hi miss lovely. She says she just found my videos. Thank you for watching. I really appreciate you Share my videos with your friends if you think they need them because you know a lot of people, you know, they don't They don't have you know a lot of Advice from people these days because it's all about You know do whatever you want, you know if he loves you, he'll love you No, you gotta play you gotta play mental games these days. Everything is mental. Okay? How you present yourself gives a mental image and a mental message to someone, you know Just think about it when you first see someone their first appearance. That's how you're going to identify them and label them You're going to see someone and some ratchet outfit and you're going to say she's ratchet. Okay. She probably has this this Bad credit that you're just going to label her you're going to stereotype someone because of how they look now First appearances and outside appearances are very important when you're presenting yourself to the world you want to present yourself as respectable classy to be taken serious and not labeled Ratchet throw away disposable. Okay, so get it together. Okay? now y'all ladies that be wearing them long long weaves that everybody know is not real and Just the knots up and y'all don't call it No one really wears their hair that long so it's obvious that it's a wig So you need to either cut it to a natural length that is believable And get your own hair texture like if you're like dark brown or black and you have silky blonde hair that does not look right together. You got to get a textured hair Okay, because that looks more natural Now this is my real hair This is my hair straightened and I don't really like it straight that much I like it curly, but I've cut it so it's too short now to wear curly all the time but Like if I pop on one of my wigs, it's it's not gonna look crazy. You know what I'm saying? I do have a purple wig, but I don't wear that outside the house But you want your wigs to look natural or your weaves to look natural and not, you know Like a something to focus on, you know, it shouldn't be a focus point It should be just to compliment your face and your you know, whatever Okay If you okay, someone asked me to talk about manifesting a specific person now I don't like manifesting specific people because that's just narrowing Everything, you know manifest someone like them. Okay, or better than them. Okay, because if you're trying to specifically manifest something and there's like a thousand obstacles in the way you have to wait that long and Those obstacles might not even clear. You know what I'm saying? And wait, it will take you forever. So if you're just if you open up The the range like okay, I like the specific person So let me find someone that looks just like him has the same qualities as him, you know In that way Like basically I have them, but maybe better, you know, so try to manifest like That person don't get specific if you get specific You're gonna be waiting a long time and it may never come through. Okay. Oh, don't ever do that Okay, hi y'all. Okay How to look classy at the beach? Oh Okay, don't wear no raunchy baby bathing suits get if you're skinny You can get like a solid color two-piece white black or like navy blue is very classy you know a Straw Sun hat the oversized straw Sun hats and sunglasses and some black flip-flops or white flip-flops Okay, don't go all crazy putting jewelry on and makeup and weeks You know Look natural so that you can actually have fun, you know Maybe a little bit of waterproof mascara and now they make waterproof lipstick. You can put that on so Yeah, beauty bakery, which is a black-owned company they sell waterproof makeup So you can get waterproof eyebrows waterproof lipstick and I'm not wearing it right now, but They won't come off like you got to actually have a remover to get that stuff off So if he takes you swimming on the first date go to beauty bakery Cosmetics or something and order you some stuff so that you can look good after you swim Okay Someone says I'm pretty Valerie says I'm pretty. Thank you. I Try y'all I try like I don't wake up and just look crazy every day I try I try like I'm married and a lot of wives let themselves go like as far as put on makeup And dressing nice they let themselves go and their husband starts looking other places But if you if they come home to you and you look good At least decent every day, you know, at least they feel good about that, you know And they're like, but dang Why don't you do something yourself? You know blue okay, um Okay Some people say okay someone okay, so a a says if you give love you'll get love in return. That's not true Okay Because everybody has free will okay if you give love To somebody who doesn't love you they're not gonna give you love in return So that's just not true, you know people like to think it's true people live by that motto and then they're sorely You know treat it they're treated like doormats and they're wondering when their love is gonna be you know Coming to them and it just never does because they're loving the wrong person They're supposed to be loving themselves When you love yourself then you attract love But if you love in somebody and they're not loving you back start loving yourself and they'll probably start loving you back or somebody will Okay, you don't put all your energy and love into somebody you put that into yourself Make yourself more valuable people will see you as valuable if you see yourself as valuable if you see them as valuable They're gonna think they're valuable and you're not worth anything and they're gonna treat you like it Okay, for example, my neighbors Yeah, I'm telling my neighbor neighbor's business Okay my neighbors He talked to his wife like a child like crazy like Right in front of her talks about her right in front of her. You know what I'm saying. Um, I Was just sitting there because he was talking to my husband and about his wife and his wife was sitting there Right and she was just talking trash about her. I'm like What like I'm just sitting there waiting. I'm like, okay, she says they something she didn't say She didn't say nothing. I was about to say something for her, but I won't keep the peace. Plus. He's a cop. So I ain't going there Y'all problem. That's y'all problem So yeah, he he says like he was talking about her bed like oh she can't drive she can't she not allowed to touch my car She can't drive. Oh, no, I tell her I that's why I gave her that old car over there And she that's what she has to drive Well, he has three cars and she got this old hooptie car and he won't let her drop none of the nice cars Oh, cuz she can't drive But all he got three cars And she got a drive like the trashy one You better than me Way better than me. I could do that Um, how do I donate to you? Oh, you want to donate to me? That's so sweet. I think I have a PayPal link on my channel page Where the the cover picture is that says, you know my name and the right hand corner Let me see because I don't remember did I put that up? Like I don't remember but yep, you can go to PayPal and PayPal me I It's at my email address Which is L P a d u a 11 at yahoo.com if you just really want to donate. I really appreciate it Let me see if it's on my channel page I'm checking. Oh, yeah, if you go to my channel. Oh wait, that's not my channel. That's my other channel Yeah Yep, it's on my channel page where that long picture that says she was seven is on the top So that's how you can donate to me. Thank you. I appreciate it Anyway, so yeah, he talks to her all kind of crazy But we were talking about classy versus trashy, okay, so Don't wear sneakers. Okay, ladies. You if you're over 22 You don't need any more sneakers okay wear flats wear heels wear sandals wear wedges But no sneakers that makes you look like, you know Unless you're going to like run or jog or exercise or something, you know, you don't wear sneakers as part of your outfit Okay, it's just look it looks low class. Okay, so don't do that Just I'm sorry. I know some of y'all love them sneakers, but No You met a guy and he asked asked you what's special about you Well, you know, do you have a talent? Do you have some a story that's kind of cool? Do you have some special ability? You know You know, if you don't have nothing you can just say well, I have good jeans good DNA come from a a Really just make up something from ancestry calm. Oh, you know, I was I'm dirt You know related to name some famous person. They'll never trace it back. That's special Oh, I'm related to Marie Laveau Yes Yeah, she's she was my great great aunt on my dad's side. Yeah Make it up child if you don't have nothing special make it make yourself special make something up special Okay, because that's what people do all the time in Hollywood when they go to audition, you know They'll lie people when people go for job interviews. They lie lie If you do have something special like a talent, don't say oh, don't tell him about any money Don't tell him about any career. Tell him about something that no one else can do. You know, I'm saying like, oh, yeah I make this wonderful Margarita. Oh my god, it's so good. I mean everybody talks about it every time I have a party or every time I go to my sister's party that she asked me to make these Wonderful margaritas. Oh my gosh Then he was like, oh, you have to make one for me sometimes. Yeah. Yeah, look at that. So that's special Okay, yeah, I don't just name some basic stuff anybody could name do something outrageous that will stick in his mind So he can remember you and take you out from the rest. Yeah. Oh Oh Well, I just got a promotion at work and uh Yeah, I graduated top of my class. That's boring. No one know that. Okay. They probably did that So, you know, something else like oh, you know what? I'm a blogger. I like to write books. I like to read. Okay. That's boring. Okay. We're anybody can do that. Okay. So, oh, yeah, you know, I Like to swim nude Nothing, come on What channel am I on y'all asking me a crazy question, like Is this the she was seven channel that I do it again Okay, cuz like this is not the issue of star goddess channel. That's that's on Wednesday. Okay. I think it's I don't know what channel Let me check Is this the she was seven channel somebody comment because I don't know I want to make a mistake. I got like three channel job Okay, so Okay, thank you. Okay, y'all stop asking those other questions. That's for Wednesday So, yeah classy versus trashy So you don't want to You know a lot of women get their nails done You don't like if you're trying to land a wealthy man You don't want to get all that crazy stuff unless you know, you're not trying to get all that crazy stuff There's something simple and plain You know a nice length You don't want to go crazy some of y'all just go too crazy and you know It's like it's a turn-off to a lot of guys because it looks ratchet Okay. Yeah, I smell good Nefrini, okay, she says smell good. Yes, you need to smell good I'm coming out with my fragrance this month or you know in May my fragrance is gonna come out It's called star goddess and y'all can buy it. Okay. I designed all the notes in the sense in it What looks ratchet, okay ratchet to me I gotta go in 15 minutes y'all so Ratchet to me looks like clothes that don't fit right Hair that doesn't fit your face or skin tone Too much makeup or not enough makeup Ashy legs No unmoisturized skin take care of your skin ladies if your skin is bad covered up with makeup But or get you know take care of your skin skin is important It shows your health like when when wealthy guys look at you They want to make sure you're healthy that you're you know well nourished and We call it hydrated and that you don't have a bunch of stuff going on because that means you're unhealthy You know I'm saying invest in your skin. Okay Okay Not wearing makeup is trashy if okay You have to have something on it if you're a natural beauty and you don't need makeup because you're just natural if you don't have under eye bags and Discoloration on your face then go for it you know, but if you look in all three colors on your face and You know like you're sick put something on your face. Okay. Yes, I do recommend makeup because You know if you're gonna be going out to nice places to eat, you know meeting people You got a look pulled together. Okay, and sometimes no makeup, you know On the beach is fine and stuff like that, but when you're Going out and stuff put something on your face lip gloss or something, you know I'm mascara and lip gloss if that's all you can do put it on but it takes some effort, you know What is the best scent for attracting a wealthy man I like Inanna Rose That's my favorite It just smells really good and you can mix it with any perfume. Okay I'm currently wearing braids. Is that a bad thing if you're looking for a You know financially stable men They like certain looks they like certain women to look a certain way. Okay, so, you know I feel like they like more pulled together classic looks You know, maybe For the summertime or when you go on vacation, yes But if that's what you're wearing every day and you're trying to track like a wealthy man He might not take you seriously. You know what I'm saying as a wife because They just want women who look the part. Okay, I know it's not You know, it's not like oh, you can't tell me how to wear my hair They just want women to look the part of wife. Okay, and they might not imagine their wife with braids You know what I mean unless they're just like drop-dick gorgeous and they figure they can change their hair But I feel like if you would if you have braids, you know, you know work it for until you you know Work it work it work it and maybe someone will like it. You know, I don't but I would not Keep that hairstyle if you're seriously looking for a wealthy or financially stable husband, you know what I'm saying Mmm Can you speak objectively about curly hair like yours? Curly hair like okay, I'm gonna tell y'all story about my curly hair When I met my husband, my hair was straight. It was like about this a little bit longer than this and I Think that's what he liked my straight hair. He didn't I did not wear my hair curly until up until two years ago like Like he was just I just wore straight all the time and then when I started wearing it curly He was like you're not gonna do your hair. I'm like it is done. He's like, oh he didn't like it at first but He got used to it and he started liking it and you know, but I don't think he would have approached me Honestly, if it was curly like I'm just being honest. I don't think he would approach me if it was like curly I mean, he might have but I don't know if he would I don't know I did I can't really say if he would or not but Some men just have this vision in their mind and it could be you know Just how they prefer women to look. I don't know Can you talk about tattoos when I'm in my husband? I didn't have any tattoos But I think that if you have too many it looks trashy So if you're gonna get some hide them to where like you can't see them when you wear clothing or you know, they're not too Big or they're not too, you know Everywhere like you may one or two or three, you know, I know a lot of girls will go get a bunch of them and I'm cool, but like You know some men like it, I don't know But I mean you can get a removed if you regret them. I have two tattoos And I got them after I was married for many many years, you know I got my first tattoo at 33 years old. Okay. I'm like, oh God and I'm like And my husband paid for him, so it was it was a gift. It was a birthday gift on my 33rd birthday Okay, I met a man. He said he was a freemason. I know nothing about that. Should I date him? Um go research it. You don't know if you don't know something about something go research it. Okay, that's like the smart thing to do and you figured out I can't tell you who to date, you know Most of the presidents are freemasons or they're in some type of secret society, so How do you get into good manifesting frequency when most of the time you're sad get happy? You can't be sad and manifest something good. You gotta be happy make yourself happy pretend You're happy until you become happy. Okay, it's not being sad. There's it's a waste of time You can't be sad. I mean unless somebody died Yeah And like ladies classy is also being able to hold a conversation and not just talk about the new Celebrity news know some stuff. Okay, go research a subject so you can talk about it when when you're put on the spot You know what I'm saying? Don't just be dumb and ignorant. Go learn something. I don't even care what it is You know to memorize some quotes or you know read something so that you can talk intelligently about something Because if you can't hold a conversation and you just look good then you're not wife material You know what I'm saying? And you know when you speak make sure you're speaking um Not using a bunch of cuss words, you know If if you're if you're if you're a potty mouth That's not classy either because people are going to stare at you when you're talking like if you're in a restaurant You're just oh, I'm beat beat beat people Oh, she must be from the hood, you know Or she must she must be from a trashy family Oh now you you speak Without cursing You speak slowly not too slow, but you speak slowly so that they can understand the words that are coming out of your mouth You pronounce your words How insecurities in your relationship in your next video insecurities insecurity If you have insecurities Get over on okay, if you're not securing yourself the man is not going to See you You know The man is going to see all the flaws you point out. Okay, if you're insecure about something become proud of it Okay, flaunt it Okay, if there's something wrong with you accept it flaunt it work it, you know what I'm saying for me Or if you're insecure about like a man cheating and you think he's cheating then you chose the wrong man, okay? Um If you're insecure about that and you really feel he's cheating he probably is you know If you think he's going to cheat because your last boyfriend cheated then you probably picked a similar type of guy Which you shouldn't have you should have upgraded by now Okay What about piercings? I have a lot of ears nose Take them out when you go when you're trying to find man Take those piercings out unless you're looking for the same type of man with a bunch of piercings You know if you're looking for a classy high class Guy take this to take it out You know Because that's going to turn them off when they see that you know if you go and watch youtube videos Like what do you think about piercings guys are going to be acting like oh no, you know Uh, it's it's pretty on some people, but when someone's looking for a wife They don't go for the piercings they go for Somebody that looks classy and nice, you know unless they are into piercings too You know what i'm saying because you don't find someone like minded and take it out, you know take it out. Let's see Do you believe that women should always look good? What's classy for you? If you're sick You don't you don't need to look good if you're sick, okay If you wake up and you just don't care no one else will either, okay um I never go out my house looking crazy unless i'm going to the gym or something like that like But i never go anywhere else looking crazy But when you go to the gym, you know, you can put on a hat and stuff like that and i put my sunglasses on But you shouldn't go out looking bad because you'll start to feel bad, you know, you'll start. Oh, I look bad today I shouldn't have came out or uh, you know, you might see a cute guy smiling I mean he ain't looking at you because you look raggedy and you're like dang if i would have been dressed up I could have got you know some attention or he might have approached me You know, you never know who you're going to run into when you're out, you know I've run into basketball players in the grocery store and if I was looking raggedy, I would have been embarrassed, you know what i'm saying Like the gym that I go to like it's in a really nice area and there's lots of Athletes that work out there lots of millionaires So I can't you know when I go to the gym. I at least put on my eyebrows, you know, I might not have anything else on But you know I got something So you want to look decent everywhere you go because you never know where you're going to meet your potential husband You know, you don't have to get all made up just put something on put something decent on because What if you walk out your house? Go to the store or go to the mall or the post office and there he is the man of your dreams the man You've been manifesting and you look like you just rolled out the bed And then another woman walks by who looks good smells good got on nice outfit and he goes for her And you look better than her when you're dressed up what you're gonna do you're gonna be mad You're gonna be kicking yourself. I'm like, dang. I should have just put on that outfit and Put some lip gloss on just put that hair good, you know make my hair look good or something I had times just being lazy I just wanted to sleep that extra 30 minutes. No, you need to get up and look good You know you had to put effort into your looks Okay, if men put effort into making money to spend on you you got to put effort into making them look good About you looking good. You know what I'm saying? And I put this I posted this one video on my group and it was this girl. She did not look You know, she looked blah really bad. She looked she didn't look bad, but she didn't look good either until she put all her makeup wig and she looked like a Movie star, you know what I'm saying? So there's no excuse for anybody like you I have seen makeup artists take an ugly woman and make them beautiful Okay, if you if you don't feel good about your looks and if you're insecure about your looks learn how to do makeup, okay? Learn how to do makeup Clothes from express that's classy, right? They have some nice pieces that express. Yeah, I used to shop there I just offered a hundred dollars a day spending money. Oh my god. Oh good You got a hundred dollars. That's good a day. That's wow Okay, you used to work in katie and all the athletes were in their area. Yeah, I told I live in katie texas y'all It's like the suburbs of houston outside of houston There are a lot of athletes out here a lot a lot of women are asking me. Who should I move to texas? Yep There's athletes everywhere. They have like two big major teams here um They're everywhere. I see them all the time. I used to date one I'm back in the day I used to date a basketball player. I'm not going to tell y'all his name But I used to date a basketball player who was like six nine six nine Okay, that's tall. I felt short. I'm five ten. So I felt short to him. Um I met him one night in a club and I was like drunk. Oh my god. I was so drunk. Uh, I didn't even Uh, he came up to me and he was like asking me for my number and everybody was leaving the club And I was like me and my sister were still leaving and I was like I wasn't interested right because I was so drunk I didn't even see him my sister was like girl. Give him your number. Give him your number. I'm like, uh She gave him my number. I was like, okay um, whatever and uh I was so drunk. I forgot that I gave anybody my number like two days later. I get a phone call and Somebody's saying, oh, this is such as such. I'm like, who he said his last name. I don't know anybody last now Like who he's like, I met you The other night in the club. I'm like, oh Well, what do you look like? and he said, well I'm about six nine. I'm like, I would have remembered if I met somebody six nine you lying like I'll tell you really He's like, I'm six nine. I'm like, yeah, whatever and so He was like, well, why don't you come meet me? I'm like meet you Um Like I don't know you so he had to tell me. Oh, well, I play basketball. You don't remember me. I'm like, okay Now I want to meet you tonight. Okay. Well, I'm you know where I didn't like I didn't believe him and I was like, yeah Whatever, this somebody's cat fishing me, right? so he uh He said, okay, well meet me at I hop. I'm like, uh um And so I'm I get dressed. I just put on some khaki like capri pants and a white White hoodie Uh fitted shirt put my back then I was looking good. Yo And my hair looked like this but it was longer and I was a lot thinner and so um He's he called me when I was driving. He's like, uh, meet me at the gas station instead. I'm like I don't do this like I ain't gonna meet you at the gas station um He said it's right next to I hop I just got my food to go because I don't like to eat public because people keep asking me for autographs I'm like, oh, okay. Whatever. Okay. Now I gotta go see but go to the gas station And I walk Into the little convenience store and I see just like, uh, Bentley getting gas his assistant or His flunky or whatever getting gas and he I see this tall guy. I'm like, he was telling the truth And I walked out there and I wasn't all extra fixed up like a like a uh, like a groupie or nothing I had on khaki Capri pants sandals and a white hoodie fitted shirt and my hair like this barely any makeup But I did have like, you know, I did have some so I looked up at Wow, I'm like He's like, so you don't remember me. I'm like a little bit. I was lying. I did not remember him I was like a little bit. He's like, oh, well I'm such a such. It was nice to meet you. I just wanted to give you a call to see if you want to hang out sometime Um, I'm going to this club, you know tomorrow And I want to see if you want to meet me there blah blah blah blah. I bring your friends. I'm like, uh, okay um So we we kind of started dating after that and he had this huge Mansion and like three cars you got like a Bentley or some other like Sports car. He couldn't really fit in that one, but I don't know how he was driving that Uh, but he was he had a nice house. Okay Um, and we I would go over there. He had this huge bed. I don't even know Do they make that? Like it was like two kings out of bed put together because he's so tall And yeah, we dated for a while. It was fun. Um But it had to end because He was not trying to sell down and I was not trying to uh be some groupie So I was like, uh, he called me one day And he was like, why don't you come over and I'm like, I'm busy. I gotta go to school tomorrow. You know, um I just kept blowing him off. Like I dumped him And I was like, yeah, I gotta go to school tomorrow. I don't have time and he's like, okay Okay, and so then he just stopped calling all together and so I was like Uh, because at that point I was loving that lifestyle. I was loving all of that, but I wanted something serious. So I'm like, okay My next mission in life is to get a Serious boyfriend who will take care of me because he wasn't taking care of me He was just like, you know, he would buy me gifts take me out But he wasn't taking care of me. So I was like, I gotta find somebody to take care of me You know what I'm saying? So I was still going to school and working and I started working and uh You know, I would date guys, you know That were up there, you know financially and then um, Maybe a year later, not even a year later Yeah Seven months later. Maybe I met my husband And we were we were in this club one night me and my husband and we the basketball player walks in And he looks at me and he he's looked at my husband. He's like he shook his hand and said you got a good one And that's right there. My husband knew that he was never gonna let me go because I was I was validated by an NBA player That's it. I got a good one and I already told him I used to date him. So he he was a surprise, but he was like impressed, okay, so ladies if you dated a celebrity or A basketball player, you know, it validates you more and man will like Man will like want you to you know to be with them because like, oh, yeah I I date such and such and she used to date an NBA player. You know, it kind of ups ups your auntie. So If you can get one Life is a game gotta play it. Yeah, okay, so And like when I met him I was dressed very classy like even for the club I had on some brown tan I look like Pocahontas basically I had like this Indian outfit on like this Native American outfit on it was like a brown leather suede vest But it was laced up and then I had some I don't know if I had on jeans or something. I don't know and then just some heels That's all I had on I wasn't overdone. You know and just looked cute anyways Yeah, if you um There are lots of guys just want something casual But you see when you when you practice with them You know how men wealthy men think and so when you find one that you want to make Yours, you know how to think you know how to play the game You know how to you know push their buttons You know how to get their attention because you've been practicing casually, you know what I'm saying? So it's good practice, you know Believe me. I know how guys think with money I know what they'll spend money on what they won't spend money on and you have to kind of get in their mind That's why it's good to practice with somebody else And then when you want this, you know to commit to someone and you want them to commit to you You already know how they think so you can navigate around it Okay Mm-hmm Um, I was gonna do a video on like the top places to meet wealthy wealthy man I think I already did that video a long time ago, but I can redo it You know for modern day society um Yeah, okay, so I can't stay on make Okay, someone said make jesus christ the love of your life. You will never let you down. Um That's a lot of problems with women these days. They feel like oh, I love jesus I don't you know, I don't need a man and they put jesus before their own man You know and that's a problem to me like uh, Jesus is not here. Jesus is not paying your bills. Jesus is not you know making sure That you have a place to live in a nice car. Okay, you're doing that or your man is doing that or your parents are doing that So you need to treat your man with more respect, you know, and you can't use religion to make him feel bad You know, that's dumb Women that do that are too patrolling, you know, I feel like oh Will you need to be faithful because the bible says this bible says no No, I need to be faithful because I want to be faithful to you not because the bible says I should be faithful I want to be faithful because you deserve me to be faithful to you. You know what i'm saying I want to be faithful because You have everything I want a lot of women say oh well all you need is jesus Nope, most of them people that all they need is jesus are single in the church Looking for men who don't want to be put number two. Okay, if jesus is your boyfriend Good for you, but I tell my husband every day. I was like, thank you. I said, thank you he'll uh He'll and he'll he'll joke around he'll say yes He'll give me a nice gift and he'll say, you know, you're very blessed. I was like, yeah, I'm blessed by you. Thank you So it's you're very blessed to have me. I was like, yep you see, uh He's a thank god you found me. I was like, well, no, I'm thanking you You thank you for wanting me, you know, so I give him the credit. I give him the praise. I give him the honor, you know Because he don't have to do that. You know what I'm saying? A lot of men I've talked to a lot of men and they get mad when their woman or jesus freaks They don't like it. They say, oh, they always making me feel like number two or oh They always want me to do this and that and go to church. I'm not a church person Oh, you know, they always talking about jesus this and jesus that they don't need me because love their life Well, you know what y'all gonna be some lonely women From lonely women, but y'all still gonna have jesus Okay, so when you're with a man, don't be don't be throwing all that jesus stuff on him Okay, sometimes guys don't want to hear all that, you know, don't throw your religion in it. Some guys are not religious You know, they're more spiritual or they don't really buy into it If they do if that's the kind of man you're with and he all he talked about is jesus jesus jesus You know, he's gonna put jesus before you and you're gonna feel bad. You know, he's gonna he's gonna manipulate you with the bible Okay, a good woman listen to her husband And knows when to shut up. Okay, then he's gonna start throwing it on you So y'all don't bring religion into it unless Y'all met at church. Okay, then maybe, you know, but Don't be putting deities that you know before your man, especially You know in this day and age don't do that Okay Um I have I have I have talked to millionaires and guys most millionaires most rich men do not subscribe to religion Okay, I have talked to millionaires online who have said, uh You know, I met this perfect girl, but then she started talking about jesus Or then she started talking about religion and I was out, you know, so religion and politics skip them Okay So not what's not true anyways So I gotta go I have errands to run today Yes, this is my errand look Because I look when I go run errands. I look I look because I don't know, you know, I gotta represent, you know If you if you live in a nice neighborhood nice house, you know got a nice family You gotta represent that and can't go out looking crazy and like oh, I saw such and such other day looking bad Is she drinking? You know Please receive jesus christ now. Y'all stop trolling in the comments. Okay That is crazy y'all some most people aren't a lot of people aren't christian. Okay, and y'all have to accept that Okay Would you go to india and tell a bunch of hindu people to accept jesus christ? No, don't do it here Okay, anyways, let me read some of these last comments that I'm about to go Okay, there's some uh Some trolls in the comments, you know um Well, I guess that means it's time for me to go because I really do better go Um, that's why I came on early because I have to leave but I will see y'all later Every monday. I'm going to open up my facebook page From secret to you know Open so uh, I can invite people or y'all can get in the group Um a secret for now because a lot of women don't want to be exposed So we've got to keep it secret. So if y'all want in every monday, I'm going to open the group And y'all can get in okay. I'll see y'all later Thank you. Bye. Bye