 Someone who actually cares person for almost I'm not saying that anyone out there who is a sponsor doesn't care I'm just saying someone's who who is assertive enough to utilize his or her experience to ensure that their new gain is comfortable and relaxed and release some of the stress that they're they're suffering while they're here let's face it each and every one of us who reported on board for the first time there's a terrible amount of stress all right where it's where's my family going to live how am I going to get around if they live on economy how are they going to get food because all that's noodle unknown so a good sponsor would definitely try to release some of that take them around show them the sites show them where they can get some other stuff gas food so and so forth if anything if they have any friends out in town introduce them so every command sponsor program if it had a you know top ten things or so I wish I knew before I got here that you know you could have in your sponsor folder you know a word document or something into that effect that you know every sponsor could pull as part of their package and just kind of send out to that new inbound and just say hey here's some you know top ten or so questions that we've had you know before we got here that we wish we knew so maybe this can help jog your your senses or stir up some more questions don't wait for things to happen to you make them happen for you