 Let's just say for argument's sake, you're with a guy who's actually emotionally mature now, but you're kind of your or let's just say he's that fender type right on the cusp of becoming a grower that guy that you don't even have to second guess if he wants a relationship. How is he going to show up? What's it going to look like? How does he show he cares? Well, that's what we have today. Our seven ways men show they care when you're the one. So and I want you to know ladies, these men do exist. Most men are good guys. Most men are good guys. They're not as bad. Even the dysfunctional men, even the spenders, they're not bad guys. And by the way, these percentages are equal for you women as well. Just because you have a compensity or a propensity to what commitment doesn't mean you're any better at relationships. I know a lot of women that are absolutely dysfunctional. And just because they want commitment doesn't make them better at being in relationship.