 Hey team, so we have not done a sensual session in a long minute, so I knew if we were going to get back into it, we were going to have to raise the stakes. So we, I mean we collectively, are going to attempt the sexual private dance. I'm your private dancer, do what you want with me, take what you want. Okay, we're not going to sing, we're going to be serious, we're going to be sexy about this. Now the thing with the sexual dance is that it can literally go one of two ways. It can be sensual and beautiful and awesome or downright silly. Like there's no in between and I know this because I've attempted it twice in my little life and both times it's been motherfucking silly. It's been silly as shit. The first time I tried it I wore socks on hardwood floor, can't recall the song, do recall getting three moves into it, whoop, whoop, whoop, whoop, whoop, I slipped. So fast forward now, time number two. I realized that I needed to do a little bit more prep work and this was somebody who lived far away so I was going to visit them so I really wanted to like wow. And what better way to wow them than with a sexual dance by a woman who can pop it into the splits. We're going to get to that part later. First we're going to start off by this ridiculousness. To train for this sexual dance I played Michael Jackson experience on the wheat every single day. I don't know what I played the game, that is not training day for a sexy dance but for some reason in my mind this made perfect sense. And I also stretched every single day in attempts to get into the splits. Now I know that shit impresses people and I kind of like those little things that impress dudes. Like I drive a standard car and when a guy comes in he's like oh you drive standard jeez. Yeah it's like whatever it doesn't everybody. I know everyone doesn't drive no standard car. So I wanted to be the girl who did the splits. Long story short I get there, I've trained, I got this far off the ground in my practice so I kind of felt like with the extra adrenaline of game day I would be able to get right into it. I didn't stretch before and we were making out and it was like getting all hot and heavy and then I pushed him back and I looked at him in the eyes and I gave him a little hair flip and I popped it into the splits from a standing position. Whoa. I got all the way down to the ground. I did do the splits but when I got there the sound that I heard I knew it wasn't right. It wasn't going to be right ever again after that moment. Like literally rip your jeans in half. That is the sound of my ligaments tearing that I will have in my brain for the rest of my life and there was almost immediate bruising to the area actually because when you do pull a muscle you get internal bleeding and it turns into a big disgusting bruise. So this is a big deal people. For me to be returning to the sexy dance and to give it a second attempt I'm going to do it because I think a sensual woman is somebody who knows how to seduce and not necessarily somebody knows how to seduce herself knows how to get into that place and feel great about how she moves you know both in and out of the bedroom. So I realized Michael Jackson can't get me there so I went to my friend Gia. So confession time. I did not change for the lesson but we're going to get to this part later. First of all I want you guys to learn more about Gia. Hi everyone my name is Gia Von Tate and I am a professional dancer, pyro and taste maker. I did some burlesque and some fetish clubs I've got a little experience and everything. My attraction to the art of go-go dancing or to the art of seduction came probably like around 21 where I actually became an entertainer and I made it my goal every night that I worked to make sure that every time I hit that stage I made everybody's head turn and I think it's energy and eye contact and just simple movements it's very very simple movements and just confidence you have to be very confident in yourself. I was just like everyone else I didn't know where to start I went to YouTube, Google and YouTube and I just started typing in keywords, exotic dancing, pull tricks I got involved with different types of music I found a couple places or a couple websites as far as like OC pull fitness which is here in LA and I stuck to different dancers that have attracted me I even looked at pull show fitness like competitions and I just wanted to see what it was like once I figured out that I had the strength and the muscle to do it it all became more of like how can I put this into a show how can I make this into a show anyone can learn how to seduce an intern size a woman or a man it just takes simple steps and I think I'm like a slow motion person anything I think I'm a big believer in slow motion makes everything look good so hair flips in slow motion is my advice to making everything look good to me sensuality is letting go and giving letting go of that energy that you're holding in that you're giving off it's like feeling yourself not the Beyonce way though not egotistic but like damn you know like I'm a woman embrace yourself embrace your curves embrace your beauty embrace what you were here to do you were here to be an attraction to be an apple so why not embrace it so first thing is first I showed you all my very best moves and my convincing faces that showed her like I'm a mouse BAWS when it comes to the dance floor and she gave me a little bit of a guide or she just said she took what I was already doing and just made it less ridiculous I kind of learned a couple stuff after watching the tape like I'm way too damn straight what Gio is always doing is there was always a bend so it really is so much about body positioning now even the first thing you learn when it comes to being sensual at all times in your body language is you have to put an s in your step no matter how you're standing there has to be a curve to it that is what entices and attracts to a woman is what makes a woman woman Lee's sensual so you should always have your head one way your hips the other pointed toes save the damn day when I was looking at this cave back and saw my flat ass feet and sneakers versus her dainty pointed toes I thought that was really hot so that kind of gave me a great thing too because you may not have to be in heels you can be in stockings as long as you keep those toes on point you're going to make it look hot as hell another tip as well too that's great to learn is try moves that look hard but are pretty simple also do one move at a time I think in the past I was trying to do a lot with a little tiny bit of actual experience and when I watched Gia I noticed she sometimes is only just moving her hair back and forth or just running her hand along her bra she didn't have this pressure to be doing the split or to be doing a handstand or to be swinging around a pole it's just subtle movements that bring attention to your sensuality that can make the dance effective all right guys I do not have a man in my life right now so you are in luck I'm going to attempt my third sexual dance for you and I hope that you are copiously turned on and let me know what you guys think in the comment section below and if you have any stories with sexual dances have you ever tried it before I would love to hear them and also I'm going to put a link below I wrote a short story about a hilarious attempt at a sexual dance that essentially ended in a trip to the hospital so it's on my Wattpad find that link below and be sure to tell me your stories and in the meantime presenting Shannon Boudram like you've never seen her before I'm going to say do a video before you do the live thing because with a video you can chop it up you can take breaks in between on top of that please like this video that makes a huge difference subscribe if you haven't already done that and share this video with anybody who has ever attempted or is thinking of attempting the sensual dance and last but not least check out the Wattpad because I know you guys will find this story freaking hilarious until next time my sensual goddesses