 When the narcissist pushes an empath too far, the narcissist always mistreated you. They took things from you. They portrayed you as less impressive or important. They made you feel small. They made you feel less than who you really are, and they couldn't stop doing it. They were out of control. They took unfair advantage of you. They did things to harm you and upset you. When you were already in a difficult and unpleasant situation, they attacked and criticized you. When you were vulnerable, but they always tried to do a little more than what was tolerable. They tried to push you to the limit because they lack compassion. They lack morality, and that is why you may no longer be with them, because they're never at rest. They have no cut-off point for the abuse. There's no level or limit at which they decide that it should stop happening. They just keep going. They put all of their efforts into attacking you. They continue to manipulate you. They continue to destroy you, but if they had just given you some space, if they had just given you a day of ordinary behavior without any weirdness, without any abuse, maybe you would still be with them, but it's like all they know is how to abuse you. It's like that's the only thing they know how to do. They don't know how to be compassionate. They never learned how to do that, which is why when you were in the relationship, you were extremely cautious about your words and actions. You were very careful to not offend or upset them. You were constantly confused and dizzy. You were on high alert. You were always ready, because there was a strong possibility of an attack or of something dangerous happening. So the narcissist put themselves in a difficult and hopeless situation, because they did something wrong. They messed it up, which was good for you. It benefited you. It gave you the advantage, because they pushed you to the limit of what you were willing to tolerate. They pushed you over the edge of what you were willing to accept. They invalidated you. They made you walk on eggshells. They isolated you, because that's all they know how to do. They don't know how to do anything else. They don't know how to examine their own thoughts and feelings. They don't know how to look themselves and realize that they've ruined someone's life. They just know how to manipulate you. They know how to destroy. They know how to push you too far, until you end up watching my videos and realizing that you were with a narcissist. The narcissist takes everything you have until there's nothing left. They rob you, but then if they see that they missed something, if they see that you still have some morsels, some tiny fragments that you are using to sustain yourself, they will come back and try to finish you off, because they have no compassion for you. They only feel for themselves, but if they had refrained from doing it, even for a moment, there is a possibility that you would still be with them and they'd still be lying to you. They'd still be deceiving you and plotting to destroy you, but you would be tolerating it, because you are a kind, loving person, but they pushed you too far. And once that is done, it cannot be undone, there's no going back. They had a choice to leave you, once they had broken you down. They may not have found someone with the same qualities as you, but they could have found someone else who was willing to provide for them, but instead they chose to continue. They chose to push you to the edge of what you're willing to tolerate. They chose to destroy you and then play the victim until they gain new supply, but that's just how they play the game. That's how they get their way, they're drama queens, they react to situations in an unnecessarily dramatic and exaggerated way, because they're over-emotional, so they ended up defeating themselves, unintentionally with their own schemes. Their efforts resulted in their own disadvantage, because they shot themselves in the foot. You may have decided to end the relationship, and you may have become a super empath, where you are now more sensitive to other people's pain or misfortune, because you have now strengthened your ability to understand the experiences and feelings of other people, outside of your own perspective. Thank you for watching, I hope this video ends it with you, please like, comment, share and subscribe. If you would like to donate, my paypal link is in the video description, coaching inquiries, you can email me at coachingatmarksa5.uk. Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.