 It's taught me that if you're not humble, you will be humiliated. And what I mean by that is, is a pickup artist, I wanted to screw a bunch of chicks, I wanted to have sex, I wanted to have multiple long-term relationships. The term SNL was coined by my group in Dallas, it didn't even exist. It was called a fool's mate, and we perfected it, man. I went through two years, 2007, 2008, and had a lot of interactions with women. But I also had the worst sex of my life, and also faced the biggest demons of my life that will still carry out through this day. And what I mean by that is that when you're messing with something divine, when you're messing with something powerful and you're not respecting it, when you're not humble, you will be humiliated. And I think the next phase of life for people is to truly experience those things. Your lifestyle, how you live, your mentality, and what gets rooted through that is one of the most important things that you can have. And you don't need to have a lot of women to have that. You don't need to have tons of lays, you don't need to go and perform in front of chicks. What you need to do is be able to share an intimate moment, a spiritual experience, in my opinion, and I don't mean that in a religious way, but what I mean is that when you're talking to one person, and you're truly being yourself, especially in its rawest moment where seduction taught me where you're naked and completely vulnerable with a woman, that you're open to the world. And if you're hiding from anything, if you're angry about anything, and I'm not saying that anger is bad. I'm not saying that shame is even bad because when you empower those things, you really realize who you are. An ultimate expression, human expression, that organic thing is beautiful. Now, when you're experiencing on that level, whether it's travel or going to school or working in your job in whatever ways, if you can truly be who you are and be in that moment, I'm sure as we answer more questions and whatnot, that'll make more sense. Being yourself in that moment, whether it's with a woman or you're doing exercise or any of those things, it's impossible to be unauthentic. And if you are, it's going to confront you in a multitude of ways. So I don't know, man, you're on a pretty bad-ass path. I got to say that just from talking to you and knowing you and seeing the change that's happened. But mentality is a big thing, and I think that's going to come out as we continue to talk and dialogue throughout this. Want to just go in order? I'm up for it. Whoever else wants to ask another question? I think I'm still in the sort of first phases of going through it as a seduction. That's cool. What's up? My question would be, what number one advice would you give someone who's coming into this fairly new, trying to learn the process and basically? Hold on to that, Mike. Because my number one advice is, I think if you're not being sexual, you're wasting time. If you're being social, then you guys can all go back and watch the amazing good friend of mine, teacher, whatever he wants to call himself, Jason Savage of Speech 21 Convention in Sweden. There's a difference between being sexual and being social. You use social behavior to get sexual, but they're two very different things. They're very different. Like what makes sex work, what makes women turned on, what makes you turned on has socialization as a catalyst. That's like saying waking up teaches you seduction. So as Jason taught me a long time ago after his speech, he came back and met with me in Austin. He said, man, if you are not getting sexual by any means possible, get sexual. That is the most important thing. However, people are like, well, what do I do? I can't just press a button and make sex happen. And a lot of other guys that I talk to or whatever will say different processes for that. But the reason why I wanted you to hold on to the mic is I want to know what where you at, man? What's happening? What's your social sexual life like right now? Trying a bit of day game and that's it really. Just trying out different things really. I think I'm trying to find my own kind of style if that sort of makes sense. So when we first learn things, we have to realize that our overall ideas, that seduction is organic. We can compartmentalize it and all that sort of stuff. But our feelings of true sensuality, our feelings of connecting with somebody, whether that's emotional or it's just raw, raw sexual behavior. It's an organic thing. It actually has nothing to do with our production mentality. So our production mentality is to do as much work as possible. Our production mentality is to go in a system, it's to achieve the most. It's to get to a goal where seduction isn't that. It's this pathless path. It's crazy and far out as that may sound. We need to realize that that's our bigger picture that we're going for. So that's like way up here, right? But as we're learning that, what's the best way to learn stuff? Mimicry, routine, some sort of structure put together that we can follow. However, when we start getting results in that, here's where it starts to be a problem, okay? When we start getting results in that and we don't evolve and we stay the same and we limit ourselves by that structure, then it becomes impossible for seduction to reach our best self. For instance, okay, so you like day game. Day game's cool, great. If I start getting results in a day game environment and seeing my window for like, yeah, I'm going to kick ass. I'm going to have awesome chicks. I'm finally going to get this thing in my life handled. You immediately limit it by that or if you only put it in terms of pickup because socialization, seduction, life, you know, your dreams, ambitions, what you're capable in a human experience is way out here, you know? No, that's definitely right because as soon as I've been going back to my, I think I was saying to the guys earlier, as soon as I've gone back to my kind of like, my interests and what I used to do maybe say like a couple years ago, like for example, going back to the gym, you know, getting into more traveling for example, you know, I'm building up those experiences and automatically the interactions are getting a lot better. So you're absolutely right, yeah. Okay, and that's a good thing but the next thing you can do is learn how to assert yourself in a better way. Now there's plenty of information. Here, I'll tell you this right now. As you evolve, you've got to realize that there isn't like a compartmentalization of game, all right? Now don't get me wrong. There's like day game, there's night game, there's club game, there's dance floor game, there's, you know, all this sort of stuff. But ultimately it falls under this umbrella of that you're going to communicate with somebody else and we have to look at that grand expansion of seduction is a large and giant thing. But I would say the number one thing or the number two thing just behind getting sexual as quick as possible is you've got to learn how to assert yourself. The only reasons why, and we have a lot of questions so I can't, I'll get as specific as I can. The only reason why somebody rejects you man, there's three reasons, right? Number one, you didn't assert yourself properly. That means you didn't have the right technique or you didn't have the right approach or you fucked up, you got nervous, you just ran out of things to say, it's all those things, right? It's the number one thing. Number two is you guys weren't qualified to talk to each other. That means that you guys, you know, you weren't right for her, she wasn't right for you, whatever, maybe you thought she was the shit but she rejected you and it sucks, you know? If I think I can control sex or seduction, then man, believe me, I've tried. Believe me, I've tried, I've done a lot of stuff too. And God, I think I gave it a valiant effort but I find it's much happier when I'm going with the flow of things. And then that third reason is the situation wasn't there. You know, maybe there was some chaos happening in her life or chaos happening in the surroundings and all those things. But what's so important