 How to make a narcissist regret their actions? After everything the narcissist did to you You may want them to feel regret You may want them to feel like they have made the wrong decision Because they put you through things that you didn't want to go through And that may be why you are watching this video Because you've realized they don't care about what they did to you They don't care about how it made you feel As long as they're getting their needs met That's all that matters to them. It's all about them Your needs are not important As long as they're okay As long as they've got their needs met they don't care about what happens to you There is a way to make the narcissist regret their actions And that is by going no contact by taking your attention away from them Because when you do that They will sense it and they won't like it Because they need your attention They need you to attend to them. They need you to take them places They need you to do things for them and when you give them your kindness and generosity It validates them. It gives them an advantage They profit from being with you. They reap the benefits and rewards Because you are a high value person You are kind and compassionate And that's what they want They can use that to their advantage It allows them to prosper and flourish But when you stop making your life about them And you begin to focus on your own needs They don't like it Because you're not providing value to them anymore. So they get bored They begin to look for other people to give them attention and validation Because it's like their oxygen They need it to survive Which is why they don't like it when you take it away from them because they're heavily dependent on it If you take it away, it leaves a void When you go no contact They will feel your energy slipping away And they will want it back So they may hoover you they may try to come back because they desire it You have what they want But they recognize that you don't care about them anymore Which just makes them want it even more Because they can't have it you're not giving it to them which presents the challenge to them Because they always want things they can't have So to make the narcissist regret the rations you need to go no contact You need to take your attention away from them You need to start focusing on yourself So that you become stronger and healthier And when you do that they will notice and they will want you back Because they see that you have changed But by that time you will have moved on And you will no longer want them You won't care about making them regret their actions You won't care about getting revenge Because you've already given yourself the closure that you needed from them You realize that it was never about you It was never about anything that you did wrong The relationship was destined to end because they never considered you They only cared about themselves They weren't trying to build a relationship with you They just needed to see what they could get from you And once they had gotten what they wanted they were planning to discard you So it wasn't going to end any other way Your actions didn't influence the outcome or results It was already predetermined because of their toxic mindset Because they're self-absorbed and they lack empathy So there's no point trying to make them regret their actions It doesn't matter if they want to come back It doesn't matter if they want to talk to you or if they want to give something to you What can they give you? If they had anything of value to give You would have seen it by now They can't give you anything that you can't give yourself So they have no value They can only give you an illusion They can only sell you a dream They repeat the same patterns of behavior again and again because it gets some results It gives them what they want But it's short-lived It only lasts for a few months And then they have to find someone else They can't sustain a relationship So no one will ever be good enough And they don't even think about what they did to you They don't care They don't examine their own behavior They don't think about the effects that it's had on you They don't self-reflect They mirror your behavior So when you start focusing on yourself And you take your attention away from them They will start to see a reflection of their own insignificance And they will want it back You need to start looking after yourself You need to build yourself up You need to live your life the way you want to You need to feel fulfilled You need to be a high-value person And to do that you need space to be you Because that will teach them a lesson more than anything else You're not going to get through to them with words They won't even listen Because they don't want to understand They don't want to be told that they've done something wrong But they will be forced to recognize your absence And that will communicate something back to them It will tell them everything they need to know Thank you for watching I hope this video resonated with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching Inquiries You can email me at coaching.naxviver.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon