 No, I mean, today's conversations are so surface level, it's no wonder. And what happens is when you have surface level conversations, romance ends up being the primary driving force of the relationship and you find yourself attached to someone who might be a total nightmare. I had one woman write me on YouTube saying I had an eight week experience. You know, we saw each other two or three times per week. And I'm gonna get big proponent of spending a lot of time together in a short period of time. And she was just to start having feelings and then all of his stuff started to implode in this dynamic. And she basically, she got to see the real guy instead of the image that he was projecting. And this is what happens in a lot of dating dynamics today is we see what Chris Rock calls the ambassador of someone's best self.