 Hi, I'm Matthew coast head dating coach and founder of commitment connection calm and today We're gonna talk about what attracts men to women So if you want to attract a guy to you, then you need to understand what attracts men to women So let me first I first want to just tell you what does not attract men to women because this is very important When I say these things, I'm not saying that they're unattractive Like they will push men away What I'm saying is that men won't be attracted to you for these reasons Right. So being a first one is being a masculine woman. That's not attractive to men that could actually push a guy away, but Yeah, it's just not attractive. There's nothing attractive about being a masculine woman And if you want to know whether you're a masculine or feminine woman, go check out my website because I talk about it on there The second one is being a strong independent woman now You can be an attractive strong independent woman and you can also be an unattractive strong independent woman So being a strong independent woman has nothing to do with your attractiveness So if you're trying to attract a man by being a strong independent woman Just realize that men aren't attracted to that So the next one is thinking that men are the problem I run into women all the time that are like, why are you a women's dating coach? You should be working with men men are the problem, you know, and that's just Incredibly unattractive. It's that thought process right there that keeps them single So again, that's another one that does actually push men away So the next one is trying to fix men or make them the way you want them to be so this is this is actually another one that's kind of repulsive to men and and You know Think about it this way, right? You want to find a man who accepts you and loves you for who you are Well, men want to find a woman who accepts them and loves them for who they are and a lot of women are just so focused on Fixing men and and you know falling in love with their potential and not falling in love with who they are as men That's a problem. So let's talk about what attracts men to women And the first thing is feminine energy. I mean, this is incredibly attractive to men if you get in Contact in connection with your feminine energy. This is this can be such a turn on to guys I mean it is so attractive to men. It's ridiculous The next thing is youthfulness a lot of women are like, oh men only like the youngest, you know Prettiest woman they can find, you know, and there's some truth to that But what men really like is youthfulness. They like women who are playful. They like women who have a youthful Spirit a youthful energy. So the more youthfulness you can have the more attractive you can be to a man The third thing is value a woman who is valuable to him and His life and makes him look good, you know, men want women who are valuable to them So the more value you can bring to a man's life the more he will want to be The more attracted he will be to you And the last thing is connecting to his heart. So If you know much about men, you know that men most men anyway are kind of stuck in their heads, you know, they're logical They're very logical creatures a lot of men pride themselves on being logical so You know a thing that really attracts men to women is there a woman's connection to her emotions And so if you're connected to your emotions that can be incredibly attractive to men. There's kind of this Misconception out there that Men think that feelings or emotions are drama men don't feel like feelings and emotions or drama men feel like feelings and emotions with Expectations on how a man should act and what he should do and what he should say and all that kind of stuff That is dramatic to a man. Just being in your emotions and expressing your emotions in your feelings. That's incredibly attractive Trying to get a guy to do something based on your feelings and emotions. That is incredibly unattractive So remember that So that's it for this So the four things are feminine energy youthfulness value and connecting to his heart that's it for this video if you want more information on how to attract a Quality man into a committed lasting relationship. Make sure you go to my website at commitment connection calm and take my quiz I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon