 You don't owe anyone an explanation for taking care of yourself. You are allowed to step away from toxic people and situations. You are allowed to change your mind, your job, your appearance, your church, your location, your plans and priorities. You are allowed to change friends and destructive family ties. You are allowed to move on, upgrade and reinvent and you don't owe anyone an explanation. There may be those you trust to include in your thinking, but some will never understand your need to take care of yourself. Especially if it means they no longer have the same space in your life.