 And the rules of engagement are what I call the standards you're looking for in a relationship. And yet, sadly, many of you have not established your standards. So you're more than welcome to borrow the standard I use. And that is, I think, a healthy standard for two people in the early stages of dating. When I say early stage of dating, when two people have decided they want to explore a relationship together, exploring a relationship together, then here's a really good standard. You spend two, three, four days, nights, and weeks together doing shared activities, hobbies, mutual interests, spending time with family and friends, traveling together, teamwork, building skills both in your personal and your professional life, intimacy, both physical and emotional intimacy that leads to either moving in together, getting married, or maybe living together apart. That's something you might want to explore as well. OK, why is this so critically important?