 He has no problem working at your pace to establish a deeper relationship and deeper, you know, I was a shot of video the other day and it says men fall in love when they've actually developed deep intimacy with someone, a person that they truly believe they can share their most intimate thoughts and feelings as if they're their best friend and lover combined. And yes, sex is part of the decision-making process, no doubt, for men and women alike, but the same time. If you wanna avoid those men who go silent, then I encourage you to very early on establish emotional intimacy with someone. And if you're not familiar with emotional intimacy, I highly recommend checking out the book by Robert Masters called Emotional Intimacy.