 Because it's about your satisfaction, the experience you get when you get good food. I know there's nothing compares to that. That's why we brought the dollars in Studio Karibuni's son. Thank you. It's alright. Use the family. We actually do it together. Alright, you do it together? Yes. Your camera is not on. I've seen you guys on YouTube. I'm loving the vlogs already. So let's go. Khalifat, give them the bell. Give them the bell. Let's go. Hello everybody. We are the Delas. Yes, we are. We are back. Lots again with a lot of video. Lots to hear and watch. This is a lot of video. We are recording. We are recording. It's going to be up on YouTube. We are so excited to be in my 2 for 4. Yes. And we are the Delas. Yes, Karibuni Sana. Thank you. The Delas. Yes. It's a beautiful name. It's a good handle. And it falls right in place for the social media. And I've seen you guys doing amazing stuff. Pali YouTube. You are so passionate about food. Yes. I'm so surprised. I'm just so obese. With all that good food going on in the house. We cook nice food. Healthy food as well. Nice and healthy food. Whose birthday is it today? A video is premiering at around 10, I guess. It wasn't today. It wasn't today. It was my birthday on June 8th. Yes. Okay. She decided to surprise me with our indoors birthday because we can't go anywhere. Then we just decided to stay home. Exactly. We decided to make a small dinner table. She did a very nice job. She did a very nice job. I won't give every detail. Let everyone who is really eager to see what happens. Head straight to your YouTube channel. Share with them your YouTube channel so they can stalk you guys. Why we have this conversation. Our YouTube channel is at the Ndela's with a Z. At the Ndela's with a Z. Alright. I'd like to take you back to where the magic started. Where you saw her and said this. This is my future wife. This is my soulmate. Actually it started at church. At church? Yes. Which church is this? All Saints Cathedral. She was introduced to me. She was introduced to her by a mutual friend. And thank you man. You're welcome. You're welcome. Actually it started all as a friendship. We were very close friends. And we never saw it like we'll be here today. When we met. But a few years down the line of our friendship. It started. You know that... It starts ringing. What am I smiling at? Exactly. Being happy all of a sudden. You know one thing about... One thing behind our relationship and everything. Most people don't know is that. Apart from love of food obviously. Apart from love of food it's a long distance relationship. And you know being on a long distance relationship. Not a lot of people will survive. Not a lot of relationships will sustain. Not a lot of relationships will sustain. To a point by get married. And it's not like Nairobi, Mombasa. Or Kisumu, Mombasa. It was like countries. Who was abroad? You were abroad. You were back in Kenya. What were you doing back then? I was still in school. Studying what? International relations. International relations to this. Whatever you're doing right now. It's a fashion forum. How do you convince her that I'm coming back and you trust her? Actually we've been in communication. Communication is the core for it. Communication is the key. Because we wouldn't spend a day without talking. So we talk every day. Just as friends then. The relationship matured to becoming a relationship. So I... Actually there's a point between the relationship. We broke up. He was still in abroad. We broke up. We were back. Because you invested a lot. You invested a lot. So yes. Of course we were back. We talked things through. At that point I wasn't sure. When he came back. I wasn't sure but he made a move. Who were you with? Saudi. So Kijana took Saudi from abroad. But when he came back I wasn't sure. Because you remember we had broken up. So I wasn't sure when he came back. I was still... I was still tasting the water. If he's really sure. But he made a move of going to see my parents. Fast. And asking for forgiveness. For breaking my heart. Thank you. That's how you made a move. And that's how you got assured. This guy is serious. I see Kijana playing the three of us. My dad, my mom and myself. Yes. So when did you learn to be slow like this? No, you know how you've been brought up. In this life. People have brought up differently. But for me I've been brought up in a way that you learn to learn from your mistakes. And fix them. Learn from your mistakes. Don't wait anyone to come and help you fix your mistakes. Alright. Is this the motto that you live by in your marriage? Yes. Learn from your mistakes. Own them. And then you fix them. The way you fix them it's up to you. But you know there are steps of fixing a problem. Alright. Do you guys know about TikTok? Yes. You guys know each other since we are here. Opening and learning of our ways. Yes. Alright, so when I ask a question with a point. You know that. We've done it actually. Who's the better cook? Who's the better chef? I see, I see. Who is the funniest? Who is good with money? She's the chief finance. Alright. Who gets more distracted easily? Me. Alright. Who is more encouraged during hard times? Me. Alright, alright. Alright. Home. You guys know each other quite well. I love this. Thank you. Where did the cooking, the love for food go? The love for food, good healthy food come in, put out there to the public. I look at it as a two in one kind of vlog. It's a relationship vlog. You show people that being married doesn't have to be boring. At the same time, you teach us how to cook good healthy food. At what point? Me, you know, in my field of work, I've dealt with food safety. And you know when you're in a hotel where it's a huge hotel, it's a huge property and you are under that docket of food safety. Making sure that the food is safe for the guests and everyone to have. I took a lot of points there. When I came back and I realized the corona happened and we are indoors and there's so much to do and she used to enjoy every meal I make. I make out of food and I'm very very good. I won't say that I'm blowing my trumpet but she can tell, she can say it. I really, really like making good food and tasty. So here's the point. When you make good food and tasty with love, love is a soup. It completes everything. Really, because see you can't make good food for somebody you don't love. Valid point finally. Yes. You can never make food that you don't, you can't even eat yourself for somebody you don't love. Alright, so this came up time stay home. After a stay home situation. So you guys started to share your stories with the rest of the world. What are some of the fears you had going into this? Maybe starting with you. Actually for a long time we wanted to go into content creatives and YouTube and all but we've been holding back. Our excuse was no camera, we don't have these that you know. But times just got tough and we just had to take that step of faith and we just posted our first video he actually just was making hibiscus tea and he's like let me do this and he just put it there and that's just how we started. What was he making again? Hibiscus tea. Hibiscus flower tea. Where I come from we just drink tea. It's dried hibiscus flower which is really really nutritious. It has so many nutrients for your body Vitamin C and it adds also your blood count. It really really boosts your blood count. It boosts your blood count. Wow. So every time she's eating you know how many calories are going in there? Not really because sometimes she can be a junkie. But it's just that you improvise with what you have to make sure that you're safe. Because you know if everybody out there eats something which you are not sure it's not like we don't eat outside. We do sometimes. But we both like homemade food. Alright. And that brought us to this point whereby we reached now we were done cooking for us. We decided why can't we take this to next step and next level whereby we will come and cook for you. We will come to your house and look for whatever you have even anything you have in your house anything can be Yes. Now what we do we transform it to become like a fine dining meal in your house. Be it a bed-seater, a bedroom a single room, a small kitchen whether using a jeep or a stove or gas. We just improvise to make you see that it's not a must for you to leave your house to go to a big hotel. Any big hotel out there will get this amazing dish. So what we do we will come and we will just make it for you and we will document it. Actually, because our main key point is to touch you out. As much as it's here it's also here. Alright. So another thing I see with a lot of vlogs of food up here in Kenya they tend to high-end one end a high-end the ingredients up in between sit up what what powder what leaves and what not what is it are you are you incorporating the normal things that we have on a day to day in your blog Yeah, actually sometimes you can do the high-end when we are doing like in our house when we are used to the normal food Yes, but when we go to somebody's house even if you have like a small party it won't give you like a huge list of things that you can't start having stress about like now where will I get this how will I get this but also we try and make it be enjoyable we make sure that when we leave your house it's something you can cook again again for yourself you'll enjoy it exactly you don't need to be like a huge share for a big name for you to always know that I have to make it like the same way these people did but we will just show you the easiest ways of just small small skills you can use them in your house to make sure that you do it the perfect way there's something they say about a family that eats together a family that dines together for us we say it's true actually for us it's a family that a couple that cooks together eats together and stays together for which it's so true because he can't be in the kitchen all the time sometimes I have to come and learn something from him or I join him cooking I tell him now it's time for me to cook you know so it's just cooperating all those things and doing things together also so yeah when you are in the kitchen what kind of people do you know what you think do you know you know us guys what you know about cooking we know we know Because of that touch. Exactly. Because us men, there are people who are not appreciated. You don't know what she went through for her to make sure that that meal is ready. Now, another thing is that we should also avoid this norm of saying, when I can work, pick up. What a woman can do a man can do a man. Not only that. Before you got married, you used to survive. How? That's the question most people, they don't know. I can't wash dishes, I can't cook. The question is, before you brought this beautiful lady to your house and call her your wife, as much as you're working and we live in a generation where by a woman works, a man works, you can't tell me you'll just come back home and you're just there, your wife is still working, you'll be seated waiting, you're just... I'll rub this. Come, I'll wash your hair, I'll pick it. Yo, we should break that. We should break that. We should break that. And we should be men of substance. Exactly. So, Kenyan men, out of 10, how romantic are we? I can say six. Six? Yes. Do you have room for improvement? Yeah, we have room for improvement. We have room for improvement. Yes, because I can't say I'm 10 over 10. No. Do you have room for improvement? Yes. Which places can we improve, apart from Yoko Shabyombo and helping out with house chores? Emotion with supporting our women. Yes. Because, especially during this time, you've realized there are lots of cases of domestic violence. And why do people have these cases? Ego. Because not ego. Because there's that... Your wife needs to do this as the man, I need to do this. You get laid off from your work. A lot of men out there, they don't have jobs. What do they do? They just want to sit in the house. The wife will have to go. For instance, in a case whereby my wife is done working and done at home. So my ego doesn't allow me to know that. I'm supposed to wash dishes. I'm supposed to cook. I'm supposed to help. And also when she comes, you don't want to know how was your day? How is everything with you? With everything that's going on? How are you coping up? We don't ask such questions. Alright. In our marriage, it's been one year. We just had our anniversary Friday. Friday. On the 19th. On the 19th? Yes. It was just a day of reflecting. Reflecting. The journey where we came from to where we are. Because it's not just everything we should celebrate. Alright. There's that time also you need to sit down, pray, ask God for... Just tell God, thank you. Because we are a very prayerful family. And there are some points in life you really reach and you're like, you know what? Enough of this... Sajyo. Yes. Come to this small cocoon and just thank God. Alright. Yeah. Since you are the international relations professional. Sell this to the people. Why should people come and check out your vlog? Especially couples. Especially people who are hoping to get married. Especially people who are living together. During this time, during this trying time. Why should people come visit that vlog right there? Actually, we should go to the Endela's on YouTube. Even on Instagram. Yes. Check us out. Cause...