 When the narcissist knows you know that's what we're going to be talking about in this one When they know that you figured them out When they know that you know What they are really about Because they try to hide it they conceal their True intentions actions and motives They hide it from plain sight because they don't want you to know They don't want anyone to know and That is the whole point. That is why they do it. The reason why is because they already know That people are not going to accept it They know that They should not be doing What they are doing They already know that and that is why they try to conceal it That is why they hide it from plain sight and they keep a code of silence so of course since they go through such great efforts to hide the abuse To hide what they do, of course if you manage to expose them, they're going to be terrified There's really nothing that they will fear more than that And being exposed for what they really are They don't want to deal with that and that is why they go to great lengths to hide it and Yeah, so they will be worried about you Trying to expose them and that is why they have to get there first. They have to beat you to the punch So before you get the chance to run and tell someone what's really going on and what they've been doing to you they're going to go around to everyone and Say things about you. They're going to make false accusations They're going to start a smear campaign against you. They're going to discredit you So that even if you do go to anyone and try to tell them the truth By that point no one's going to believe you Because they've already been manipulated or they may be narcissists as well But this is the game that they have to play. This is what they have to do To lock you down as their source of supply And to prevent anyone from finding out the truth and the reason why It's so covert and so systematic It's because they already know that any normal same person Who finds out about it and they're outside of their group of flying monkeys. They know A normal sane person is not Going to accept it. They're going to think that it's wrong Just as you thought it was wrong Because when you thought that it was wrong you were right so yeah in a way they do fear When they know that you know they do feel threatened And they will go out of their way to protect their false image from being exposed But that's not always the case I Mean I think most of you you won't be dealing with this type of narcissist The more malignant sociopathic even psychopathic narcissists The ones that are very overt and grandiose If you know Their true nature To be honest, they're not going to give a shit. They're not even going to care because someone like that it's likely that Everyone already knows exactly what they're about and No one really cares. They still accept them. So That kind of person If you expose them for who they are They already know they've got everyone wrapped around their finger They've got everyone under their spell Well, they're surrounded by people who are just like them. So if you try to expose them They're just gonna be like so what? Who cares what you're gonna do about it because as far as they're concerned Anyone who They value who they care about Is not going to care about what you have to say If they do then they don't need them. They'll just cut them off. They'll go somewhere else If it ever comes down to that but in most cases they won't even have to do that They look at it like this If they can't manipulate you They'll manipulate everyone around you and it's as simple as that. They don't need you Doesn't matter who you are how great you are. They'll just cut you off. They'll turn everyone against you Because the reality is they don't care about the truth They only care about their Version of the truth which are false truths so they create a fake reality a fake world and If you don't want to be a part of it then they want to invite you they'll leave you out of it Or they might pull you into it and Give you a false character that they expect you to identify with So that you can exist in their fake world But if they can't do that then they've just got to kick you out because To exist in the fake world alternate reality the illusion You must have a fake character of your own Because if you are being yourself it will expose them It will reflect back to them just how Fake and manipulative they really are Because deep down they already know what they are like. They already know what they're doing They just don't want to keep talking about it. They don't want to hear it They'd rather just play pretend in the imaginary world as though everything is okay and Yeah, they're fine with that They just look at it like Who needs the truth who needs reality? When I can just create my own world and call other like-minded people into it Even though those people may be fake, but they do still desire to have something real and that is where you come in because It's much more powerful when you have a real person to validate the illusion You could have a million fake people in your world But deep down, you know, they're all fake anyway, so it doesn't fuel it It doesn't do anything to support the illusion It's much more better for them when they can trick a genuine good person And to believe in that it is real That's what provides them with the most fuel And just that one person can provide more than a million people That's how powerful it is But yeah, that's really it's lower level narcissists They will at all costs they will do everything in their power to conceal The illusion and to prevent you from exposing them They will be very worried about that because they already know that any normal sane person is not going to accept it But when you go any more to the higher levels of narcissism, grandiose narcissists, overt sociopaths Malignant narcissists, psychopaths These types of people the higher up you get They're really not going to care It's not really going to make any difference It doesn't matter how much dirt you have on them. It doesn't matter how Sick and twisted their lies are and you expose them They'll always find some way to turn it into a joke and Believe it or not by the end of it everyone around is just gonna be laughing about it They'll see it as something humorous and they may even be engaged in it as well They're very influential. They can redefine anything They really can it doesn't matter what it is. They can turn it into something laughable They really can Because they've already got so much support You know grandiose overt narcissists. They are surrounded by People who Respect and admire them But it's almost like there is nothing that they can do wrong There's nothing that they can say or do people will still love them and That tends to be because in some ways They are also productive in a way they are and they do often do things for The good of other people So in some ways they are very likable. They're very charming and charismatic Which of course is very different to the covert narcissist What's people sometimes sometimes call the shy narcissist? Those types of narcissists they don't tend to have many friends many people who understand them So of course they have to conceal it then Because they're not really doing anything for anyone. There's no reason for anyone to really like them. So Of course, they have to cover it up. They have to create this code of silence when no one's allowed to talk about it And anyone who's real They have to be exposed. They have to be threatened intimidated Coversed they just have to keep it quiet because For whatever reason, they're not likeable people. They're just not very charming and charismatic So They're very different to the higher level narcissists who are more skilled more manipulative more charming When we're talking about the grandiose narcissists the overt sociopaths psychopaths Mostly psychopaths not not so much sociopaths But yeah, they can be they can really pull people in to the illusion and It can be very difficult to discern what is actually right or wrong True or false in that environment When you're dealing with the covert narcissist Yeah, they can try to manipulate you but deep down you still know that they are not right you still know the truth and In that environment, you may be the scapegoat and Instead of trying to manipulate you so much it's more about just shutting you down Because they haven't really got anything to lower you when there's nothing really to entice you so That's more of what they're trying to do is just trying to conceal it Trying to keep everything hidden because they haven't got Power that influence So yeah, you will get almost completely different responses Depending on the type of narcissists that you were dealing with if you're dealing with a lower level narcissists And you start to catch on it will cause a narcissistic injury Narcissist the Grage They will get very angry. They will lash out at you that will try to shut you down a higher level narcissist When they know that you know Even if you try to expose them, but just not even gonna care They're gonna look at it like Yeah, so what who are people gonna believe not you And they'll just leave it at that they won't even bother to come after you. They won't try to tear you down Unless there's something to do with if you really are a threat to their power their money Then in those cases It can get pretty dangerous. I'm not just gonna play games with you They will become violent aggressive They will try to take you out and They're not gonna show any mercy in those situations They're really not But with the culverts it's more just Basic manipulation childish game playing That's what you're gonna get from them Smear campaigns gossiping that kind of stuff Just bitching about Which you know, it can be irritating as well But you just have to be grateful in those situations that you're not dealing with a higher level narcissist like a psychopath Because no situations you never know what they're going to do You really never know what they're going to do so be thankful for that and For those of you who are and most of you will be dealing with The lower level maybe covert narcissist and They know that you know They've had a lot of practice of playing the victim They are very good at doing that. That's where they get their power so and This is something they've been doing probably since they were in school They just point the finger at the other kids say He hurt me Even though no one did anything And then they know how to get everyone their side and then turn everyone against person who may be the true victim Usually they are and Yeah, the manipulation hasn't really evolved much from that Even though they're meant to be adults. It's still just Them just spreading rumors gossip Turning people against you Because people are their power They think that if they have a hundred people that makes them all powerful Even if in reality, they just they've just got a hundred idiots for them. It's more people more power Higher level narcissists They don't really give a shit. They can be alone They don't really need anyone They already know that they can just go to a different place if they had to and They can get new people So they're not really dependent on anyone And they can be alone for long periods of time So Yeah, they won't be concerned too much in most situations. It's more the lower lower level narcissist They're the ones who it's going to cause a narcissistic injury And they're gonna get really angry and they're gonna try to tear you down That's more the lower level narcissists that do that The higher ones Very rare that you will see the rage or them trying to attack you Only if you've really pissed them off Like you must have done something really bad to get to them. Otherwise They're just gonna laugh it off They're just not gonna care It's the lower level narcissists. Those are the ones who care the most The higher level ones They're not really concerned about anything. They're the kind of ones at least some of them You could punch them in the face and they just laugh it off As long as they don't see you as a serious threat And that's how you need to see it really it's the lower level narcissists They're the ones who because they're at the lower level they're very afraid So any little thing will get them any little thing will set them off it will drive them nuts It doesn't take much to irritate a lower level narcissist they're like loose cannons And then the higher up you go The more tolerance they have the less of a threat that you are going to be It's normally those types of people they've got bigger fish to fry They've probably got far more serious threats in their life than you you're just Insignificant in those situations Because they tend to have more things going on their lives Especially psychopaths they tend to be a lot more successful They have a lot more going on so yeah, this video kind of Turning to the differences between different types of narcissists Which I'm sure it will be helpful for you as Different viewers maybe dealing with different types So it can be good to know it can be good good to be aware of And this video as well should help you to identify which type of narcissist you are dealing with Because as I said they will react very differently They will react very differently and knowing that you can get away with certain things with them Yeah, that's it for this video we're gonna get back in the car got some things to do But I just like to thank you all for joining me On another live video You know, I do appreciate your wall and we do comment every morning So please share your thoughts down below in the comment section subscribe share the video I want coaching sessions. 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