 Five minutes really crap. I'm glad I'm this is perfect timing Time flies when you're rocking Second most important reason everybody else is watching you And so if you just kind of like if they're like kind of closing the group in and you see that they're not responding You just kind of put your head down and slink away in shame They're gonna say oh man that guy just got shot down hard Right But instead if you say you know what it's been great talking to you girls have a great night walk away Then all of a sudden they're like oh Seems like a fun cool social guy those girls are just kind of awkward and cold like girls all know that some girls are just icy like That's commonly accepted in girl knowledge. They'll be like. Oh, those are those girls. I hope I don't want to be those girls Mother's always asking why they're not married Every girl's nightmare. It's fantastic um Number three reason is the most important I would say though you do it for you You do it for you. You're saying no, I'm not ending this on your terms. You're not rejecting me You're not trying to sit here and say I'm not good enough for you. All right. You're the socially awkward one You're the weirdo. I'm ending this on my terms. I'm saying goodbye to you You walk away a little bit taller you walk away a little bit stronger You walk away with a little bit more confidence for your next interaction every single time. It's magical I promise you Sometimes when they're really like I see when they're really kind of bitchy. I'll be patronizing. You know what? It's been such a pleasure talking to you guys. I really hope you have a good rest of the night. Good luck with everything girls Good luck with everything Makes me feel a little bit better. I don't recommend that it's kind of a dick move, but Makes me feel a little bit better and to close this all off because we're wrapping up awesome Just in case you were wondering what happened in Amsterdam As I started to give him more validation he started working for me more He started giving more back to me. I was giving him exactly what he was looking for. So this guy loved me So he started yeah, bro, and then I did that and that. Oh, yeah, it was really cool. Oh, man Yeah, so we were doing this and it was totally fun. Yeah, we did that man. No way that's sweet Shut up and I'm being genuine here. You can't fake this because he's gonna know you're just effing with him Right. No way That's really sweet and as he started coming towards me more like talking more because I'm like you know getting him more excited that I'm really into what he's talking about Started leaning back a little bit. No way. Shut up. It's wild Get out of here. It's so cool and I started talking less and less and Everybody else was now looking at me and I was leaving back because the center of attention was now giving all his attention to me Of course, everybody else in the group is gonna be giving their attention to me And so they stopped asking questions Yeah, cool, man. Great. Awesome. All right, cool. Kind of wind it down Of course as I lean back Sweet Romanian girl started cuddling back up next to me. We all had her leaning back towards me, too I just look at her say When I go grab a beer Got out of there had a beer had a wonderful rest of the vacation together douche-free as possible That's how you have a that's how you take the masculine role in a conversation Thank you guys questions, please Two questions we have Will that you please decide so I don't have to be the asshole Great speech love it a lot. Thank you. I really have a question What kind of emotional response are you trying to elicit when you're employing this tactic? Good question and then and then what's the kind of Line draw between how it comes across as creepy and how it comes across as you know being a boss We're sitting there in the zone question here. How can you come across as creepy? I just feel like that maybe like the death stare that you give the girls not you in particular But just anybody if they were to try this out, so I feel like some girls might find out like why is this guy? Just saying oh really and then just staring at me, you know, I can kind of feel like some girls I'm really creeped out. No, no, no really really great question So many guys are terrified of this whole being creepy thing like I always I Push eye contact as hard as you could ever imagine and this I always challenge my guys at the beginning of a weekend I will challenge you to get shot down for making too much eye contact I dare you to dare you to and the thing is can you make too much eye contact? Absolutely But most guys are so far on the opposite end of that That they need to try to overdo it to compensate to overcompensate for their huge deficiency and some guys try to overcompensate They're not even close to where that line is They got to try to overdo it one more time and being creepy is the number one fear and number one excuse That guys use to keep themselves back in this position so I would say don't even worry about being creepy because If you're seeing consistency issues, you're so far down at this end like that should be the last of your fears Okay What is creepy? The guys who get shot down by making too much eye contact. It's always the same, right? They're just staring at a girl with no facial expression I Always say didn't I say facial expression one of the most important things no facial expression and a girl looks at them And it's not a bad look the girl is just like well Right. She gives you that look like what do you want? Guys always take that as a bad sign Guy always take that as like oh, she doesn't like me. I'm doing something creepy. Why she just wants to know like well What dude are you gonna say something or he's just gonna stand there? That's all she wants to know like are you gonna fucking talk to me or what? I say the only guys that ever get shot down from making too much eye contact. They don't have a dead expression on their face or Or when the girls like what they just don't do anything Okay, what is creepy? Really really simple all creepy is is if a girl shows you in any way shape or form that she's uncomfortable with something If you keep doing it It's it's a creepy is you're so in your own world. You're not even paying attention like to anyone else You're almost like cut off from that's creepy. I Wouldn't be worrying about that with you right now I'd be worried about making more eye contact making enough eye contact yeah and doing something when she gives you that Well, what look smile when you do it Though I want to really briefly say to that expression that everything's okay Especially when you go up to start a conversation so important because she's always gonna be looking at you She's always gonna look to you and say well is this gonna be comfortable or is this not and she looks at you And you have a look on your face that says this is not okay This is not comfortable. She won't be comfortable with it if you have a look on your face It says everything's all right Nothing to worry about we're just having a good time out at the bar shit chatting Don't worry not a psycho killer. Just a dude. No problem It's fine. She's always gonna look to you though, especially in those first five seconds To set to let her know whether you're okay or not whether this is okay or not. Thank you. Good question Yes Nick great speech again, so I have a thanks. I have a two-part question one is in the community there has has been a traditional View on making a lot of statements as opposed to asking questions So I kind of wanted to ask for your opinion on that because you know I've been taught that once you make too many questions at the start you're putting the conversation no pressure on her And making statements kind of does the opposite and my second question as a follow-up to that is when you ask a question Should it be a a question that always open a lot of threads for example, you know a Question an open-ended question as opposed to something like how tall are you which probably doesn't lead to a lot of a you know To answer your second question. I don't care that much. I Don't I'm not trying that hard to answer your first question Which was was was oh, yeah, yeah asking questions using statements and said I like statements to start a conversation But I'll use questions just as easily to start a conversation Like sometimes like I'll just say one thing I like is like if you're feeling something positive to share that with ever like I love this song right Statements are also great for day game for daytime talking to girls like opening conversations Which just a general statement about your surroundings. It's always a good way to start those conversations But would I also agree that you don't want to ask too many questions? Yeah, like I said, I'm only doing I'm only trying a bare minimum of the vast majority of the time She should be doing the vast majority of the talking and I'm just listening. I'm just relating and personalizing. I'm just overly empathetic child I'm forcing her to contribute So I'm barely asking questions But I do it because it works. It's easy to remember. I don't want to have anything too complicated You know to dovetail into your second question a little bit. Well this complicated thing of it should be this kind of question I don't All I know is that in that moment when this girl is looking at me And I think she's gorgeous and she's making my heartbeat out of my chest. I can't think of any of that shit I just need a rope that I can grab on to I just need the most simple thing that can pop into my head First level when I'm trying. Hey, how's it going? What are you guys up to? Blah blah blah, so where you from if once she starts to light up I have a second tier of questions and it's just all about her Like once she starts to light up when she starts to open up showing that she's interested in you I stop all the you know joking around to talk about this and that and I want to know I just hone in who are you The second tier of questions is all about her hopes her dreams her passions who she is So once she starts opening up the second thing I'm going right into is So like what are you into? Like what are you passionate about who are you? I want to know like what turns you on You know, what could you be if you didn't have to spend any money that whole kind of thing That's what I'm going to try to get into hopes dreams and passions and like I said, I don't think about it much further than that Thank you That's it. Thank you again guys very much