 Hello there lovers and friends, I brought my dad back because you guys seem to enjoy his advice so much. Say hi. Hey, what's up? The pullout game was strong. NoMaj wants to know the phrase losing it makes her nervous especially now that she's 21 and feels like it's weird that she hasn't done it yet. She wonders if she's going to be normal and judged because of it. How does she lose the stress around losing her virginity? Losing your virginity is not a really a big thing it's just something men put on women as a form of ownership like I'm the first one there so it's like it's something that they think they want to control in life where in life they have no control so the term losing it is irrelevant. It's good, that's good dad. Okay. I was very feminist based, made me happy. I love you. I love you too. Hi Mr. Boudram. Hey. Oh she said Mr. Boudie. Do you like that? It's okay. Hi Mr. Boudie. I've ended my past relationship due to a lack of communication on the guy's end. The first couple of months we talk frequently every other day if not every day but then it lessens over time. How can I express the importance of communication? Well first of all you're clearly too needy. Second of all it's that not everyone can keep that up and so you have to look at the quality of the communication as opposed to quantity. Unit two. She wants to talk about monogamy. Is it natural, necessary, expected or needed? Well here's the thing. Monogamy is not natural but doesn't mean because something is instinctile doesn't mean it's good for you. So a lot of time if you want to have a good life you have to sublimate your instincts but basically is that it is monogamy for us. It's very unnatural but it will it will not complicate your life. To that question kid is sir. I don't know what you guys use your names. He is awful at oral. How do I help? She yelled not me. Are you showing what to do? Because let's face it. In see in my day the vagina was a mystery because it was shrouded in dense foliage and so you had to have an anatomy degree to find shit. Now it's like it's all been a clear cut it's been exposed so you show him where he needs to be. Oreck wants to know how could I go from being seen as a friend to a romantic partner because this one girl I'm crazy about her but I don't want to freak her out. Start going to the gym. Work out. Wear different clothing that you normally would. Make her notice you and don't always be available for her. Just say I'm busy. Just make yourself more interesting even though you're not. There are two nightclubs. One has a cue and one doesn't. So which one is interesting? The one that has the lineup. So even though you have nothing going on you have to create the illusion of a lineup. Personal questions from Eden. Have you ever used natural enhancers for sexual performance? If so what was the most potent or why would you not recommend them? Not recommend them because your body is lazy. So whatever stimulant you give it it will require it. So for instance a young man takes Viagra and all of a sudden the body is going I'm not getting up without Viagra so now he now is basically impotent because so now he now needs Viagra. So it's like saying you need the alcohol to have a good time. Without the alcohol it's hard to have a good time. So definitely you don't need a stimulant. You don't need any sexual potency. In order to get turned on one is your brain to put you in a place where you can be. Some safety too for physical. Keep staying shape is like your penis is reliant on blood circulation. Keep your arteries free. Your dick will stand up until you're dead. You're almost dead. I'm still standing up. Kaylee asks what do you think about people who try and change everything about you in a relationship? This is a long one. Women are programmed. Settle in guys. Women are programmed. From the moment they meet a guy their programming is to change him into something they no longer respect or want to have sex with. The most dangerous person in a woman's life is his roommate. So that's something that she's doing subconsciously to change you into someone who is like by the time you're 40 you don't know who the hell you are and you sit quietly in the corner of your house. So basically you have to tell her I have no interest in killing you. I have no interest in hurting you. And the thing is the change that she's trying to affect in you is detrimental to your sex life. It's detrimental to your life together because you will become something she no longer respects. I don't know if that answered your question. It didn't. It brought up questions for you. Number one why did I ask my dad to answer Kaylee just left a long term relationship and is getting back to the casual dating scene but doesn't know how to get started. Just go in different places that you've never been before. So basically people you don't know because if you do with people you know then it opens up a whole can of worms and now there's a lot of expectations and the relationships change. So if you're going to go casual you got to go out of your routine. That was good advice. You win okay. You redeemed yourself on that one. Questions for dad from Yatta42. Is it true that girls without fathers make bad wives or mothers? No. That's so basically on a case-by-case basis. A bad wife a bad mother it all depends on the other stimuli. So a father has nothing to do with it. In fact it's like the father might actually make them make it worse depends on what the quality of the father is. So it all depends on the quality of the father rather than the quantity of the father. Well you grew up with a dad not the best dads. No I didn't grow up with a dad. I grew up I didn't grow up with parents. I grew up with from the time I was six I was on my own and so I never had a male role model. My real male role model were like strong movie types and that you took characteristics of them to say okay this is what a man is. Amar Sherman wants to know can a serious relationship work without sex? If you're male you'll die early from prostate cancer so it can work if you have other sexual outlets porn your hand flesh light but not a buddy yeah it can work definitely but you you have to have a sexual outlet as a male and more for your health and for female you need a sexual outlet for your mental well-being so do you want me to go into it? I mean have you not gone there already? No I can go into it like for for a married man this is this this is a monthly cycle. I gotta go. Hello. Hi. Are you ready? Okay just pulling into the station. Okay I'll see you in five. Okay see you in five bye. Before I give advice can I ask your question? Yes. Your mom and I I've had day sex and you've heard it. Yes. How do you feel? Awkward. Can I tell you a secret then? Yes. In my adult years now if I come home and visit I would be happy to hear. Okay. I would feel comforted by that. Okay. I would feel like great it's good for you guys you're still having a healthy one second. Can I tell you something?