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At Y254, once again on Facebook, at Y254 channel on Twitter, hashtag is White in the Morning. But me, Huwayo, let us give a very, very, very big welcome to our guest. Hi, I'm Nasi Manaka Firi. Hey, where can I come when I'm a blossom, mommy? Hey, you, your eye, that wing is giving me life. So I don't even know how to start, let me start the king today. Hi, you are looking very sharp, sir. Thank you. Karibu Sana. Welcome. When you are coming, so I will take you to a place more, I will not be able to find you. I will come, I will come. Yeah. I will come and I will be able to find you. What did they call you out here? They called me, I have two names. Me Joe, they called me John. I don't know which is which. Joe and John, wow. Okay, social media, what's your handle? Jojo, Twitter Jojo, Facebook Jojo, Instagram Jojo. Okay, so you like Jo? Yeah. You don't like John so much? Jo is a Christian name. John, that is, but Jo is from the parents. For Catholics, they understand what I'm talking about. Oh, that would make a lot of sense of me, people called me Elizabeth, Mary Susan. Yeah. Okay, we are coming to you, sir. Hi, mommy. Hi. We've missed you. Who is we in your center? Me. Me and myself. Oh, kind of a sauna. Please remind them your name. I'm Missing Water from Cooperative University. You don't want to give us your social media handles? On Instagram, as Daphne Amisi, on Facebook as Daph Precious Joel, on Twitter as MissingWater. And Queen yourself. Is this your first time on social media? Yeah. Thank you. Yeah, looking good for TV. What's your name? My name is Zelifa, Zelifa Nyokabi. Zeho? Zelifa, Zelifa Nyokabi. I've never come across that name before. I could comfortably say that's the first time I've heard it. It's very nice. Does it have a meaning? Okay, no. It's just exotic and mysterious. Okay, what do they call your social media? Okay, on Instagram, Zelifa Nyokabi, on Facebook, Zelifa Nyokabi. And on Twitter, Nyokabi Zelifa. I'm ashamed to say that I'm vibrate. I'm not ashamed to say that I'm vibrate. Let us just, let us already at the event and protest come up with children. I'm going to praise Rembo for that. Yeah, yeah. And I'll just say, oh, hi. Can we do this together as Queen? Can we do this together? I want to say these shirts are very expensive. What? You can do it. Okay, I can do it. I can do it. I can do it. I can do it. I can do it. I know I can struggle, but me can do it. Yeah, you can do it. I can do it. Hey! Hey! You can do it. My name, my name. My name. All right, so we posted our topic on Facebook again at 254 on Facebook or at 254 on Twitter. couple of messages. So we want to show you what you show us. Alright, so we have APK dad. Let me start from the bottom. Samangugi says, Kayole Naivasha present. I see you. Samangugi says, Ian. Maureen Osora says, for real I have a crush on T.I., the famous rapper. Hey, baby. Who is your secret admirer, babe? Mimi? APK dad says, just asking. Crush is a very good question. A crush is when you're feeling a special type of feeling for somebody. Who is that? How would you describe a crush? Who, a crush, is a kind of interest, a special kind of interest or affection. Or, what do I call it? Or like love or something like that. Like you like someone to the point that if they told you they love you right now, you'll definitely say I love you back. What do you think a crush is? Personally, I think a crush is that a spark you get when a certain person talks to you or passes where you are. That kind of extra spark and interest you get about that person. Crush is about how many slices of bread do you eat a day? The conversation you share. What would you describe a crush as? Crush is just having strong feelings towards someone. But I think there's a certain mistake. It's like boys don't have a crush on them. But nowadays the story is different. Nowadays girls don't have a crush on boys. So my name just has a feeling for the police. But I don't know how to explain it. For that conversation. I don't know how to explain it. But it's okay. To you, a crush means to execute at some point. So if you have a crush, it means at some point you have a bad name. How are you feeling about this? At a certain point. I think this issue, to me, is at a certain level. If you have a crush, it means you are on TV. You can't reach that person. If you have a crush, it means you are on TV. So that's what a crush is? I don't think. Really? I don't think. Because for me, a crush must be a certain person that you can reach. Because you admire to be with this person. At a certain time you admire. Maybe you can partner with him. Because you are crushing on someone. Because you want to be with this person. Maybe you can have a certain character. You can be with him. So if you have a crush, it means you have a crush on Rashford? Don't break my heart. This is a confusion. You don't know what you want. Discuss. Discuss. I'm so glad you said that. I think you are the one who is confused. You are confused. Because personally, I have a crush on Alexander Arnold from Liverpool. And listen. And the fact that maybe we will never meet. One day I will look for him, imagine. I will look for him. Where? You track people these days. When you have man, you can basically get who you want. For me, I think by the time you will be tracking Alexander at a certain level, this guy has to come and move on. A crush doesn't mean that one day you must date. Like you can just have a crush on someone. Maybe one day I will take a pic with him. And it will always be my favourite. I like the way that guys think different from girls. Are you hearing me? For me, I think it's just a strong feeling. When you have strong feelings towards someone, you think that this person can add a value to your life. So you feel like you should be with this person. I don't just crush anyone. You can control your feelings at a certain level. You can control your feelings at a certain level. I personally don't think you are confusing into a crush and love. Like you say, having a crush on someone doesn't necessarily mean that you will have to talk to them. I could be admiring Chris Brown. But that doesn't mean that I have a crush on him. That doesn't mean that I have to meet him. So what is pushing you to admire Chris Brown? What they do, how they dress, his looks, his dance moves and everything. So what about you? Okay, that's why I like Chris Brown. That's enough. What about you? Yes, you can like him, but there's a difference between liking someone and having a crush on someone. Yeah, that's why I was defining a crush on someone. Like I like Jennifer, but I don't have a crush on her. That's why I was defining a crush on someone like a strong feeling. Strong feeling is love. No, you can control love. Love is built on three pillars. So for me, love is three pillars. Not just one. Strong feeling and that's love. What are the four pillars? It must be trust. Trust. It must be communication and a certain honesty. It must be why you love, for that love to exist. But he is crushing. He is crushing. So you can talk to him. He is crushing. He is crushing. No, I like them, but I don't have a crush on them. Yes, but I don't have a crush on them. Okay, you have three pillars of love. I have three pillars of crush. My three pillars of crush. Looks. Clothing and personality. And of course money. So, the 3.5. So, the 3.5. So, the 3.5. So, the 3.5. So, the 3.5. Have you ever checked some of Mo Salah's clips? You will definitely fall in love with him. But what? Oh, okay, okay. Okay, okay. Let us focus. Now, to get us maybe away from that whole love. Three, three, somebody pillars type of situation. Let us focus on the crush. And then we give you types of crushes. So, maybe we can talk about it from that perspective. Is that okay, guys at home too? What if I found Facebook? What if I found channel on Twitter? Hashtag is why I don't want you. So, I'm ready for the sides now. Give them to me. All right, so the question is, do you have a crush? Do you have a crush? Yes. Yes. Hey, where was the crush you loved? So, where did you die? No, the crush I will say now. But you have a crush? I have a crush. Yeah, but you must get me right. I have a crush on you. I have a crush on you. Thank you. Next slide, next slide. We are not doing that one. How do you behave around your crush? How do you behave around your crush? How do you guys behave around your crush? I don't like that. It's ok. I did not do that. Hey. Hei, hei, hei. All you can eat. Just took it. God bless, this boy looks so wonderful for us to look at and smell even better so what do you do when you see him coming and maybe you don't feel ready let's start from if you're not a makeup person maybe you don't feel presentable enough you're not so how do you deal with it? so you try to act to play cool because you also don't want to look stupid because you've seen your crush you start smiling excessively you're just trying to play cool so maybe that can be a golden opportunity so let's move to the next one so let's say sometimes so you pretend that whole thing is so loaded but we all pretend even us please even us we pretend we pretend to be nice we think he's funny even when he's not just because he's our crush at first you'll definitely be nervous and stuff like what does he think of me but I think you should just be yourself be you if he likes you for being yourself you won't have to pretend in the later life if you guys should ever have a thing but for me I think you are somehow wrong because at a certain point you can mean I can choose a bad person but I can mold this person to fit me so how do I pretend knowing of my mind that I'm pretending but after I know I'm molding to fit to fit me I think you should be yourself be you should be yourself it's just a whole package on itself you don't have to fitting because of someone you don't feel like you're you're going to you're setting people up for you know to be hard ok she knocked me pretend like if you pretend to like football just because you want to hang out with a guy and then one day like now you act not right like let me tell you something maybe like me me I'm a boy but I don't like playing FIFA I'm part of the man who can play FIFA so for me it's a training to play FIFA play FIFA and I'm most of the my time you know I'm fit in the process this thing is disturbing my head guys do you really do you really believe what he's saying like one of men I pretend to I love to sit in your box and we will become like I feel like it might be true you know this reverse psychology has been using on you I know maybe come up and I need somewhere maybe you want to say easy and I don't know I must be myself you know formula I did again that's when you get into a relationship and you get to realize that person was like was pretending all along and you get now that's a turn off it turns off to become a deal breaker but it's like well my pens they let me food come as an example high liby rent high change weather so our love is just a feeling but at a certain point actually love is not a feeling love is a doing word and then after we turn off we want this we want and then you should get this and this way so many Christian give a two ify but so what sense is that this way I will say this way I will say either either do you imagine that girls go and we will find you give me another slide give it to me yes give it give it give it give it give it on Facebook as we wait for the next slide hi Val who you are and I am going to crush I will cut you my crush for high is getting out of hand okay hi Val my friend's boy that was one of our questions guys ok we will get into that one shortly is when is the right time to tell your crush how you feel? When is the right time?