 I've seen a lot of confusion about this lately in our community and so I wanted to talk about this. Exclusivity does not mean that you're committed. It does not mean that you're in a relationship with a guy. It just means that you're not hooking up with other people. Anything till commitment and anything until you get to a point where he looks at you and says, you are it for me. Let's do this. And he starts moving your relationship towards marriage or commitment or whatever kind of a relationship that you too have decided that you guys want to have together. Anything before that is just dating. And so a lot of women get confused because they think that a bunch of different events mean that you're in a relationship, right? He's moving towards a relationship. You're in this relationship because he's acting that way. However, it doesn't, none of those things mean that, right? And you can just assume that you're not in a relationship if you haven't talked about it. And you want his actions and his words to be in alignment. If his words and his actions aren't in alignment, always remember to believe the worst of the two, whatever the worst one is. A lot of people think that actions speak louder than words and they do in some situations. But if he genuinely tells you that he doesn't want to be in a relationship and then acts like he wants to be in a relationship, believe him that he doesn't want to be in a relationship. And you have to remember that and don't fall into this trap of exclusivity, right? Because exclusivity just means he might just be still looking for other people to date. He might still be dating other people. He might still be talking to other women. He might still be hanging out with other women. He might be trying to find somebody that he thinks is a better match for him than you are or whatever. And so don't fall into the trap of thinking that, oh, we're exclusive. It's over now. We're done. We're together. We're in a relationship because we've had women who have been in our community who thought I was joking when I mentioned this and then found out that some guy wasn't really committed to them after years of being with the guy thinking that exclusivity meant commitment. And it does not mean that. It does not mean commitment. And so you should assume that everything before him saying, hey, you're it, let's do this, puts a ring on your finger or whatever, right? If you want marriage, everything before that is him just dating you. Everything, whether you meet his parents, whether he spends lots of time with you, whether he calls you his girlfriend or kind of assumes it or says something about that or whether you guys go on trips together or whether you meet his friends and family, all of that stuff is still dating for most men. I mean, it's a good sign, right? If it's not there, that's a bad sign. But you just want to assume that if any of that stuff is going on, it's not a real relationship unless you have talked about it. So that's it for this video. I hope you enjoyed it. I'll speak with you again in the next one. And always remember, you are worth it.