 What's that booty shake thing? So Tyler did the same thing in the last video, I don't know why. Okay. You can't address the camera like you're gonna add it in. Okay, ready? Set. It is gonna be added in. Ready? Set. Hey everyone! Hello. What is that? I'm trying different voices. Okay, let's go again. Be fun because it's boring. If someone tuned in and said hello and they were gonna give me advice, I would not take it from someone who sounds like a murderer. Hey everyone and welcome back to my channel. If you're new here, my name is Sepi and today I'm joined by my special guest, my sister, Sol. Hello. Hello. Hello. A lot of you guys love Sol me. Hello. Please, honestly. I mean myself a lot. Are you crying? I've loved it and you're saying hello. Okay. Sorry. As you can see from the title of today's video, we are going, and this might have to be the start of a series. So let us know if you like it, if you do it a thumbs up. We're gonna be starting to answer your problems, questions and dilemmas anonymously. So all you have to do is send in your questions. I'll probably do the link on Sundays, but in case I don't, make sure you follow me on Instagram. It's Persian Bunny on Instagram. And you send in your questions. You can either DM it to me, but most likely if you see it in my story, I'll probably see it much easier. So kind of like a agony on Sundays, but we need a name that has Sepi in it in the title. Sepidee aren't, Sepidee aren't Sundays. You guys are probably better. Sepi on Sundays. Sepi on Sundays. Yeah. And then you just answer everyone's problems. And then you do it with a family member. What do you guys think? So every Sunday she does this and then she gets a different family member to help. I think that sounds cool. Yeah. We like it. If you guys have that idea, let us know in the comments and also give us a thumbs up. I'm a genius. You are a genius. Genius. My mom has made us green tea with rose and she has offered us the Iranian teapot. Does everyone else do this? Do you guys have a little tan-off, a mass attached to the lid of your teapot and then to the handle so that it does, if it goes off it's attached. It's heavy. It's pretty genius. Look. Genius. But yeah, we've got our tea. We're gonna sit tea. We're gonna spill the beans and we're gonna answer your questions. If we can relate to any of them, we shall relate to them and we will tell you guys the best way to tackle this, okay? My cousin just goes so excited for this on the question section. Okay. Or while there's loads now. Okay. Someone has said how can I get a girl and then they've gone on to say how can I get a Persian girlfriend? So would you like to get the lead on this one or shall I? You do this one. Okay. So how can you get a girl? Um, I can answer the first part. Go. Be confident. Okay. This goes for both female and male. You need to love yourself before you can ask anyone else to love you. With the confidence thing, you can fake it or you make it. You really can. So act like you're confident and you'll eventually be confident. I do think confidence is so attractive in both males and females. It's not a sign of being arrogant. Don't get that wrong. It's a sign of being comfortable in yourself and being comfortable in yourself is the most important thing. So to get a girlfriend, the easiest thing to do is A, to put yourself in an environment where you are around girls, whether that be like in your school after school activities. Make sure it's doing something that you like or if you're a bit older. Again, it's technically like after work activities. The gym. So if you're going to the gym I was gonna say it's one of them. Sorry, so this way you can work out together. Apparently couples who work out together stay together. Apparently so, I don't know. Third thing, I think couples who eat together stay together. Third thing I would say is through other friends. So by socializing, you will meet friends through your other friends because you guys will have stuff in common. Sorry, I need to cut you out again. I really think that we have a responsibility for other people. If I see a friend of mine that's single and I know someone else that there'd be a good match for it with, I think it's my responsibility to introduce them. You are responsible for other people's happiness. If you can make someone else happy, why not? It requires a little effort. And it comes back to you. Yeah, I think those are really good ways to meet a girl. And another thing I would say is, I know you said you want a Persian girl or a person who sent this in. Miss Dron, Miss Anonymous. But don't be too fixated on where the nationality of the person you want to be with is from. Although if you are Iranian and you think, oh, it's better, like in terms of you understanding each other's cultures and there is a lot of pros of dating someone from the same cultures and that's not deniable. But like I said, don't limit yourself or fixate on it because there are so many incredible people in the world who are not Iranian. And the same way there are loads of Iranian, incredible Iranian people, but I'm just saying, you never know who you're saw me as, so don't fixate on them being Iranian. But yeah, I think going out and socializing and then when you do see someone who you like or could potentially, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, someone that you like or potentially could like, don't be afraid to go up to them and talk to them. Because how... The worst thing they can do is say no. And you're being in exactly the same position as you were before. That's it. Yeah, and if they're mean about it, then it just goes to show you that they weren't for you anyway. Like as in, I'm not gonna lie to you guys, I've been asked out by one of my friends, like quite a few times. And I had my... Now I'm gonna sit my teeth. What's funny is I wanna know which friend you think it is. Yeah? He's one of them. Oh, look at me. No. I'm so pee. No. Everybody asks me. That's not true. I don't get asked that a lot, when you're friends with people. Double digits on a day. No. I don't count Instagram DMs. I think in real life, I barely get asked out. We're talking about this person now, get back. Okay. For example, like I've been asked out by one of my friends before, like once or twice, I would say over like a few years. And I've never like, I've never felt the same way about him, but I would never make him feel bad about that. And I would never make him feel awkward about that. And I think that if a girl does do that to you, then... It's being small about her. Yeah. Then it does about you. And if she goes and tells people, oh my God, like he asked me out. And like... Big hooker. Yeah, so what? Like what you're never gonna ask anyone out. Have that confidence, do it. So the next question is how do I... How to get rid of acne scars? Have you guys heard of bio oil? I don't think bio oil reduces the scars. However, ostrich oil works miracles, as in miracles, but you have to be sure that it's genuine ostrich oil. One thing that I've really found is, A, cutting out sugar stops you from getting more spots, in my opinion. Okay. Because you can scar... And cutting out nuts. A lot of nuts. Yeah, exactly. It's warm food. So sugar and nuts cut them out. Second of all, I love the Kiehl's Midnight Recovery Concentrate Oil. It works so well. That's really good, actually. I had a line of scars. I have fair enough, I didn't have acne scarring where it's deep, and we've not suffered from that either of us, to be able to give advice on that sense. But in terms of red discoloration pigmentation scarring, we've suffered from, and for me, Kiehl's Midnight Recovery Oil Concentrate works. Yeah, I've used it. It's really good, actually. It really works. So if any of you guys have pigmentation, I recommend that. How to get over an X. This one's difficult. Would you like to take the lead on this? Okay. You know, we've all been there where you hurt so bad that you literally want to rip your heart out and hug it better. Everyone has. The best thing to do is not to obsess over them. So remove any photos. Remove anything that reminds you of them. So remove any signs. If you have mutual friends, you don't need to be seeing them for a little while. Just cut out anything that's a connection with them, in my opinion. I don't fully agree with Sol. I don't believe you should delete photos and stuff like that. I think the healthiest thing to do to get over an X is, first of all, unfollow them on Instagram. Yeah, or social media. Even if you're on good terms, like I'm gonna be honest with you guys, even if you're on good terms, then explain to them on good terms. I shouldn't be watching you move on with your life because it hurts. Same way, you shouldn't watch me move on with my life because it hurts. Plus, you don't know if what they're putting up is just to get your attention or if it's actually real. And so it's not good for you. So unfollowing them on social media is, in my opinion, the first most important step. The second most important step is if you've lost all your friends because I've seen so many of my friends who have said, I feel alone, like straight after a breakup, because they spent so much time with their boyfriend that they feel like they've lost all their friends now that they're single. So try and make new friends or rekindle your old friendships. Just reach out to people and be like, hey, do you wanna go for lunch? Do you wanna go for dinner? And try and fill up that time that you used to spend with them, with other people. Because that gets you out the house, it gets you talking to other people and it stops you talking about them. When you go out with these new people and you go out with your friends, do not sit down and talk about your ex because it's not gonna get you anywhere other than feeling more hurt. And it's hard. If something happens, don't be wrong. If something like, if they do something, don't feel like I'm gonna, can't talk about them. This is it though. You wanna tell people because you're hurting so bad. You want someone to say something or do something. To change your scenario. Yeah, to change your scenario, to make you feel better. But the truth is no one can. No one can. There is no magic potion. The best thing that happens to you is time and also summer. I know this sounds so stupid. I guess it sucks if you break up at the end of summer because you have to wait a whole year. But I promise you summer makes break ups. I'm not making it summer. In my opinion, summer makes a break up so much easier because you have that time to focus on yourself. Whereas like when you are constantly at work or at school or something, then you can't kind of just go off and think about you. I don't know. In my opinion, summer makes it better. But don't think that you have to wait for summer to get over summer. No, you don't have to wait till summer. No, you can do it now. But also at the same time, I think it does take time. So if it's been a few months and you're like, oh my God, I'm still thinking about them, know that it's natural. Like you will probably still think about them until you find someone else that you really like, in my opinion, right? It's true because you're gonna hit your ex-girlfriend or your ex-boyfriend whoever they are. They were the previous most significant person. So until you find someone else who you are that are obsessed with in that way, then they're gonna be who you're constantly gonna compare to or think about. So don't worry about it in that sense. And be kind to yourself. Different pressure on yourself. And last one, go Jim. Jim Bradyfus is really gonna do dolphins. It gets her ribbons body back, you know? Not that there's any like harshness or any problems with your ex. It'll be nice. But there's no problems with, you know, your ex would be on a photo of you and be like, that hotty is my ex, you know? So yeah, that's, in my opinion, those are all the top tips that we have for a breakup. Do you have anything else you wanna add? Just love yourself and it'll come. This is true. What's meant to be yours will not escape you. So next one, this one is a bit of a difficult topic. Should a person trust their boyfriend with their pictures, especially if it's inappropriate pictures? Can I answer this? No. Not that you don't trust them, but there's a thin line between love and hate. You should treat your best friend, the love of your life with the same mentality that one day they could be your enemy. And you should treat your enemy with the mentality that one day they would be your best friend. So you don't wanna do something to your enemy that later on, when you're friends, you'll be ashamed of. And you don't wanna give someone else the power. Not just that. What if someone else takes their phone or has a hold of their phone? What if they're drunk? We all make mistakes. Why put yourself in the lion's mouth? I totally agree with Sol. So I think living in the UK and also just in this generation of social media and everything, sending like pics, people sending pics is so frequent. My friends talk about it all the time. I'm gonna be honest here and share something about myself. Personally, I've never, ever done that. And the reason for that, I was lucky enough that I had older sisters to explain this to me before it was ever of their age. But it's just that you shouldn't feel bad if you have, by the way, I'm not saying this to make you feel bad if you have, but maybe just- You'll know for the future, that's it. Maybe make you aware. And maybe not everyone agrees with this. And that's fine, that's your opinion. But in my opinion, like you, if someone is with you, then they will see whatever is in that picture in real life to appreciate it. They don't need a picture. A picture is something where if you're not with that person anymore, they still have a hold of that. And I just don't think that that's something that anyone could have. Not even like, I don't even think your husband should have photos of you like that. And don't be shy to say to look at them. Don't be shy to say, no, I don't want this. And if you love and respect me enough, you understand that I don't. Yeah. As in it has nothing to do with me not trusting you because I do, and that's why I'm wedged you. It's about- I just don't like it. Yeah, I think it's all to do with your own like, mentality on this. I know friends who are completely different, but if you guys are messaging us and asking for our opinion, we share the same opinion because we just do. We're sisters, we have the same opinion. And our opinion is, don't send out photos of yourself or videos of yourself or allow someone to take photos or videos of yourself because you don't know you can, you don't know who you can trust. I don't know how to phrase it without offending people's partners because obviously no one wants to send their partner- It's not even just their partner, there's been times where people's phones have been hacked. Yeah, your phone, someone's phone gets hacked, iCloud, people get a hold of like your partner's phone when everyone's on the night out or something. Don't create a headache when there's no need. Yeah, just do it. Fake mental pictures. Mental pictures for sure. Okay, I love this one. Someone said, I love my best friend's sibling but I don't know what to do. Should I tell my best friend I like his sibling or hide this fact? Does the sibling like you back? That is very true. Because what's the point of rocking a boat if nothing's gonna come of it? I personally, I wouldn't wanna hurt my friendship with my friend if, like Saul said, it's not reciprocated, that's awkward. But if it's reciprocated then between the two of you and you both like each other, then I think your best friend should understand and would want you to be, would want you and their sibling to be happy together. So I would then be like, hey listen, like me and your brother or me and your sister really get along and do mind if we like chill together a bit. Or if you do, like if you are friendly with the sibling, why don't you be like, why don't you ask your sister? Because they can't get mad at their sister or their brother, do you know what I mean? I wouldn't do it like that. If you both like each other and date for a couple of months. Saul, you cannot date on the slide. I would date for a couple of months too. Oh my God, we're so different here. No, I would date for a couple of months to make sure that we're both on the same level. And then once I know we're sure, then I'd go and tell my best friend like, hey. I wouldn't because imagine even you dated for two months and you weren't on the same level. Then you won't say anything again. You would not tell your best friend, hey I dated your brother for two months. No, I couldn't do that. I think for me, my friendships are so important to me. I wouldn't want to date someone who, I feel like there's so many fish in the sea, yeah? So I would never like for example, if my friend has history, my best friend has history with someone in any shape or form, I would never go after that person. But siblings obviously, they don't have history with them. So that's a different story. You can talk about it and you can be like, hey, I kinda like your sibling. But you know, it would be really sucky if it was like a male friend and then the female friend and it was her sister. How? Like if it was a boy. Yeah. And then his friend was female and it was his younger sister that he liked. It was us two. And one of my friends or one of your friends liked me or you. Okay, so as in, let's say it's Sol's 36, I'm 22. So you were saying a guy friend of yours liked me. Yeah. So I've had guy friends of yours come on to me before. Yeah, actually, perfect. Yeah, but as in like, you know what was grimy? It was like, it was literally the moment I turned 18. It was so grimy. Who literally like, you're a perv, bye. And that's why Sol doesn't have friends. Yeah, but like, sips too. How do you deal with a cheetah and answer that one? So I personally never been cheered on. Sorry, I wouldn't be able to like give a, give a, what's it called? A personal experience. But I think if someone is, and this is not just in relationships, this is in any relationship as well. In friendships as well. Like someone going behind your back and hanging out with someone who it doesn't work well for you or talks badly about you behind your back. It's a no. In my opinion, what I look for in any kind of friendship or relationship in any way is trust and loyalty. If we do not have these two things. Yeah, nothing. Then we have nothing, like nothing. Let me tell you something. Like when I'm in a relationship, you would not catch me texting someone 24-7 a week. Where are you? What are you doing? Who are you sitting with? Like blah, blah, blah. If you don't trust each other, we shouldn't even be together in my opinion. I agree. So if someone breaks that respect that you give them by trusting them and being loyal to them, then they don't deserve a part in your life and you should never regret telling them goodbye. Because the fact that they are being unloyal to you. If they're in it once, they'll do it again. Yeah, if they're doing it being unloyal to you, no matter if they think they're gonna learn from it or blah, blah, blah, blah, let them learn from the next person. They are not gonna get a trial on you again. This is, if it happens to you once, if it happens to you twice, if it happens to you many times, this is not a reflection on you. Yeah, definitely not. It's a reflection on them. It's not you choosing a bad guy. Or a bad girl. Yeah, a bad guy or a bad girl. They're just, you got, it's not even that you got unlucky. You got lucky. You got lucky because you found out and they've just made room for the next person who's gonna appreciate just how wonderful you are. And they would come along. They really would come along. Yeah, and you don't, you deserve, and you deserve to feel comfortable. I think that's the most important thing is the reason why you want trust and loyalty and respect is because you deserve to feel those things back and you have to be a reflection, in my opinion, in relationships, in relationships, it's a two-way street. If I do something for you, then I don't expect it back exactly the same for anything other than trust, loyalty and respect. Yeah, and guys, just for a single second, you have to think that if you're the other person, so if you're the third party and you know that there's a guy or a girl that's in a relationship and they're hitting on you, step back from it, you're better than that. You're better than that to do, than to do that to another human being. You do not want to be the cause of someone else's tears. I wanna say. You don't wanna be the cause of someone's heartache. It doesn't matter if you don't know them. It's very true. I wanna say these days guys and girls can be very sneaky and not tell you that they're in a relationship and don't beat yourself up if you had no idea about it. But once you do find out about it, don't even feel like you have to go explain yourself or something like that. Just remove yourself from the situation, in my opinion. Because- You don't have them in the day. Yeah, at the end of the day, karma will work for the person who put you in that situation. It won't work on you if you had no idea. So don't freak yourself out about it in that sense and if you are aware of the situation, don't put yourself into that situation to begin with. You do not want that. I believe in karma. I so, I believe in energy and energy is karma, right? And karma is not a bitch. Karma's only a bitch if you were a bitch. Yeah, and karma is such a good thing because if you're a good person and you love and you want the best for everyone, you will get that reflected back into your life a million times and I've seen that myself and that will make you so much more happier as a person. Yeah. And I think that was the last topic that we were gonna talk about. I hope that you guys enjoyed this video. Thank you so much to Sol for filming this with me. Thank you, Sam. If you guys enjoyed this video, then please give us a thumbs up. If you didn't enjoy the video, give us a thumbs up. Look, subscribe to us down below. And if you want us to film this again, definitely give us a thumbs up. That would give us a blah. Please follow me on Instagram. My Instagram is Persian Bunny and my snap is Sepi Samoy. But on Instagram is where you guys can send me your questions for the next time we do this. Do it with mommy. You need to do it with mommy. Mommy's savage. Okay. She's funny. 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