 Hey, Psych2Goers, initiating a bit of flirtation and romance can be difficult, especially if you're unsure if the person you like feels the same way about you. How does your crush view you? Are there any clues as to if they like you? Well, here are six signs your crush doesn't romantically like you. Number one, they don't pay attention to you at all in a large group. Does your crush pay attention to you at parties? You may be the best of buds when you're working on assignments in class, but as soon as there's a large group of people, you're seemingly last on the list to interact with. This is an easy sign your crush doesn't like you as much as you'd hoped. When we're attracted to someone, we want to be close to them or alone with them to get to know more about them. It's important to recognize you aren't the center of their world, but if someone likes you, even a good friend, they shouldn't be completely ditching you during an event at the first sign of interaction from others. If they subtly try to ignore you, there's still good news. You're out of party. There's plenty of interesting individuals to talk to and make friends with. Number two, they keep distance and put up barriers between the two of you. Does your crush often talk to you with their body turned away? Do they subconsciously hold their bag in front of them? Do they scoot away when you speak to them? Well, according to psychologist Jack Schaefer, people lean towards people they like and distance themselves from people they dislike. Inward leaning increases as rapport increases, meaning you may first turn your head towards someone, then your shoulders, followed by your torso. Then if you're really interested in what someone has to say, you'll lean towards them. So when someone is attracted to another person, odds are they may just lean towards them when they get the chance. Not just for a kiss, but because they are deeply interested in what you have to say and who you are. Dr. Jack Schaefer also explains in psychology today that people who like each other remove any obstacles between them. He continues to say, a barrier does not necessarily mean that the person doesn't like you, but it does let you know that rapport has not yet been established. So that bag in front of them may not mean they hate you, but it may just show that rapport isn't as strong as you'd hoped it to be. Number three, they ghost you or always take long pauses to reply. Does your crush leave you on red for days? Well, taking days to respond to a simple question or text is often a clear signal they're not that into you. If they ghost you, that should be further proof. Perhaps they have a good explanation as to why they've been absent, but most times ghosting is a clear sign they don't view you in that way. Number four, you always initiate the talking. Do you initiate all the conversations with your crush? You always ask them first how they are in class. You're always the first to reach out through text. Well, this is a good sign they just aren't that into you. If someone likes you romantically or as a friend, they'll make an effort to start a conversation with you and ask about your general well-being at the least. If they don't seem to care, it's best to move on and talk to someone who actually does. Even just a how are you shows they may at least care as a friend. Number five, you are the only one who asks to meet up or hang out. So you may or may not have just been on a date with the person you admire, but every time you do make plans and hang out, you're the one asking them out. You put all the effort into the relationship, friendly or romantic. Let's say you happen to be alone with them by chance after lunch or school. If you're still the only one thinking of what interesting things you could be doing to fill the time, they likely don't view you as a romantic interest. And number six, they don't smile or laugh at your jokes. Are you the class clown? Do you like a good joke here or there? Does your crush smile at your futile attempts at jokes? Or do they sit there? Blank faced. Generally, if you like someone, you'll often smile around them. If that someone tries to make a cheesy joke, you'll often want to smile at their attempt anyway. People often don't want to appear cold to their crush, so even a polite smile is common if they like you. If they opt out of smiling when talking with you completely, it's likely a sign your crush simply doesn't like you. But don't worry, I think your jokes are funny. So do you notice any of these signs from your crush? If you're still unsure of how they feel, it might be a good idea to just ask them or let them know how you feel about them. Even if they let you know they don't like you in that way. There are plenty of vision to see. Yeah, it's a common phrase, but it's true. Just remember, if they don't laugh at your silly jokes, odds are there's someone out there who will. So keep your heart and mind open and keep on smiling, even at your own jokes. If you enjoyed this video, don't forget to click the like button, comment, and share it with a friend. Subscribe to Psych2Go and hit the notification bell icon for more content like this. And as always, thanks for watching.