 وأقول في القرآن ما جاءت به آياته فهو الكاريم المنزال وأقول قال الله جل جلاله والمصطف الهدي ولا أتأواله الحمد لله رب العالمين له الحمد الحسن والثناء الجميل وأشد الله إلا الله وحده لا شريك لأ يقول الحقا وهو يهدي السبيل وأشد أن محمدا عبده ورسوله صلى الله عليه وعلى آله وأصحابه والتابعين لهم بإحسال إلى يوم الدين أما بعد نحن في مظاهر دنو الهما وطريقات وطريقات فيها بحيث بحيث بحيث بحيث بحيث بحيث بحيث وقد عبرنا بخير 19 مظاهر وخير مظاهر وإن شاء الله وطريقا سنأخذ مظهر 20 وهو مظهر العام من المساعدة when someone gives up in perfecting or correcting أو أرقص أنفسهم أو مجموعة المجموعة they live with إنه عندما يجب عليك وأنك تعتقد أنك لا يمكنك أن ترقص أنفسك هذا one of the ways of دنولهما لا أرقص وهذا شيء يقع فيه كثير من الناس كثير من الناس يجب عليهم أن يرى الشرور المتراكمة يجب عليهم أن يرى إيو أكسسيب والأمواج المتلاطمة من المصائب والمحن والأوشن والأحوالي والفتن والأحوالي والفتن والأخوال والأشخاص ومن الفرقات والتناحر والدفعين والدسكور والدفعين الذي يأسير في صفوف المسلمين الذي يجب علي المسلمين والأخوال ما يفعله؟ يجب عليهم من إصلاح الأحوال أن يجب عليهم أن يفعله يجب عليهم على كل ذلك عندما يرى الأخوال يجب عليهم أكثر ويرى الأشخاص في كل جانب والدسكور والدفع والدفع والدفع الذي يجب علي المسلمين والأخوال يجب عليهم أن يفعله ويجب عليهم أن يفعله أو يفعله اغسر فهلا يسمد أمام هذا الخطم الموار أنه لا يستطيع إ antiblog أنه لا يوجد إنه أو أنه لا يوجد إنها أن يغفر في البشر وفي بشركات وليزاز ولم يشهد أفراد ويتكاثل ويشهد و كل هذا بسبب أن يأسوا من الإصلاح ، يجب أن يأسوا من أي شيء و يقولوا the same وقولوا مثل ذلك و يقولوا the same in what في شأن كثير من الناس من يسرف عن نفسه البلم عاصي The person is falling into sins himself and he sees how he is addicted to one sin after the other and he sees himself swimming in a valley of humiliation and problems فتجده and you find that person after looking at them يأسوا من إصلاح حاله he gives up in rectifying his own situation والرقي بها إلى الأمثال والأفضل and pushing himself to the highest stages and highest levels he gives up on all of that rather what might happen sometimes is بل ربما ظن أن التغيير مستحيل he might even think that rectification is impossible it will never happen no one can do anything about my problems no one can change society no one can change the problems that are happening in the world no one can بل ربما ظن أن التغيير مستحيل وأنما به من عيب ونقص إنما هو and the person starts to think that the deficiencies and the mistakes and faults and shortcomings that are present in me are all what إنما هو it is ضربة اللازب لا يستطيع الفكاك عنها he believes that it is a reality لا يستطيع الإنفكاك عنها that he can never detach himself from what I am in right now the problems I am in what I have put myself into is something I can never change and no one can ever change it this is what the person starts to think وهذا كله مضحر من مظاهر يدونوا الهما what we say to that person is that all of that is a form or a way of low aspiration واسغار نفسي and that person has a very low mind that person's nefs is very little والعجز عن مواجهة المتاعب والمصاعب and what you have is that you are incapable you are incompetent incompetent in facing the painful and hard things in life وهذا لا يريقوا and that is not befitting بالمسلم الحق the true muslim the true muslim should not think like that لأنه لا يأسوا من روح الله because no one gives up إن الله سبحانه وتعالى ولا يقنطوا من رحمته and no one gives up in the mercy of Allah ولا يكون نظره مقصورا على الأمور المادية and don't ever allow your observation what you look at be based on material things the muslim he never gives up on Allah سبحانه وتعالى he knows that what Allah has in store is far greater and better than what other people might say or what is in front of you the reality in front of you might be big to you you might magnify in your mind but what you have to remember is it is not greater than the mercy of Allah سبحانه وتعالى and the wisdom of Allah سبحانه وتعالى don't make your observation don't make what you look at and what you observe be all materialistic things والأسباب الظاهرة and the outer appearance بل يكون متلفة في قلب في كل وقت إلى مسبب الأسباب إلى الكريم الوهاب متحريا للفرج واثقا بأن الله سيجعل بعد عصر النسرة connect your heart every time to the one that made all of this happen to who the generous one they give up fill your heart with happiness have faith in Allah سبحانه وتعالى that He Allah عز وجل سيجعل بعد عصر النسرة after every hardship Allah is going to make ease for you سبحانه وتعالى believe in that with unwavering conviction ومن هنا and from this point إن شاء الله وتعالى and this moment ينبعثوا للقيام بما يقدروا عليه من النصح والإرشاد with that in your mind and that feeling in your heart stand up wherever you're able to in advising those who are around you and calling to the path of Allah سبحانه وتعالى and changing your own affairs and the shortcomings and the faults that you have ويقنعوا باليسيري be content with the little إذا لم يمكن if it's not possible what is not possible الكثير are the many وبزوال بعض الشر وتخفي في إذا تعدر غير ودالي and also try to reduce the evil around you even if you're not able to remove it in its totality at least you've stopped one evil and if everyone thinks like that then the evil will be stopped some people they think إذا I have to rectify this situation in its totality or I'm not going to do anything no you might be able to rectify something of this problem some issues of it and not in its totality don't worry الأمر بيد الله الله تعالى controls things who you are is a weak slave of Allah سبحانه وتعالى do the best that you can ثم إنه لا يبغي للمسلمي it's not something that should occur from a Muslim يرضى لي نفسه بدون that he's pleased with the bare minimum وَاَيَتُرُ كَرِيَاضَةَ تَرَفْسِهِ زَعْمَنْ مِنْهُ and that he leaves off training himself and nurturing and cultivating himself upon that which is good he leaves it off with the claim that أن تبدو للحالي من المحالي changing is from the impossible the person says I'm not going to work on myself I'm not going to put the effort in because what I'm changing is not something that can happen to me my life is the way it is I can't change it وَأَلَّيْسَ فِي الْإِمْكَانِ أَبْدَعُ مِنْ مَاْكَانِ I say this is the reality Allah created me like this I can't change this بَالْيَنْ بَغِلَهَا يَأْخُذَ بِالْأَسْبَاءِ what is needed from each and every one of us that we take the means وَاَيَسْ عَلِي تَكْمِينِ نفسهِ and that you work every day to complete yourself you know when you came into this world that you were not complete you were deficient and every day you're working towards perfecting your situation and every day you're trying to what get rid of and eliminates and eradicate those mistakes and shortcomings that are present in you how many people do we know today brothers and sisters that we meet that we understand their lives has changed for the better when they put that mindset in how many people do we know who changed their situation they rectified their lives for the better and their nafs just went up shut up to the sky and they came with true high aspiration وقلت عيوبه وقلت عيوبه and his mistakes became so little why how did that all happen بسبب دربته they all changed because that person trained themselves وممارسته وسعه ومجاهدته لنفسه and that person exerted effort and hard work they reached the point that they reached how many people do we know that that's happened for let me tell you or read on your statement said by the great Imam the Imam أبو محمد ابنو حزمن رحمه الله ابنو حزمن he talks about he talks about his تجربة his experience how he trained his nafs every single one of us I myself included we have things that are in our lives that we need to change and rectify every day what we do is we have a highlighter which correctness and this one and this one every day there's things that we're working on and there's things that we have that are good that we're just nurturing we're nurturing those things we're making it better and there's other things that are deficiencies that we're trying to correct and perfect them and learn how to make it better ابنو حزمن is mentioning the same about himself and this is a human this is present in everybody ابنو حزمن is a great scholar he's talking about how he worked on himself he said I had in myself many mistakes many shortcomings فلم أزل بالرياضة he said I went out and I trained myself I worked on cultivated, nurtured myself he said that and he mentions how he did this he said he said I read, I looked at I did it and read over what the prophets may Allah be pleased upon them said and he said I also read what the virtuous wise people said والمتقدمين are the early ones I went over what the prophets said not just Muhammad but all the prophets what they said before I looked at the virtuous people the wise people sometimes the companions and those who came after them I looked at what they said في الاخلاق in maniz واداب نفسي and what they said about it etiquettes and maniz I looked at all of that he said and he said I struggled in curing those faults and errors that were went with me and until Allah helped me and aided me that I was able to overcome many of those mistakes and shortcomings that were present in me Allah helped me now listen to this ابنو حزمن he said I saw in myself faults at the beginning كانت لي عيوب I had mistakes not one he said many mistakes and shortcomings and errors so first of all what he did was he recognized that there are faults and mistakes present in him and then he went out on the conquest of finding out the cues for that illnesses or those mistakes that he has so he said I read the statements of the prophets he said I read the statements of the wise noble righteous people the early ones and those who came after I read their statements and what he did was he read what they said about manes and etiquettes and the manes of the nefs and how to nurture the nefs and control it restrain it, resilience, forbearance patience, endurance and qualities that self-discipline all of those words that we all won we struggled in finding a cure for it until Allah سبحانه وتعالى helped me we know we can't do anything without Allah Allah تعالى is the one that can cure us from all of the problems and the shortcomings and the errors that we have سبحانه وتعالى so what happened he said Allah تعالى helped me على أكثر ذلك the majority of those things and he helped me be توفيقه ومنه and he helped me with that with his kind generosity and his favors الله تعالى خذت ذلك so that's the ending of the statement of ابنو حزمين رحمه الله تعالى you can find it in his كتاب الأخلاق و السير page 33 to page 34 you can find it there he mentions many points that he worked on and how he did it so insha'Allah تعالى go to it the best طبع for it insha'Allah تعالى is the الشيخ عبد الحق التركماني يزا تحقيقه النكتاب so I'm going to stop there insha'Allah تعالى anything which I've said that was wrong or incorrect is from me and Shaytan that Allah has messaged I'm both free from it سبحانك الله و بحمده أشد ولا إله إلا الله أستغفروك 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