 Spiritually oriented, need not necessarily mean going into the jungle or whatever, it simply means that you are living a full-fledged life. It is just that the compulsions of physical nature are gone and you are exploring the other dimensions of who you are. So if you go away without experiencing the full depth and dimension of this life, it is a wasted life. So spiritual process means just this, you want the full cake. You are not willing to eat a cut.