 The secret the narcissist doesn't want you to know everything the narcissist does is a lie They are pathological liars They twist the truth They deceive people So that they can get the result that they want They're in survival mode Because they see the world as a dangerous place They believe that we live in a dog eat dog world Where people will do anything to be successful Even if what they do harms other people they believe that people will step on you to get ahead So they want to do it first before someone gets them Because they fear failure and rejection So they would rather be at the cause rather than the effect At least then they're in control of it They would rather cause your failure or reject you Rather than being the ones who have failed or being rejected Because then they would feel like they have lost Narcissists have a black and white mentality Where they see people as either being winners or losers But they're not really trying to win They don't really believe that they can win They're just doing everything they can to avoid looking like they're losing Which is why they lie They deceive They manipulate Because they don't want to look like bad people They don't want to look like losers They're very concerned with how other people see them Because that reflects on how they see themselves And they want to see themselves as good people They want to see themselves as people who are not losing Even if the opposite is true They don't care about what is right or true A narcissist's faulty belief system overrides the truth And they use people that are susceptible to their manipulation to support their false beliefs They're constantly running from reality Because the truth is too painful for them to deal with They're very weak fragile people Who have very low self-worth and self-esteem Which is why they create this false image To make other people think they're something better or greater And this is a secret that the narcissist doesn't want you to know They don't want you to know that they're very insecure And that they feel inferior to most people They want you to think they're better than everyone else They want you to think that they're more intelligent than everyone else Which is why they're so envious and jealous Which is why they always put people down They act arrogant and entitled As though they are deserving of privileges and special treatment Because deep down they feel inferior to everyone They feel like they don't deserve anything Everything is black or white to a narcissist They either deserve nothing or they deserve it all You either give everything to them Or you never give anything to them You're either with them or you're against them and they may act like they don't really need you But they're actually terrified of rejection They're terrified of being abandoned Because they know that they need you more than you need them They know that you would be fine without them But they would not be fine They wouldn't know what to do with their lives Which is why if you do try to leave They won't let you go They will hold on for dear life Or they will just find someone else to replace you Or they will try to gain control of the situation By rejecting you Because they're terrified of being rejected They're terrified of being abandoned They may have targeted your self-esteem And tried to make you feel small But their secret is that they feel lower than you could ever feel Which is why they do what they do Because they're so afraid They're more afraid of you Than you are of them They attack you out of fear Because they're afraid of being abandoned They're afraid of being exposed They're always scanning the environment for threats They always think that something unpleasant or harmful is going to happen to them The secret the narcissist doesn't want you to know is that they're very insecure They're very afraid and They feel inferior to most people Which is why they do what they do Because in their minds They're just trying to protect or defend themselves Because they always see themselves as the victims Regardless of what they've done to you They don't think that they could ever be at fault Because they've created this image which in their minds is perfect But deep down they're feeling inferior to most people They feel like they're not good enough They feel like they're not deserving of anything They feel like they can't do anything right and yet they're walking the earth As though they're the masters of everything Which is why they cause so much chaos and destruction Because it really is a recipe for disaster Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonate with you Please like comment share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching inquiries you can email me at coaching at naksafiver.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon