 All praise belongs to Allah and I begin in His blessed name for granting us this existence as I always mentioned and giving us the opportunity to exist eternally in a state of bliss and pleasure and gratitude and increased mercy Allah has blessed us with two genders male and female and And he could have made us all one gender or many more genders, but he chose to Allah in the Quran says Yeah, you have nas inna khalaq nakum in the current in wa-ontha Waja wajal nakum shooop and wakaba illa li ta'ara foo Inna kramakum inna Allahi atkakum O mankind, we have made you into male and female nations and tribes So you know each other so that you recognize each other and that recognition li ta'ara foo The word is a rafa meaning to know with elevation To know with an increase Appreciation as the Prophet says man a rafa nafsahu when we say somebody is an a'araf meaning somebody who knows In an elevated state li ta'ara foo so you know so you appreciate so You are grateful and you are submissive therefore And Allah ends it the most honorable indeed To Allah the Almighty is one who is God conscious and God consciousness here in the Quran at all times implies the promoter of good and the demoter of evil When you are God conscious, it doesn't mean that you consider Allah to be great. You consider God to be great No, you don't only consider God to be great But you consider him the ultimate authority in the universe and the one who Created us for the promotion of good and the demotion of evil so when we say Atkakum people who are mutaqi people who are God conscious Allah swt means they are always doing good They are never Promoting evil. They're always promoting good peace justice equity love for humanity, but that is the principle of God consciousness and Allah swt says that we've made you into nations and tribes and if you examine our humanity unfortunately We have shot ourselves on our feet and Taken one step forward two steps backwards due to our bigotry our misogyny meaning that we don't only look Against in other words we Practice racism and bigotry against people of other nations and other cultures and other races and We are also bigots when it comes to across the gender One gender abuses the other and historically unfortunately the male gender has been the cruel one that has meted out very very evil misbehaviors against the female gender sadly and It continues until today. Unfortunately. Alhamdulillah. It's better than it was Just like racism is better than it was but unfortunately today the forms of racism have become invisible where before When it came to slavery they were held in chains and They were whipped in public today the chains in the whipping is invisible It's psychological It's social. It's destructive and we hold it within ourselves and unfortunately you see the remnants of it When this president was elected and people got together in Charlottesville and all of that all of those gatherings Where the swastikas came out and the supremacists came out with their masks you would think that this would have been Buried with a while back, but it's alive among the people and I believe all of this is alive because of our recklessness and abject misunderstanding if not Rejection of God and His mercy When we deny the true message of God we become bigots we become arrogant we become Destructive in society and These conversations and when we talk about Personalities that I'm going to speak about tonight on the great tragedy Shahada Meaning the martyrdom of the greatest one of the greatest woman who walked on this earth Khadija bint Khoelid as you know Her title honorific title was at Tahira the pure one the wife of the holy prophet Salallahu alaihi wa alaihi wa salam salawat ala Muhammad wa ala Muhammad It's interesting that she was such an amazing figure that it is because of her We have the Islam that we have today in terms of her contributions And I'd like to touch on that and to balance this equation that we should remove This insanity that lies within us this hatred and this one-sided bigotry That we have many a times we need to remove it We cannot remove it if we don't understand the values of life and sometimes it's essential that we remind each other Losses for that care in Nafateh dhikra remind them reminding is beneficial. They seem to have forgotten a very Fundamental piece of the equation when it comes to the balance of God's religion The verse that I started is in certain Nisa the fourth Surah of the Quran the first verse That all people all mankind be careful of your duty to your Lord. Yeah, you have Nasa to go Rubbakum Ladi be careful when God says be careful. He means be just be balanced. No your limits Don't overdo it. Be careful. It's a good law. Yeah, you have Nasa to go. Rubbakum Ladi how are you from? Nafs in Wahida He made you from a single being Adam and how I were made from the same material Same composition One is not superior to the other This notion that women are like the byproduct of men or that, you know, whatever was left from Adam is Was made for a woman. This is nonsense nonsense men and women Male and female Adam and how I were shaped together. It wasn't left over This idea is is a poison pill You know, we take it so far and even claim that the reason Adam was expelled from Paradises because it was a woman who enticed him towards the tree once again absolute nonsense. It's not true This idea Reeks with the satanic principles of causing disunity in the human race when he says Fabia is that Tika? By your authority, I will be guile them. I will fool them. I will cause them to kill each other What better than for them to fight against their genders against their nations and against their races and against their You know families and to divide us and destroy us We have to be vigilant brothers and sisters Tonight we have people of different faiths visiting us as every night. We're blessed to have them The diversity is here to stay God has made every human being diverse There are no two human beings who are the same even though they are identical in genetics Our fingerprints are unique. I even identical twins have different fingerprints Because a lot loves diversity some of us just cannot get out of our cocoon and our you know one-sided tunnel vision as we call myopia Where we think that the world is only for us and the universe revolves only for us this self-centered capricious Idea that the world is only mine and we pontificate that wow I am the gift of God and therefore nobody else is is nonsense We're all gifts of God even an insect is a gift of God a dog is a gift of God a horse is a gift of God an Atom is a gift of God. It's silly. It's nonsense to make such comments But when we have ignorant and tunnel vision, then we try to say it's us versus them We try to divide and shaitan is with us. The devil is with us and said yes, you're my agent go divide divide divide And we find that the human race has been made of male and female Purposely and no two human beings are the same You know when you do research and say how can you clone a person is it possible? It's impossible Physically we could clone a person to look identical, but it's impossible to clone a human being exactly Because they would have to experience the same Experiences to be who they are and that's impossible as I mentioned yesterday the principles of probability and Chance and what crosses us in our day-to-day transactions are impossible to recreate impossible Each individual is unique unique unique and I want us to understand brothers and sisters. That's a divine decree It's God's decree Maa halko cum wala ba'athakum illa kanafsin waheda. We made you from oneself, but how diverse you are Allah says I have shaped you even to your fingertips and made you unique But what are we all trying to do? We're trying to maintain that if I am unique Everybody should be like me follow me My way or the highway This is classic. We get into battles trying to convince the other side how wrong they are Sure, it's okay to convince the other side if they are wrong, but there is a demeanor. There's an ahlaq. There's an approach and we cannot be Dictatorial in that manner. Allah says laikra hafiddin atabaya narushta minal ghayt There is no compulsion in religion truth is clear from error Allah says haatu khul haatu burhanakum in kuntum sadaqin Say to them bring you evidence if you are truthful. There's a demeanor by which to bring equity But difference of opinion should stay Sadly within our communities when we have people of other faiths come and join us Sometimes we feel like what are they doing here like as if this is exclusively ours and I'm not saying you are Sometimes in society we have this close-minded foolish people Who consider their safe haven exclusively theirs between them and God? That worship is suspect. That's why the devil does the devil said that shaitan said that it's Exclusively mine. I have a special position. I'm in the Malakut among the angels I have a special position though as you know Iblis the devil is not an angel. He's not an angel He's not a fallen angel. This is a wrong concept Iblis was not is not has never been an angel. He is made of fire among the jinn He's of a different creation from angels angels are creations made of light Iblis is made of fire. He even says it. I am made of fire Okay And Allah says Wakana minal gin. He's off the gin He's of that creation, but his ideology is exclusivity and Low tolerance for any other beings to exist in his domain that can be honored Hence his fall when God brought Adam forward says bow Well, he's one more creation. I've added into the plethora of my mercy Bow and said no, I'm special So if you and I claim to be believers in God Then let us remove this bigotry within ourselves Not only between the races and the cultures but between our genders and Allah has blessed us with the two genders and I want to talk about how Islam works very much in concert in Balance to try to bring the message of equity and balance for the whole human race Salawat Allah Muhammad while Muhammad When people of different faiths and colors join us consider it a blessing Where we should come to unity is the universal principle of good I don't give you black white tall short wide narrow. We all agree to promote good now that's unity We all agree not to fight each other. We all agree to respect each other We all agree to honor each other. That's the religion of God not Come my way or else. I kill you You know, if you are a threat to me, I'm going to destroy you or my national security Warrants that I come and kill all of you or I build my little, you know, I Expand my land as you know who I'm talking about Why national security why you want to take the earth and throw us all in the sea for national security That bigotry is satanic It's evil and it causes hell on earth and too many lives are lost and too many refugees are being created as we speak because of this sin The sin that will be punished. Allah will punish it severely on judgment day. Allah says don't worry What they're doing today. You think they are strong. They've got those very fine Fired jets that they can bomb people. Don't worry. Let them do it. We allowed the pharaoh To dismember people or we caught him and we gave him his due and he's gonna get more of his due Don't worry. La yahzunka kufruhum. Don't worry. We will grab them But what do you and I do in the meantime? We are proponents of justice We're firm and we bring equity for society and we do not belittle any religion We do not belittle any people who worship any kind of God that they believe to be even if they're atheists who say there is no God, we do not belittle them. We respect them. We have a dialogue with them We bring equity imam jaffa sadik. Alaihi salatu wassalam debated with Abid ibn abi Awja for a long period of time in Makkah Imam never condemned him always allowed him to converse with him at all times and the debate went on and on and on for a long time The Imam never condemned him never said oh you're an atheist. You're going to hell and I'm condemning you You're not just blah blah blah none of this stuff none So as a principle tonight In memory of this great lady hadija alaihi salam. I want us all to believe in equity, please She was the scion of equity as you know, she was the most beloved wife of the holy prophet and The messenger loved her so much that he married no other woman when he was married to her. He was a pure monogamous And you find that History is very clear That he said hadija and I will be in paradise together By the way, there is no hadid where he states any of his other wives will be with him in paradise There's no no hadid Some wives are good some Allah Hualam But my point is the Prophet said hadija and I will be in paradise together. Let's leave it at that amazing He loved her so much. Why did he love her so much? Even Bukhari mentions that Aisha one of the wives of the Prophet say this messenger even after her death would never stop talking about her That he would go and give gifts to the women who are the friends of hadija even after her departure And she would ask him why He says hadija was with me when nobody believed in my message Hadija spent all her wealth For the for the promotion of good She she was my consolation. She was next to me. She was the first woman to accept my message And historians say in the early days of the Kaaba as Abbas was sitting as you know the uncle of the Prophet And a man was sitting next to him and he sees the Prophet the young and come By the Kaaba and next to him was a young boy You know a young boy behind him and then behind that was a woman And and they would do ruku and sujood at the Kaaba. It was unheard of at that time No one understood what they were doing because people used to circumambulate in weird ways weird I can't talk about it because it was very weird And they were asking who are they says that's the man who's calling himself the Prophet He's the Prophet of God And that's his wife hadija and that's ali ibn abut ali the three of them are praying To god the first worshipers In that era or these three sallallahu alaihi wa sallam Muhammad The Prophet said, you know hadija was an enterprising woman kawailid her father Was a wealthy man But she became even wealthier with her trades between syria and yemen And she used to send her goods And sell them on the market And she never went on those trips. She always had a an agent who represented that trade And it came a time when she asked People came to her and said there is a man who would be excellent um To trade for you And of course as you know the holy prophet The last prophet for humanity Was her distant cousin. They were from the same family And he represents her in trade because he was known as a sadaq al-ameen He was trustworthy honest sadaq al-ameen And he takes the trade for hadija and he doubles her profits that year, but he was honest. He never cheated anyone He always had an honest transaction And there's research to show when you're honest and you're kind and you're pleasant People love to trade with you Research shows if you're kind with people even if you um For example as a physician Okay, you have A duty Hippocratic duty To service your patients properly Even if there's a mishap in your Diagnosis you'll find that when you're nice to your patients They hesitate to sue The lawsuits are minimal Malcolm Gladwell writes that in his book blink He said research shows that if you're nice to people Even if you mistreat them Accidentally, they do not get angry with you easily and the Quran says Ma'aruf Wa ma'afiratun Khayrum min sadaqatin yatba wa adha Kind speech and forgiveness is superior is better than charity Followed by injury Meaning you give somebody something then you taunt them. Hey, I helped you. Hey, you remember? I did this for you taunting people Quran says Kaulun ma'aruf wa ma'afiratun kind speech You know, laatu sa'ir haddaka linnaas don't turn your face away from people Soften your tongue the Quran says be nice be forgiving. The prophet was the embodiment of the Quran He is the walking talking Quran So he brought much business to her But she was wealthy Intensely wealthy. They said she had an army of You know workers who used to carry her wealth. That's how rich she was And many men wanted to marry her Many wanted to marry her. She was beautiful She was sought after she was intelligent. She was wise I want us to imagine this reality as men and women in the society in our community How many of us Tried to be like her Sisters I advise you because khadija was in your gender How many of us when we name our daughters khadija You know, how many of us tried to emulate her ways? Her demands were minimal But she loved god. She sacrificed For allah She brought a beautiful child forward called fatima alayhi salams fatima zahra salamullahi alayhi salawat ala muhammad wa ala muhammad As you know, she's say that the nisail alameen She's the leader of all the women her daughter As you know, we have four chosen women in islam mariam the mother of jesus peace be upon him Asya in tamaza him the wife of the feral khadija wife of the holy prophet and her daughter The daughter of the holy prophet fatima zahra salamullahi alayhi for women chosen And of course there were many but these were the elite elite women in history and quran talks about some of them Directly in sub-tahreem Mariam and asya are mentioned directly in the 66th chapter of the quran I'll touch on it briefly tonight if time permits But I want us to know the role of women womanhood I want us as a society to understand That neither gender is Less than the other this idea that women are less than men Intellectually spiritually is all a fabrication. It's not true. Don't believe in it. Please. Please You don't understand how dangerous that is. Let us not even harbor the idea That you know my sister or my mother or my spouse my wife is Not as spiritual as because i'm a man This is total nonsense Nonsense, please In fact, when I was in the islamic republic, I asked gaitul ajawadi this question. I've mentioned this before I'll share it again personally, I met him in Damavan And I asked in this question eye to eye I said are women inferior to men and as you know historically Uh, and even today as a philosopher. He is one of the top regarded philosophers on women issues So I asked him are women less than men. He said no are they intellectually less than men He said no are they spiritually less than men. He said no I said then why are they not prophets? Or imams, why did god not make them prophets? Or the vice-jurians meaning successes to prophets And he looked at me and said they are mothers of our children That itself is like prophethood It would be double burden to have a woman become a prophet or an imam when she is the carrier of our next generations But the equation is similar that as motherhood even quran has established We have enjoined goodness upon mankind the mother who suffers pain upon pain for two years Be thankful to me and to them for what they have done So Allah establishes a very clear precedence that womanhood is very powerful But he went further to say but if you have any doubts you will notice even the continuity of prophethood Is dependent on women too for you find Jesus peace be upon him. Eesa aley salams continuity As the bridge from his predecessor prophet was his mother mariam aley salam You find imam at The entire continuity Of the gates to the city of knowledge is a woman the jibreel when he brings the eye of tatheer He says him fatimatu wa abuha wa ba'luha wa banooha salawat ala muhammad wa al muhammad It's fatima her father her husband her children you see uh her so The entire axial conversation is fatima to zahra salamullahi aleyha in the continuity So let's not think this way I want us to understand historically and I always mention this on her night of shahada that in her era when Parents have a girl In the era of ignorance They used to take the girl and bury her alive And quran says she will complain that girl on judgment day will complain be a them been cutilat Which sin did I commit that I was killed for because i'm a woman i'm a female i'm a girl Today there are 70 million I think 70 million more men Just In india and china 70 million more men There's a reason for that. We are selectively choosing a gender And sadly in china women are getting kidnapped as married women and taken into villages and sold for money to become wives of other men Because of the stupidity of mankind trying to imbalance the gender of blessings of god That mankind when families give birth some some families give birth to only boys And some give birth to only girls but measure the quantity of birth on earth It's a miracle that it's 50 50 male to female salawat allah muhammad wa'ar muhammad But you find that uh We are foolish Because we think men When we have a male The name of the family will continue the money will stay in the family Whereas if we invest in our daughters Then they will be taken by their husbands and the in-laws will benefit. This is not this is This is what I I can't imagine humans actually go there I cannot imagine this is like not only it's not there's one thing to be silent about god's mercy It's like smacking at god's mercy It's like slapping at god's mercy No one rejects my Bounties And they used to bury can you imagine fathers used to go and hold their Daughters and the daughter is excited that baba is going to take me to play with the sand that thought just Puts a chill in my spine that the human race is capable of doing that And it was done And it is being done today Where families are selling their daughters to slavery and to prostitution Salawat allah muhammad wa'ar muhammad I always get touched by that I said my god I as much as I detest hell. I see why it exists I detest it But I can see why it exists Let us today make that will That humanity is beautiful When I asked I told the javadia I said a regal who called moon on the nisa The man has authority on the woman. What do you mean by that if men and women are the same? He said that's a prescription of god in marriage That the husband must provide for the wife But she's already burdened with family affairs and it is his responsibility From god to take care of his family and his wife and his children. That's why awamuna. He doesn't make him better I asked him in the family if the wise if the wife is wiser than the Husband Can she rule the house? He said yes, of course Whatever brings harmony towards the family is how it should be And I asked him how much is this authority? He said the authority Of her mother never changes over the children She says i'm an all he said i'm an old man My mother if she forbids me from going even to defend my nation even for allah if she refuses me Then I cannot go i'm an old man. I'm a married man. I have children Why is my mother always my authority if men have authority on women? Then how is my mother having authority on me? In the era of the prophet he eradicated this burial He eradicated this nonsense in fact historically at that time if you were uh a second wife And the husband dies The children of the husband inherit Their stepmothers and they can give them away Like a trade. That's how it was Women had no rights sadly even in the united states up to the 1920s women were not allowed to vote Because they were considered second-class citizens and the remnants of that continues today We find that the prophet abolished that Eradicated that and gave the right of ownership and inheritance As was the right of that god has conferred upon humanity the prophet established that hadija was in that era And if you think it's the men who are financing the world today I want us to remember That the expansion of islam in the prophet's time in mecca and madina was due to hadija's wealth She gave all her wealth and historians say that when she was breathing her last she had no money left She had no money left And I want us to understand that that level of womanhood is the islam that Allah wants us to understand islam is a bird Free bird It's got two wings You cannot cut the right wing and put it on the left side. Don't try to make it look the same. It's Uniquely different But it's a wing like the other side And each one flaps You clip one side The bird will go into a tailspin That's what society is trying to do today. We are going into a tailspin because we are clipping each other's wings Whereas we should honor the strength of each wing and while it's uniquely a mirror image of the other It's different and don't try to equate it in physical terms In terms of status in terms of worship in terms of respect and degree We are the same in the eyes of Allah and Quran is replete with it I don't have time tonight due to the short time. I need to cover much of this topic, but you get my point It's a free bird It's dignified And let's look at the opposite gender with dignity And that brings me to the next question. Hadija was a modest woman She was not immodest Modesty is under attack today brothers and sisters Hijab is under attack today Modesty of the hijab of men is under attack today when Allah says Say to the believing men to lower their eyes and Quran is giving the prescription of modesty I want to touch on this briefly before I end with Hadija's contributions in the end and her sufferings You find that Allah has established the modicum of modesty on us You know what is the first command Adam got When he approached the tree and his trial began The first command was Allah say to Adam and Hawa take the leaf from the tree and cover yourselves That's the first command of Allah in the trial of humanity Covering our shame Very important and shaitan says Allah has given us many powers one of them is the power of desire and lust What is shahwiyah shaitan says I will abuse it And I will abuse it so much. I will cause them also to destroy each other Today giants in Hollywood Harvey Weinstein A monster in Hollywood Was so reckless That any woman who dare appears in front of him that he liked was a victim You find giants like Bill O'Reilly Charlie Rose Many like them and today Morgan Freeman is under attack You find all of these giants millionaires slash billionaires What is their objective use the woman like an object Touch them whenever you want say any comments you want call them anything use them as creatures of pleasure When Allah has enjoined modest dress upon us It's not to keep us entertained or to keep him entertained or to put some burden on us Allah says Say Oh prophet Say Your wives Your daughters And the believing women that they cover themselves with an over garment lose clothes Lest They be troubled and Allah says this is better for them That lika adna and you rafna so they're elevated and recognized with dignity You know, I see this hijab as the flag of Islam I've always said this when women wear this garb some of them wonder is it important? Is it not a burden on me? I want us to examine in the western societies Where we've shrugged our shoulders where Hollywood today produces movies. There are very very explicit in exposés of the human skin And we're very free in expression Then why is it that the same free women who did date who do date freely? Why are they so repulsed that they're going to court? And suing these men for sexual harassment Why is it even accepted in court if we're so blasé about it? Because we all know that the nature of the humankind is that it's repulsive when somebody intrudes on the dignity of another person They say Morgan Freeman would stand one inch from a woman and he'd look down like this because he's the big boss They loraili did the same thing and these people were worth hundreds of millions of dollars Harvey Weinstein He would meet them in the worst of ways and women were terrified Women are writing that when we would go and meet Harvey Weinstein, I mean Morgan Freeman. We would make sure we wear long clothes We don't we don't display our Body parts too much Really? So a predator is there waiting? Well, God says it's always around you. It's not only the Morgan Freeman's Every eye is looking at you. One sister came to me once his brother when I weighed the hijab You know, all the men are looking at me I said, so if you don't wear it, they won't look at you That's a good one I said the difference is now they're looking at you with dignity You're telling them back off Don't touch me and don't come near me. I am valuable as a human being. I'm dignified Why is hijab instituted upon us? This is not in Islam brothers and sisters I once went to a synagogue and I had And a Jewish man is sitting next to me and we had a few sisters who came with hijab He looks at me and says, what is it that your women are wearing? What is that? That what is that? You know In a condescending, excuse me. What is that? I looked at him. I said this poor guy is angry I said, have you watched the movie moses? said yes I said the mother of moses was dressed like that. Did you ask the same question? He leans back says, oh, yeah, you're right I said the differences we kept on with it Some of us gave it up But tell me when is modesty going to change for humanity? Is time a stipulator of morality? Does modesty change in time? We used to laugh at people in the jungles who are scantily dressed and we call them heathens And they would carve their faces and we call them heathens And today we're doing the same thing they're doing and we're civilized and sophisticated So when we look at people of different faiths This is a prescription from god not to burden us To honor us, but why are women given that responsibility? Because they are the bearers of our children And the woman is the source of humanity Is the growth of humanity Is the foundation of morality as the husband and the father is But the mother if she is tainted and given up into usage of different kinds As people used to use women until today sadly Then their children will have a very low foundation to stand on But Allah is merciful. Allah in the same surat al ahzad the 33rd chapter which I quoted the verse from Allah says when they are post childbearing They are not obligated to wear it. They don't have to wear it But it is better for them to wear it I see some of our sisters here who wear the full aba and I look at them. They're all quite aged But I asked if I came to this woman and I asked her to remove that She will look at me and say shame on you. I said, but you don't have to she said, but that's me This is my nature. It's it's become part of my fabric You know how dignified that is We don't understand this we have to teach our societies that today in the western world giants are falling like Because of this misbehavior. It's because our women sometimes sadly are going out there as objects and selling themselves as objects with all due respect You find when you go to auto shows you'll find women standing next to cars Everyone said a while I'll go. I said, why are the men not standing? We're ugly I'm being sarcastic about it. Why are you standing next to the car? Does it come with the car? Why are you standing here? And they're stumped like I said, I know the marketing stunt But with all due respect you're dignified. Why are you standing here? A car is you You are valued as a car. Excuse me I have much more respect for you than that car much more Much more this car is a piece of metal You're standing next to it In scanty dress clothes trying to entice me to buy Let's move on, please This dignity is within the prescription of god and hadija was dignified Our granddaughter zaynab alayhi salam goes to karbala for that reason And she stands on the altar of justice and says how dare you know who we are We are the scions of morality and modesty. We represent the flag of god That's why today it's been it's been attacked. It's funny. People can put all kinds of bird cages on their heads We're crazy clothes. It's all fashion. You cover your hair. It's oppression It's oppression So I'm going to move on with this, but I I I hope you get my point. My time is up I want to end tonight with hadija alayhi salam as that woman of modesty A woman who represented dignity wisdom Her daughter fathom of the zahra when she goes to claim her right fadak They say that khutba luma was so Sublime that philosophers until today are trying to dissect the wisdom of fathom of the zahra salam This is the daughter of the wisest woman. She struggles so much hadija struggles so much That as you know, the mackens decided to boycott They decided to boycott the banu hashim in makkah and abut alib Uncle of the prophet had a valley called shebi abut alib which is in the outskirts of makkah And they were forced to migrate there and the mackens refused to deal with them and feed them and give them any food I want us to know historically that those pagans who were idol worshipers Were the ones who were bringing food to the prophet and his family in the night Those who became very famous later on in history. They never came to shebi abut alib to feed the prophet I just want you to know that It's interesting with all due respect the pagans used to bring food for the prophet hadija was there with them She struggled she suffered They said they used to carry rocks on their bellies because the pain of the stomach due to hunger was so much They didn't know what to do, but hadija stood by her husband She never challenged She was a wealthy princess of the town She gave it all up. Allah says You will not achieve righteousness until you give with that which you love the most That was hadija alaihi salam that after the shebi abut alib when that treaty was eaten up by the ants at the kaba The mackens recanted they rescinded The uh boycott and the prophet was allowed to come back and soon thereafter hadija alaihi salam breathed her last She became shahida She had no money Completely spent it in the way of god historians say She was very Satisfied as you know her daughter fatima was there in shebi abut alib. She was five years of age She used to nurse the prophet when people used to strike the prophet. She used to nurse him Fatima the zahra salam alive used to nurse we like hadija did That role of womanhood is the foundation of the islam you and i have today, brother Our mothers are the foundations of humanity And when hadija passed away when she became shahida The prophet buried her historians say he cried and he cried and he cried The prophet was so in love with her Not material love brothers and sisters spiritual love That's why he said hadija and i Will be in paradise together A la la anatullah ilal qamil dhalimin Wasaya alamul ladina dhalamu Anyamun qalabin and kalibun Hadija alaihi salam in her name. Let us make a promise For ourselves that we will be just We will be generous We will be patient For to me whenever i Think of her by the way i went to her grave in in jannah tul mualla. Unfortunately these Creatures who are running the kingdom today their occupation Demolished her grave sarcophagus And you can only look at her grave from the highway. They don't even let you go to her grave today This great personality is not even allowed to be visited. That's how Foolish and ignorant Our leadership is today, but it doesn't matter She's in our hearts We will live and die In her ways