 How many of you and don't show me hands this is between you and Allah and he knows How many of you can say it? Confidently as if she's in front of Allah and says Ya Rabbi. I lived for you. I did everything for you. I Got married for you. I Had children for you. I Studied worked hard to make my career for you. I Wanted to be educated for you Memorized the Quran for you Islamic studies started Islamic institutions. You name it For you how many can claim this now and In front of Allah will say it The answer is if I want to be very honest with everybody if I say this am I right? Am I honest with myself? That's what's missing ladies my beautiful systems young and old don't blame the young