Everything happens for a reason, what is meant to be will happen, all these phrases and more are designed to make us feel better... but when it comes to betraying your wife or husband? No. No, absolutely not. I take credit for the mistakes I made before. I take credit for misunderstanding what was ok... but now? Now I don't know what to think.
When you have needs that need to be fulfilled, and the person you're with won't fulfill them, and then they kick you out/separate from you? Who can blame someone for going out and filling those needs? Needs need to be filled, that's why they're called needs. My prostate thanks me. It wasn't romantic, it was all about the prostate.