 The ex-girlfriend says, I've been having a conversation with my girlfriends and you don't pay me enough child support. What? I'm paying for a college fund for your child. I'm paying you support directly. I'm maintaining additional expenses. I'm helping for all of the extracurricular activities. What do you mean? I'm not paying you enough money. Well, coincidentally, she just bought herself a new house and a new car. Oh, now I get it. You need more money. And somehow I'm supposed to make up the shortfall for your spending habit. I said, if you think you can get more, take me to court. And sure enough, in a few months later, I get a sheriff at my door on Christmas. My wife was a few weeks away from delivering our first child and that scene was so disturbing that it caused my wife to have a panic attack and forced her into early labor. I got served with a child support lawsuit with a demand that was going to increase my support payment to extra $2,000 a month.