 Morey Tanner do me a favor. Hey Kristen everybody do me a favor get a pen and piece of paper by the way Hey, my team you guys do the same thing. Yes grab something. Okay, grab something to write with. It's cool. Listen This is gonna be our meeting. This is gonna be our meeting this morning. I'm gonna have it with you I'm gonna have it with my team Clap the room I'm coming through they want to see what I'm bow. Yeah, I got skills do it for the thrill Lucky so I want everybody to write this down Evan. Come on everybody doesn't matter where you're at Everybody write this down the number one way people handicap themselves the number one way a person can handicap themselves Look, I'm gonna tell you if you're not getting what you want life. I'm gonna tell you why you're not getting it This is for my team. This is for you guys. This is for all of us Okay, really is this is the best truth you'll ever hear the number one way people handicap themselves I want you to write this down They assume and they tell themselves stories about their situation Write that down you assume and you tell yourself stories about your situation. Do me a favor It's also about life and your circumstances that aren't true. I'm gonna read it to you You assume and you tell yourself stories about your situation About your life and about your circumstances that aren't true. They're not true You are lying to yourself. You know that you're a liar Okay, you're making up shit about yourself assume and tell stories about yourself and about your situation your life and your circumstances that are not true Every single person has one thing holding them back. It's right here with my team. It's in your head with me It's in my head with you. It's in your head Okay, this is stage one. I'm gonna give you a five five ways One two three four five by the time I get to five you'll understand how to fix every problem in your life right now Every problem whoo money Relationships your health. I don't care everything's gonna be fixed So number one the first start of the problem. This is where the problem starts You assume and tell yourself stories about your situation your life your circumstances that are not true All right number two. Okay, you let that assumption or that story write it down You let that assumption or that story that you made up Okay Dictate your actions Look you lie to yourself. I'm gonna ask you this If you feel like you got a problem, what type of action do you take not a lot? Okay, if you tell yourself your life isn't great, you're not blessed You're not the luckiest person ever live. Do you think that you're gonna have much luck today? No, you're not So because you tell yourself about a situation life Circumstances that aren't true what happens is you let those assumptions from number one, right? Those stories that you made up. No one else screwed you you guys screwed yourself. I can screw myself Okay, I let those assumptions dictate my actions Because the way I feel about myself my story and my state is gonna be based off the actions that I take Am I right? Let's go to three now number three. Okay because of number one and number two, okay You become crippled now you're stuck Okay, now you don't like who you are And you're not taking the action that you need to take to get the results that you want like What are you? You're crippled You're done. Everybody's done in here. You guys are done. I'm done. Everybody's done You guys see how simple this is you want the formula to freaking knock it out your life and change it You want the real formula. It's right here in your own head. You guys are pointing at other people saying he's the problem She's the problem. I don't like what they're doing. You're doing something to yourself and you don't like it Knock it off Knock it off So in case anybody just got out on a walk through a fast number one the first problem on the way that people handicapped themselves is they assume and they tell themselves stories about their situation life and their Circumstances that aren't true number two They let those assumption and those stories that they made up dictate their actions Since because number one you're told yourself a shitty story and now your state is shitty And now you won't take any action because you don't like who you are because of a fake story you made up Now you become crippled All right now number four. Okay, what it does is it takes you far away from the truth Write that down It takes me far away from the truth. Let me explain the truth. The truth is I'm made to be great The truth is i'm capable of anything the truth is I can beat any problem in my life But you know what? Because of this that bullcrap story because of all the shit I made up because the actions I didn't take Because of the way I felt you know what I became crippled And now it takes me which is the truth you can beat anything. You're great. You're capable. It takes you far away from it And who did it you guys did it You did it Yes, guys. Do you see how easy it is to beat everybody? Guys is this easy You think people are sitting here on a monday morning learning about how they're becoming crippled and what they can do to change it No ways You know what they're doing the same old same old Everybody look round and round round and round same old story ain't happening in my life Not gonna happen with my team and it's not gonna happen with you if you're willing to change All right, aren't you willing to change? Can you quit self sabotaging yourself? You guys you're doing it to you but you're the problem I'm the problem anytime that my life doesn't go the way that I want it to go. I'm the problem Somewhat on my perspective has shifted Everybody has problems Guys extreme ownership. It's time for it extreme ownership You're the reason you're not getting what you're getting Now it's easy to say but now we need to understand it. I'm explaining it to you Okay, guess what we're gonna finish here with number five number four. It takes you far away From the truth. I told you this is the truth. You're made to be great. You're beautiful You've got the best personality in the world. You can close any customer You're gonna earn more than more money than you know what to do with But you're all the way over here because that's the truth And this is all taking you far away from it because you're crippling yourself. You are number five This person keeps going round and round Inside the world Inside the world the world is your mind You keep going round and round inside your shitty assumptions That who created You created You guys create your own problems this right here You keep going round and round inside the world Which is your head of all the shitty assumptions that you created for yourself. No one created them for you You created them now watch this the times in my life that my life didn't go the way that I wanted it It was because of me Look, you guys have everything in this world right now that you need think about it. Your life's pretty good Okay, let's just call it like it is Imagine how lie how great life would be if you literally just realized how great your life was and you quit Look, would you talk to your children the way you talk to yourself? I don't think so Okay, some of you are very ugly to yourself. You're very ugly So my goal is to put you in a state and for you to tell yourself a story that will want to make you take More action take more risks than you ever have in your entire life ever You know why because you feel like you can win why because of the things that you've told yourself And then guess what while the rest of the world is crippled how easy is it for you to come in and be great Oh my god, it's like taking candy from a baby. Does that make sense? Yeah, okay guys look I'm gonna hand this over to Sean. I want to say this round and round round and round round and round You want to get off the hamster wheel? Go back to number one Change the story change the situation that you keep telling yourself you're in you're not in that situation. Okay? Okay, you want to feel feel pity on yourself. That's what you want to do. Okay. I know it's sick You people love to feel pity on themselves They like you know, I think people need to feel alive and instead of feeling love and going out and doing great stuff They like to sting themselves with pain so they can feel it Okay, it's disgusting knock it off. Okay. He can feel really good. That's a much better addiction. Okay, so guess what? Change the situation the life in the circumstance Story and start telling yourself what is true go back to number one and take out take out one word Everybody do this watch watch how fast your life will change Assume the stories that tell themselves about the situation their life and their circumstances that are true Not that aren't true We put our true in there one word number. I'll tell you guys one word close the deal One word go to r instead of art and all of a sudden guess what? The actions that you take are through the roof and you're doing phenomenal at them You're not crippled You're living in the truth and then the world you're going round around in is a beautiful life And you're winning at levels in every area that you always want to win Anyways, guys