 Good morning to you. Thank you so much for being part of this morning conversation. My name is Ram Maguquo. It is a pleasure being with you on this fine Thursday morning. Of course this is power talk. It is the best place to be each and every Thursday. I repeat this show as again every Thursday at 10 pm. Of course we value your feedback. Let us know where you are watching us from. As we continue with this morning conversation right here on power talk and we shall sample your feedback ability on as you continue with this morning show. hedeva toa Facebook page, that is at Y254 and drop in your comment on the comment section below our photograph. We shall be able to see that on our Facebook page but ensure that you also like the page and follow us on all social media platforms. We are coming to you live from the broadcasting house here in Nairobi, Kenya. We are also streaming live through our website and that's at www.kabc.co.kefastlash Y254. Now today we want to talk about the role of men in relationships, defining the men's role in a relationship. That's what we want to talk about and this morning it's all about man's talk. Today I am with purely gentlemen. We want to find out what do men believe is their role in a relationship. The society has defined it for us, what do we believe. Today I am with Antonin Janga who is next to me. He is a counseling psychologist to help us in this conversation. Karusana Antoni. Santisana. And of course to my far right is Julius Kuangu also known as Aka Masai. Santisana. He is already a presenter and comedian and of course let us know where you are taking us from as we continue with this conversation right here on Power Talk and as I said earlier on we shall sample your feedback. The Ashtag as always is Power Talk show on Twitter at Ram Aguko and at Y254 channel. This is Power Talk and Power Talk starts now. Let us know what is a man's role in a relationship. Let me start with you Julius. Onaji wama chali wama sumbukasa na hukunje wana tisha wasa na wana wata wana suma kumana wama bia man bia man. I love what is my role in the relationship. Give us your opinion in remarks wana vipikusu what a man's role is and do you think that the society is the one that defines it for us or are we the ones who should define what a man's role is especially in relationships. I think roles man ni kutavuta kwangsa una trafuta pibi trafuta pesa saisi mba kata na trafuta mba kwa usingisi Are you serious? Adiwa trafuta mba na pesa Adiwa trafuta usingisi Eyo seza nidiwa role ya ako alafuna doa iso pesa unakama saizu kiwa na do Ya kwa bibi ya kama ya demo ya kwa ni ya kwa lakinu kiwa na pesa ni zenu Anthony He's a very funny comedian.deepa't kbc Nawhite mahaje niha m اujizu niha mwa 9-Boy Iq Like you just said ma, as much as manahu me na faku tafuta, that's the society, that's the tradition in Mimetwewe na manahu me na faku when you're out there na tafutie familiar. But it doesn't mean that a woman should also stay in the house and go genuine tafutie. So when it comes to a man's role, what I believe and what I can say psychologically, you as partners, you can define the roles for yourself as partners, kenyo in our suit, kenyo in our fit. Ni halowe lmwu amue kwa ? Kwa zame manome nignua. Sihwanome kwa muwa? Sihwanome kwa muwa tinimimi ni angunu ontafanya naiingini atinia. Society efegu tu define niya, role. Bi bha za nhi tu na skeziwa kubiz Witchumaking, a man should be a protector. let's talk abo this aspect of protection. Za ona takabibi yuku protect. Uchajne kwa mi? Ati mana muwa kivi yu nani manome kwenyumba. N音i toka pwutijender role sa in a relationship mawera. uu ni kama sasa tunna specifiina tunna, tunna patia moh responsibility on one gender. Genaro shouldn't be there in a relationship. Protection, se me kama siko, for example. Se me tukohu tunna dituna uudem. I'm married to this lady. Da se me kama siko, ni meyanda job nafa kuru dilet, then something happens. Does it mean I'm supposed to come from wherever I am from, ni kujeni lindei familiar kwa sababu siko? Can't the lady do that? Nowadays you've seen ladies going to train for karate. Does it mean it's wrong for a lady to train for karate? Kwa sababu ni maname do nafa kupigani ya familiar, sasa maname kia nai. Nani nafa pigani fa. Eh, ni maname. Masai, wimama protecta? Eh, lazimama manume ntri nafa wuna kwa wuna protect familiar hako. Lagi ni size generation ni nye tukohu nauna patra. Osikyanu wakuna job wuna patra. Demo wakuna doku liko, wanaume. So wewa wuna say, nafa adi kwa yon numa muzya kikuja, yeh ndi ya kuna ille say, ya naun kia kuboma. Yama ni amenda job wana kujana, adi nafa umoji ya baka viyomba. Jusa wuna shinda kwa nyuomba, amumenda job wana kuna ya kuna dosa ya ya kuna, ya kuna ille say kuboma kukuliko. Sir, kwa ya aspecta kuku protecta? Tutagelia kwa manme doba, aba mbele, vitreta on. Yama manme protection, ni kaze rani kwa manya nafa protect familiar. Ni kaze rani kwa manya nafa protect familiar. Ni maname. Manume nafa protect familiar. Anto ali kwa nasama demsiku zon na nga karate. Yama kuna iniki na aba asana tanda tanda umoji umoji umoji umoji umoji umoji umoji umoji umoji umoji. Wana liya ni weyama ya uze, wana kupiga kipiga nduru. So watu wei kujana kwa nga liya nauna, wana na nga ndu na piga, lekinu ndu na nga piga. Yama ni weyama na kupiga naena na piga nduru. My goodness. Nakini macha ili sikusi, do you think men of, sikusi to, armen becoming weaker, wana manbaba zetu, kupi megeuka, armen ni wana sikusi to, wanomono na pigo sana yet, who should be protecting who? I think sayze ni zinizi, zima vii kula tunakula. We zinia mi uta kula chipo, na dema kula chipa mauga liya, na kumpiga na desi. Kitrambo li kuna pata, mzea maim kasu bui, babuse ito na kula mavi asima, nromanin. Nazi leko tu kali kali, wana wana mavi asima. Nisi sa isi dem mkuku desi, mekula chipo muna troshana, wana rusha kofi na rusha angumi, wana pata angumi mekuku wanga bizuji, liya kofi ako. So, maanomono na isi sa protect family, wana mkuku angumi, sa isi sa tawana troshana. Kuku watana weizi yemata kibiya, kwa za kuli kumi yini, kuli kubibi aki. Nduna pata, wana mail banda stand, woa betu kili dyewana tal. Ando? Protection protection just has to do with ok, a man kuna ila tradition nali. Gwana juwana, kumusi tradition na juwata weizi yomga. But what I can say, tradition shouldn't define your role as a man in a relationship. Tukiaza kusima tradition Ram, transa kwingiriliya, kuna traditions ina maimi maini wana mya fai koosha viwa umo ma ni fai kupika. The men's role is a tradition. Traguzia tu leo. But protection, I believe it is the role of both of you. Because you guys decided to be one. You need to protect each other in that relationship. You need to protect your heart. It's not about only security protection. Look at it in the wider, in the kubuakabisa. Kuna protection niya rohwa. Both of you need to protect each other's heart. Both of you need to protect your family. Both of you need to protect everything that is between you two. So you need to protect each other's security. Kuna there is beyond security when it comes to protection. Nasi umu kuna amtra me kuja katusiwe bia kuhu. Anyway. Nasi kia una zemanga, we'll die for you. I'll fight for you. Ako kia na kwa yunglaa relationship is a campus nowadays. Uta pata ni vi different. Nasi kia uto na piki nasana ni waschana. Nasi nga ni napanyaka. Anyway. Let's move on to something else. Taka kongelili a kusu the providing aspect. Yes. Kama the man we believe is the provider. And I'm starting from a biased point. Tata miyambia kama ni kuya. If it means that the man is the provider. Nowadays, man kendo ana analeta pesa. Manam kendo ana linda wa toto. Tena wana wakendo wana amua. Wana zema kama ni pesa. Tuna tumia hivi. Na familiarita fata hivu. Who should be defining this role of a provider? Kwa familiaria? When it comes to provision, we should come. Uve ni mese marama. We're talking about a relationship. You guys are partners. Muli amua. You guys are not having personal lives or individual lives. You guys decided to be one. So when it comes to provision, mume amua. Muta kuwa pamoja. So he aspectia pesaia. Dem ni pesaia. Dem pesaia manami ni heitu. Haifa ikuwa ivo. And what if sasa hi fikiwa mahali jubiangu ishe kama manami. So it doesn't mean that sasa wu manam kia kiprovadi taka ni kama na kuwa bi. It has to just depend with you as a partner. What are you comfortable with? Kuna manami, how easy kubali manam kia take care, ama provide for the family. But if you have that aspecta, tisha sasa mume manam kia biiangu wa easy provide, gafendiangu wa easy provide to tapas over the same thing to our children na ita ndelia ivo. But what I can say is as much as tradition atwezi, nivi totwezi yungelia, but it doesn't mean that everything from our tradition, ama everything that the society tells us to do is what we supposed to put in our relationship. This is not society's relationship. It's not the traditional relationship. It is our relationship. So providing both of us have to sit down and say this is us doing this together. It's not about weme maname, leta kila kitu, mimi kama manam kia pesayangu salari ntapelika kubangu. No, no, no. Akinu kisamu kuheli, niki chaka kama sayu na jua, kuna manami ni ati niye na nafapa pesaya saloon manikiwa niye niye niye. Niwa nafama pati e. Siya tiye na na pati ado ya kuhenda kinyozi. Niu kuheli, ala bato kiniaribu kwangalia kama boi ya kuna do, amatse me demoa kuna do kuliko boi ina kwangangumu sanaku pata atimunaka in peace. Ju the moment do demoa kuna pesami ki kukuliko anata kanga kukukaliya, juna jua e wuna sayu aneza toka enda piki rifu na mabishitewa kia ruli kwenyomba, kuna kitutra moambia, jupie wuna ni kimoambia, ni kimoangelesha enda, niya talipa inyomba food. Kama demoa na ando mob kukuliko e. Can it be a threat for you as a man? Kama demoa. If your woman is earning more. Ni threat by the way. Ion ni threat. Jua tamu kikosa na napeba food saika aneenda. Una zatene una zokumu fuata fuata nuna jusa sawe wewe u kochi niya kuju. Ion ni umanasai niya ni. Una toko nume na ruli mi. Ameenda unale usiniya jama zbaka kairubu mame usiniya jama ni kona bole ako police usi e enda. Kuna mimba ako usi e enda. Naki doa shangani. Do you think that in e-contextia tu, ajani ungelele kuswa waza wakampo sana? Because hapando palikuna ma relationship mob zeniwa zikuna issues. Chiali anapua doa namzai anas fika shule deyama nga takayu do. Anasa yama mibi piyama kukukini sort hapana tsidi ya demuasia kili pa rent. How is it? Ko na asi ni mniseidi ya ni ni? Mi ni kwa naazo nikiiseidi. Kwa naazo niseidi dou jangana tu ki imo. Tisai zimei kua ngo muju na bata gem. Ata kabo, na kabo lakini demuasia sewa nbimu. Mbaba zalambeddo, akiwa ni mingi anesa kia yoko boyfriendi, akiwiki doko Basasa dino na koka kambas na kona domingi kukuliko Piwa unaanza kunye nyeke atuapu koka kambas mu kipandanga iwi Dho, ame pata joba, masyama liza, kila kitu, umeshazu aia kutoka kambas elkua na kuchunianga Soa wuna sayi, from the start iyo relationship adyuko jiyu, ewa wunaanga sayi Wuna zade demonya kona domo kukuliko Miimi, hapo inalikana Hapo inalikana Mbaba zalambeddo, mingi kukuliko Alafu kukua na chesa rollza waif Ame zalambeddo, akiwiki doko Akiwiki doko, mingi kukuliko Akiwiki doko, mingi kukuliko Mbaba zalambeddo, akiwiki doko Kama ya kukuliko, utasema roliya kwa ni gani kwa iyo relationship Nichungu iyo pesa akiwiki Siye kwa kutria wungu Jiyu, jiyu zasa, inamwe kanga iyo wungu Mbaba zalambeddo, akiwiki doko Mbaba zalambeddo, akiwiki doko Siye ziyu kukakaunu jiwa pikem interotype Ueno humативu Semia na na zima G enhanced destruction Kuna yu suoli memuliza. Yu aspektiya kampo, mzazi, nini, nini, na kuna gafre na na una pewa mi. Yes. Yes. Kenyana zase maram. And I'll repeat. Ami wambiyam tu. When you're dating, you're not looking at just a dating aspect. Unangali te biga picture, which is marriage and being a wife. Looking for a wife. And I will say this. I'll repeat. Uziwai owa demu niya hana financial stability. Dema taji jika isha ju kulipare hana ju yata mafutu na kwa aspeza. Mi nyotem kwa kampo. Nyotem kwa kampo. It's not like the both of you are financially stable. But you'd get something. Because I use it. Tumaga kama vidyana. Yes. Tumaga kama vidyana. Nyotem muna do. Nyotem me sota. Do you know kampa students and a lot of money niile tuwa wajiwangi sosia kutawa? Kuna witu mingi wasewa kampo na patangado. Tasa. Bona ni tafutu nitu kwa. Okay. Tse mi kama atuna do na mi bimi do na pewa do na mzae na lufu nikuna wu girlfriende. Usingo je una joke tu mi na advocate. Yu as a girlfriend. Wait for me to give you. Una joa piya uki sema uningoje niku patien. Ni kama uuseime sikuia ni ni. Ni kekuli zaramu ewe sikuia valentine na mi puti on the limelight. Valentine. O kusawa kupela kia kuletewa mawa na girlfriende ako. Nivekoka kwa spotlight lewa. Will you be comfortable at Valentine's Day this next year februa di 14th? Kafina kama hei na jo na kupenda. So mawa ndi ui kona choklet na mazao. Anthony. Ni kama viki tu. Mawa niya waschan na. Ndi kwa uspiniya waschan na. Niya waschan. Militare suti basi. Militare suti. Ni nube belt ama wallet ama So mawa ime kwa ime. Ndi kwa niya waschan na kaka. Waschan na do nafa kule kupela kwa tu mawa. Ndi kwa waschan. Onaza kubali militare mawa. Ndi ni kwa sawa. Ile ule moya David na kufanya miyamo rapo. Una letewa moya kujaku dansi na kupeya mawa. Uyo dinoma ha? Teyamo. Isi ya ala. Alapona nildo. Anyway. No offence but. Mawa niya madem. Mawa niya madem. Ya. Nbuna machele na vangala pelia mawa. Minda nafa ni kuzei mani nubanda. Ono na geuza isori kwa. So mawa niya madem. Ono nafa unia ya. Lapel. What I can say is. Ah, skiza. Lapel is an accessory. Lapel is an accessory. That flower that is an accessory. That beauty. It's an accessory. It's not something that I smell. Ok kwa arusi. Ono na wana shikanga mawa alafu kuna ile point. Ono pata nangapale katikati alafu chalia nape ati mawa. Ok bach. Si chalia na kwa nga mebeba mawa. Si nawezi na beni problema mitaman habi na flower. Siya mawa na patiana. Ata kwa mawa na patiana. Nguna piawa shiki. Si mawa kwa wedi. Si mawa kwa wedi na kwa mawa na sowana peana. But I think. Like it says, flower wedding demana kujana. Anapatia manu mawa. E ono kupa mawa wana shiki liya. Anu shiki liya pwa na shiki liya mawa iwezi. Amua wedi nina dilewai manu mebe maju kila mawawa. Madem waga na jikili. Ha ha. Oma ayo. Ha ha ha. Me na ungele kusumawa like a gift. Buki risha ni maanuahia, najihongo hizi ni maoji ...agua kwa kuh하 ... however, hizi ni maoji ...mashiyuki ... flowers ...chocolate ...candy ...fucki ...makii kwa wa koatia ...kwa kwa kwa kwa kuri ...inu analysi ...ako kumigwlili ...wazu ni kwa kwa kut крупa ...hdo na evenlyu ...wazu ni kwa kutare ...kuna kita kumigwlili ...fakira ...wazu ni kwa kutare ...wazu ni kwa kutare kwenza inalinga ni omawa na nipatili ya api nujoka ma ni kwenyumba ni story neza kanya hii wa tu wa tajiwa lakini imaji na naku letem belia mabishite wa kwa iso ah iyo siwezi kubali ah siwezi ni kubali ngumu za ana kwenyumba ni kwenyumba ni sawa kwenyumba nneza kwa sawa ju labdre wa toto ju kuna fidi zingina taisiwe kutoka inje ba ayiko sawa ayiko sawa umesema kama muku kwenyumba kivi enyu akupati yama uwa ba disku atnile mawa biga yama deyma kama uwa kama uwa ata kama ni mawaja masai ata kama ni mawaja kwenyumba ni mawaja ni mawana pa ita kwenyumba ma inje zi ati kwenyumba nasema kwenyumba bila pesa madem hukona kama YouTube ads na skip lemiko to Facebook siwezi kwa kwa saying VDJ Reizki iya nasema Rollza wana umeni sem naza wana muke now that muna sema we are equal tapan azi zi kwa sem azi zi kwa sem azi zi kwa kwa kwa kwa liya manu manu kwa kwa kwa mebeba mu toto tan kwa zaliwe na deyma wana mebeba nga tumiesi tiza pekiaki sasa tuko sey muwaja ume mebeba isu mbeku kwa mga uti tan kwa zaliwe alaksu sa deyma wana mebeba miyesi tiza tu na kwa jesim kwa kwa webe azi zi kwa sey kwa kwa wana wana waka pa ba zenga steve na sema kuka kwenyumba umgoje muwanamke apike ukule wana wana manu kwenyumba umgoje muwanamke apike ukule na anya mu kutafuti uchagula kuanta unye na pikuwa wei nafahu trafute uletre alaksu sa weike miguya kwa mesa na remote bibi apike ukule wana kata yuma reno anto bacha ni kwa mbiki tumoja na okali u적uwe kwa 11 na Time Wana kwa mbiki mbiki mbiki mbiki na na kansha nga mbiki ni. kwa kwa muwe kwa kwa muwe umgoe umgoe yungo kwa mbiki kwa kwa kwa mbiki Katia nga kumissisha kwa mbiki kwa kwa kwa umgoe mbiki kwa mbiki ola nga nga kwa mbiki kwa kwa kwa ...for a man to cook Na viyombo Na koshyangu na viyombo Ata unayaza, ata sihivu, umkipatam toto, unam chinchnini Na diaper, sindi yo Kuna ubayaza ni Kuna jizuni roles that tradition dreamt nangelia from Maybe iza ni tradition na society Iza ni society that tradition Mano me skuizia Of course I know very well we have men who have gone to school and are chefs Apike nyumba ni kosawa Apike? Surprize ata bithi anayaza sema Hi wiki babe, lao ni mandi Lemi cook for you From mandi to sunday I'll be the one cooking Yes, it is okay, yes Alafu una joku na iya aspektu wana umekitu mojana faku ambia Wacha iya aspektu ati Ati ko zasa umefika nyumba ni belia bibi Unaka unanggojia bibi akujiya kupiki Ati ko zumeto kakazi Naka manumu na iya kujumba mapema kwanini Yoi manumu na kubobana saibu radio ki draba saibu Ay manumu na iya kujumba mapema kwanini We ni kuku aparna We sikuku Inafama rea wana bibi ay iya kujumba patra me trenkenesa me piga Sasa utenkeniku nyumba ance kujumba aparna Manumi na fengiku nyumba sayi ne sa sano Ya a estiver na mutasoya nanabibi Ishima itrapotea. Kutikusik. In case jo bia ke ina, ina rasa na tillet, na wei me bidi uru di kwenyumba. Udangoja bibi ya kujapike. Hei, onojera, onojera babu ya kukunasiku ya liniyampia, mua naumia tasi lasmu kule kwenyumba. Niku oncha kwenyumba. Una oncha? Ono numen nwa nyama kilomoja, mepeleka kwa. Mekishu mekula nusu kwanza, dupeleki kilomoja kwenyumba. Onojera, bibi ya na amukaka, bibi ya na kwanka. Si diwa liwa nga manenogani na nyua kapaile kwenyini. Anasa amukaka to any time, from now ya, na kule tetu storye nyi liwa kitambo, miyaka kumi, miyaka kumi, miyaka kumi, miyaka kumi, na sa ison diya mepeleka nyama. Na na kutete siya kabisa, utakulea nyama na iso mizi rani. Hawizi kula. So kula nusu, letra kilomo kule pamoja. In case ki umana umeshi iba. Na what if mefika kwenyumba pamoja? Mefika pamoja. Nani ya pika? Ni bibi, hiwa ni kasiaki. Kasiaki. Okia wa bibi. Okia wa bibi, lazima, ya najiwa kupika, ya najiwa kupika. Onojera, onojera, please. I don't subscribe to gender roles. Na onojera, nama kujamburu. Nimi nifu entu bangu. Kwa kimile tu atrasidani kama, na yatafukusu wa. Ata po mila pina? Onojiwa ameta jamila. Traditions. Traditions was nafanya wa ngaume wengine wa kaive ya wako kwa sababia traditions. Kuna traditions ina, ina mini, mona mefika niya kikichen. But how will you show you woman you love her? How will you show that aspect of being romantic to her? Onojiwa kunaume, ata wana believe, ata ufai kushindu ume lete, lete, misterna wakoma uwa, makum surprise, yo nivi tuza kujinga. But how will you show that you are romantic? How will you show that you love your partner? That is cook for her. Once in a while, ata mami e bebe, ume nanda fanya kila kitu. Ina wik. Ie wiki ote, ume nanda fua, nita usia viombona, nita pika. Asimple as that. Mpele ke out. Ya ni is just spoil her. Mika feel like a baby girl. Nojwa naake na penda kutritio kama baby girls. Ha? Ha? Ha, ha, ha, ha. Ha. Ha? Ha? Ha? Ha? Tanya familia marriage. Tanya. Ha? Ha? Ha? Ha? Ha? Ha? Ha? Ha? Ha? Ha? Ha? Ha? Ha? Ha? went and bia sa ana... wan Inafela ke mbio okay Rima nikido go Mkwaana kuchai rif Manikio amete Oki niata vizuri Nasa mai e I don't know if they wash with those nails I don't know If you are a lady, you can tell me Kamia wan wa shanga Iwi napa tiapa iwi ami apa diya kona desiyo Desi you If you're a lady and you have you've done your nails tell us if it's easy to wash On you Anthony because you believe that a man can also do that When it comes to washing clothes will you be washing her clothes in lacyo's now that she has long layers Okay When it comes to the aspect of having long nails Na ju sasa wu na jua, wu ude ma na juo kwa akuna chali. Na juo hakuna the girls, ama isi kusile. We are trying to build a future. Ok, sawa. Ane za kujako nyumba kewa na nails. Ni miyamua ni oshengo. Sita oshengo wazangu ni hachezake. Uta kukiyosha. Siti ni tako ni tani now. It is something that it makes her feel special. No, utako na oshe. Na zake. Na zako. Kilamtu. Because sa easy kucha wu na jua, they will never come out. That's the truth. Sasa, isi sa itoka siya li kwa na juo tu na sign up for this relationship. Ni ta osha, but isi kwa ni kama. Yo Bart nuna nana. No, Bart siya ti na sema gubaya. No na sasa, kama kuna nails. Asi make mazoe. Bifu you start even this relationship, umedify in videos enye wu na anticipate kwa yo relationship. Asi make ni ni mazoe. Asi make mazoe. Asi make mazoe. Kuna respecta apu. Asi say me ati babe ni oshengo. Ni okupata. Asi make ni ni mazoe. Asi make ni mazoe. Asi make ni ni mazoe ni oshengo mazoe. Ni ta mwosha na niki taka. Ni ki jambia. Of which I will because I want her to feel special. So ni ta mwosha. So ni ta osha, but isi kila siku. Asi ni ni mazoe. I'm trying to say ni ta osha, but asi ni mazoe ni oshe. Na isi kue mazoe. Ikiwa mazoe sasa ni takana kama. Ni kaliya. Mazoe no ni ni sasa yuki sama. Mazoe ni. So anga kusuko siya wiyombo? Mazoe no ni? Mazoe ni ni me mwoshe aleo. Semi from Monday to Wednesday for three days. Then now from Friday. Semi me osha Thursday. Sasa Friday na ni, Iki si ni mazoe. So ni oshengo wiyombo. Ni oshe aleo. Ni naka, ni kama ame isoe. Sasa wiyomba ni, one good thing to make her feel special. Asa na takawit fanyange. You understand? Which is? Wendu me mwzoe sya. Wendu me mwzoe sya kumufuli anga. Para kama tatu kwa wiki? Ikiwa pana. Kila mutu akaitu na kasi. Kama ame ni bibi ango ni likuwa. Jumimi ni likuwa wufu anga. Onani pigecha kultu na saidi anga. Na tulewa trotu. Asa mbo na webe ya tii, onani pei kasi ako ni kufuli e. Atu mazama wuli muwa a kufuli anga. Nasi atu ni umene umesema iwi. Umesema umesama oshe alea. Lakin isi kwe mazoe. Ita kwa? Umesama iwi mazema iwi. Ita kwa? Yes. Sasa. Mazoe agani Ubo nwikiwa. Nani fwezaa iwi mazoe kwa wikiwa kwa wikiwa. Sasa na kwa. Nani. Tulewa trotu na saidi anga. Kwa mbo na zaidi? Kwa mazoe? Kulisha ni naka? Nani. Naka. Nani. Nani. Kwa ka? Kwa. Nani. Nani. Nani. Nani. kwa heating alles. But to make her feel special. But it is not a continuous. It is something that we can't let her girl do a kind of lil but I don't Нет we can't feeding, but I don't do it for her. but it's it is for me. way way Ya alama . Feels dire CBD Sijisha wa k plastur One thing I stand to say Easil KR Fanteres Let me see what I'm trying to say this Naturell There is a role And traditionally kunaile role Wedi kwa amu kaya Anapoka muwa ITU modern Ultimattihiy Nicka 11 Sa roliya k mundam I tigers But a man can do it. It doesn't mean that because this lady is... but I'm not sure if she changed diaper. So you're saying these roles automatically belong to the women You can do it. Yes, to make up, yes. So that's what I've said. Umekubali. No, we're going to try kwee later. Inawe inaka. Amono, amono. Umekubali. Umekubali. Daima, daima, daima, daima, daima, daima, daima, daima, daima, daima, daima, daima, daima, daima, daima, daima, daima, daima, daima, daima, daima. Umekubali. We will make up for sports as well. I'm returning the favor. Now, I want us to move to something else. Decision making. Whos role is it to make the final decision in our relationship? Aman. Masai, masai man amu chokabu. Aman. Ah, why? Manamu keizika kusahidi ya kwa mu? Anesanisahidi ya kwa mu? Why can she be the final word? Apu yutaku inawe na kanani kama. Yani, wuna kama na ka idea india na imalizia. Psemeivi, muna taku nuna, psemeiki tuka mashamba. Mademu enge oji story na mashamba. Sa hindi enge yu amanzaku. Wei wuna juwa. Na wkona mabishita wkoma. Wei wuna mashamba place plan ni poa ni ni ni ni. Tuneza panda vi tuka izo. Ya ataki uko, na wei wuna taku uko. Namukonayo do ama ukonayo pesa. Uta nuyosya abamu takata judeimu ako ataki kwenda uko. Antoni, jibu apu? Honesty speaking, Ram, decision making. Nita Anza, from what I was saying in the first place, this is our relationship. This is not the society or the traditional's relationship. When it comes to decision making, we will make decisions that is best for us. But si mimi kama muna ume ni kuja ni semei, ju ni shamba, mi nuna jokusu shamba. Akuna malimenda agu funds wa about kuja shamba. Decisions both of us can come. Sa me, for example, nuna kuja tuna taka, kupkununua nyumba. Tasa ni mi nuna takuja ni semei, ni me pata nyumba rwaka, alafumu kenda rwaka una pata yu nyumba mischa na jipenda. So, oro sema, ah, mi nuna ni meyamua. I nyumba nuna ni me. Pa na nodu reishi. Bona dey muya, kwa apende kitu iniwe una penda. Asi pende kitu iniwe una penda. Umana ni nyumba ni powa. Tutaka afiti, ya patu ki owote. Si nana fa apende tu? Mel-stuvenism. Apa, I know ladies waka nyumba yon nasama wana klikon. We are annoying people here. Masai, yon nasama wabe, utamu wa tuki laki, tu sila zuma ya awange. Tonga Umm Inmaster Ako na do na amemekyo decision ni kubali tu na sija hii angaliya Apaana Na zima ni ta angali kama ni poa ni ta kubali In short, in short rum Decisions ni otwawini Na taka tu angali Facebook Alafu na kuja kwa koa So ni kama... Timozi Are you going to bring them up Ama ni zi sumetru apa iwi sa izi? Una leta, sawa Aha Wajte tronza na nani apa Marishi Gadi Anasa ma mwanyameva Kwa kuja white anongia visuri Aliwa companion Na siyo made Exactly Anongia kusu Anto Kompaniya siya Kamare na... Kwa kuja Anto salime? Na zuma po Hello Ndiumi Misa sa Prince Gato Kinga na sama Acha ni ulize wajakoya He is the only normal man Ni maona Kenya Hei E brada Vibes Kevin Octopiso Manuume niya tulie achezewe na yei yei. I don't understand what you're saying. I say, Levi, but anyway, ni sawa. Scott, that long name, Scott anasema, the ageless me in the relationship a man should provide all the basic needs to commence with, then go to an extra mile as the man in white says, a'ochevyombo bibi anakamua kumpeleka out time ya leisure, na mi e kwangu ndakua na mimbia sweet songs kuwani? Eh, perfect. Anto, ora na kuita the man in white, a'cha ni kuji kwa kwa, the man in white. Can you sing a song to your woman? Eh, kwa pika mera? Onaza mimbia wimbo? Vizuri. Vizuri. Ya ni wimbo ambao sauti angu na toa nyoka pangoni. Wimbo ambao utam nasa. Wimbo ambao atafil. How to say my joke, you do not feel like your ego has been. Kwa ni sauti? Ni kwa mifinilwa. Sauti kwa ni nifisa atu wa lipewa. Na ta mi naeza imba. Onam mimbia? Malaika na kupenda malaika. What is wrong? Masai, masai. Onga ya kwa uswewa na na. Ni mi labda ni imbe yimpa sa tradition, lakini seit ni imbe edem. Ya apana. Ona imbe yajem zichara. Kamana raka rif ni imbelek, ainda yi bambia. Batu ukewa na demu na mpembele sa saan naiv. Inafapa piya sa zinginu kuweki dalipan tuflani. Di ukewa na mpembele su na mwenshiwa mapenzi. Demu na nata na kuchezanga uju hangi. Di ukewa na kwa katua pwa, mwa katua kizu su tuwa pwa na mwemia mapenzi. Ina mwemia mapenzi numwenshiwa wene nga na kumu. Iza vi tu piya madae mwa na boi kanga na. Kwa talipan? Madae mwa na onataka mtu numanawme. Ina mta kumu tu mwe na atahongia, uka na seiko yi ungu rumesiku imba. E, siya tu na kujya tuwa pwa numene nge. Ati u. Ata kukali, ata kitoka inja kuna si kuta. Jwa na jwa tata, tataoka ni ambia bebe mmin meche lajub kido kwa, kini taka mba daye. Anakuja ni henda li kuna mutu. na kuja me bambu kwa wakabiza, iso me nyimbo na muimbo kwa nyimbo sasa me himbo kwa live. We wakapote na mongesia zingi na nashini wakabiza. Ya rei, rei rashaka una muimbo yalafu bada yam na chana. Hmm. Ya za iso me shonamba kwa vitrengi. Ya wapendi na kwa ngamba yaw ala. Ha misi iso vitrengi zi na edanga. Abyafu na me kwa sana. Utafate. Utafate. Utafate. Utafate. Utafate. Ningori yaw. Ya, apa anaba. Ehbu, na ni. Timo, bring up yo, yo komitingina. Na ni, yon ni, yon ni. Yon ni Emmanuel Pemba. No na me... Umzaya naoshyanku. Eh brother. Ya, these are the ladies. Do you agree with this thing man? Ha, naoshyanku. Yon ni this is real man notion. waz You can easily ask you can easily ask Ya ni gina Timo, alafo, alafo tendelena yi konvaz funnyata waapa. Kuna kituginda lu Komisamaa pui ni nirasamaa ta gudia. We are going to come back to it. Ra-ra-ra-rush-ruth-hais-el. Anasa maa siya ni Shida yote Mwanoume-Aki-Pika ama kufanya kaziyote ile. We are all the same. Amazing. Amazing. Inosent warus. Anasa ma ma masa ya Wanoaume, kwengi ya konyuma, ni ma sanne huku sas. Ati? Masa wanome kwengi ya kwenyuma ni wuku masa nne, wuku sasa hiku pika na kuhoshi aviyombo ita toke awa pika. Siku enyenta pika kwenyuma ni siku ni ko alone bibi amena home, natasiyo lazima ni pika na izakula kwa uteli ni kujeni lale tu. Kwa wanome? Kutritch, umwanamuke ka bibi girl, mimi siwezi aende atritiwe na mamake. Kutritch, umwanamuke ka bibi girl, mimi siwezi aende atritiwe na mamake. That's the situation. That is very bad. Kwa wanome? Ingi ya kwenyuma sasa nne, sasa tano. Kwa chaku ingeni ya na kuku sasa kumi na mbili ban. Kwa wanome? Ingi ya kwenyuma? You are a responsible man. You are coming home on time. You take care of your family. Saturday na sanda ishinda na familiar. Kutritch, kwenyuma sasa nne. Kwanu kuna musiya na hibanka sahine, kwa wana kujaka saraan, sati sa. Situ kuma ingi ya. Ay, ay, ay, ay. Alright. Konamta mimi amu uli zapa. Okay, someone is calling. Don't call guys. Just drop in your comments. Tanruza. Masa yukona dem? Yuswari ni kumu. Kumu sana. I think we ingi na kusana. Now, lakini, niko nuko yo process. I think they are wondering if these rules that you are giving us here come on as if anya kwa relationship ya kumu. As if anya kwa? As if anya kwa? Siisema kitu sejui. Mi, siisifua. Ainawa niaji. Konza ndoma dem wa nanipenda jumi ni ma naume, na kuru ma, nafa unifuli yung kwa. Adasili asma ni ma mbe nafa unifuli. Na mbe tungo zangu ni chafu. Sasi naju wa nimi nafa afan. Yusifua ikia wa chafu. Lakini kale kwa muki ansa ansa ntukunaka naka kufalafu la ni kakumu fuli fuli adi yung kwa. Nini, kua usha hali liwi atu. Kuma bamba. Nini ma ramo ya, kustu kaka kustu kia. Asia na piya tuju kufu. Yusifua fuli yung kufu. Na mbe tatu jumi. Lakini ma kufu nafura kufu. Na pierdirimu nii maku kufu, kwa lakini, kuriatia kumentara. Buona na lobo, bi lobo kutia kaziwa kufu nani. Niki kwa kata muna ni ntuku kufu. Nini, kwa kata muna. Kwa muna andrema nikita? Dwa na ni, kutia kami. Kuntokuni. Uda kubari dem kwa katiwa. Kami rangu negani. Kama ni kuni katia nyama, for a man I believe that in the beginning God will create Adam and Eve. Ali toa Eve from my, ni rib, so kuma nisha it's a role of a man to go for the lady. But when it comes to now the 21st century, things are moving, generations are moving. So nowadays it is very, if you go up and you're a lady and you're on an opportunity to make a function event, you'll feel this is the best opportunity for me to get this man. Ni kitoka he events it and pattern and you feel like maze, lazima ni mkatia. Lazima ni mua approach umu na ume. Go for it, baby girl. Una muna muna angali ya mahalia puh social media, una gopakun gia DM. Kama ni Ram, in gia DM ya Ram. Kama ni suti ume panda, in gia uma mbe I love your suits. From hapo tachezakama ya. Sia ti nanda direct you know I want you to be my boyfriend. No, wanam kia abe iti haku katia ngi directly. Anaku wambi anga hello Anthony, ama hello Ram. I love your suits, I love how tall and dark you are. Just that anna compliment. Aka ma ni timo na wambi ala wa you wear specs. Una vaavizu naka wizuru na miwani. Apo from hapo ina ingia directly. Ue kama manumuna tachezakama we? No way. Alafu ya ni ya kukatia. Sia ti, demana kutu ei checki Ram. Ei mi na kudai. Una ni dai, katia. Anafaku, ladies don't go directly by the way nowadays. Onaku janga, onanzangana compliment. Mi bia naza pita umhaga kumbe ala wa you smell. Maidi that's a direct shot. Nila tuwaja isema. Maidi kama Ram kuna demamu kuhaga kukumbe ala wa you smell. Uya dema kama kuna miwana kidogo. Na next you have naza kuna na ring kidogo ei naza kua wizuri. Ya ni. Ya ni. No. Ya ni. I'm speechless. I don't know. I don't know. You're saying that they should give compliments. So Syria dem kukatia chalini. Give compliments. Kuktu compliment. I love how you look, I love your suit. I love how you do. Dema kisha, akita kakuendelea niisawa. Akita kakuendelea, but what I believe it is the role of a man to go for the lady when it comes to nauku katia na kua approach. Sasa kuna wanaume wanaikanga. Nila dema kini katia ni damtumia. One word. Dema naza kaku katia? Mi miyapo, siyes kubali. Siyes kubali demwa nii katijun takamu nyongke. Bua anta kasi na misdari. Wachap. Wachap. Look back in the news. We'll continue this particular conversation. Ladies talk to me. If you are living in Nekhaivi guyanani. If you are like a guy. For example, if you like Ram. How do you approach Ram? Whotafanya graphi? Your face or your smile? In the short, RamPM is trying to say that you can shoot your shot? Say some untKelly about it. Because the cousin rate. No, no, no, no. Ya, goi no rabu ni. Why 254? Imagine. Asante, asante. Thank you so much for sticking with us. Wao, it's all about understanding the men's role in relationships on this fine Thursday morning. Remember, this is Powatokifatul, you're just joining us. My name is Ram Magukko, welcome back. kwa mwam naki ni mwama uwa kapa kapa ya ya kijima. Kumuni mwa mwa kwa kwa kwa mwama uwa kapa kapa ya ya kijima. I know that Mi now a'za fua Nakuasha Viombo, hiyohua Mi minaona inawangesa upendo. Akabisa. Amazing. Nakuna piyegine ron na ni. Timo. This guy muna mbebebam totu Nakuna easy. A good display. This display. Yuki twa piyuvi. Ukitwatai yere ui lete. I want people to see that image. Deli Ali Anasama, hello guys enjoying the show, thank you so much Del. I got to say that my man, my man in white is right. What's her name? Deli Ali. Deli Ali, thank you, thank you, I'm here for you baby girl. Kuna Ali. Kuna Ali na Kuna Deli? Deli Ali. Ali Ali. Alla Nzima, you are here, wala nzima, kuwade bhu chana eh? I'm here with Izia Kwanzaa, kwanzaa. I got to say that my man in white is right. Tis is your relationship enjoying, you're woman, how you care, Showing your woman how you care, how you cherish her is no problem. In decisions how to sit discuss and come to a single solution, kufuapia na yo marambili kwa wiki is not a bad thing. Exactly. I'm not sure what to say. How do you deal with this? This is a simple question I get. How do you deal with this? I must say that I'm not sure what to say. I've never thought that we will deal with this. And I always watch my boyfriend's clothes and that's not a problem to me. Good. Um Namikini, sama. Mladha khansia paksaja kwenita. Lutia. Yo, kwa maha kua-kata. Mladha kwenita. Ya, na kwa maha kwa maha. Tozi, tuzi. Tama, n عنira. Taka kwa mha hibatoan. Thank you so much. Thank you so much. Anyway, I think today you talk about the man in white. I don't know what I like here. Men should be romantic. Robby Tusha can provide for the families, the work of the man. Skeleton. Masai apu na bongafiti manze. Manome na faku cheza 70% kwa relationship. Yo 30 niya dhim. Kabisa, yo 30 niya dhim. So imagine una fuwa, una pika. Atrafika maalia kusuhia kwa ambiyan pako mosh. Kilamutu estiku rollzaki. Apu na kuja. I can't see there. I don't know if what is on the screen. Let me just read what is on your screen there. Skeleton. Masai apu na bongafiti. Ziki mera na sama yo. For me I'm financially stable. So haja ya manome kwa maisha yangu. Siyo ni. Masai. Hao niya ya manome kwa maisha ya ke? Atia kwa financial stable. Hao niya ya manome. Siyo kwa useless. Atia miitwana. Badi nimuni kulise. Presa inesa kupati yam totu. Inesa. When it comes to alili bin financial stable Ram. Ata kama na una ni kama anidi manome. Una itaji kuwa na partner at some point. Kompanyon la zi. Mata kama na juna kuna pesa. You need just someone to give you companionship. Nando nili kwa bia. Nando nili wambia. Akiwa na pesa mingi. So neskevenya na zema. Sasa imaji mukone kwenyumba. Kona iso dozote. Nuna neskevenya na zema. Abutimola bring it up again. The other one. Ah, this is the one. So wujama? And kona? Come two yu up if you via! Is eating. Una nuna weyssize alian za kama the money in white. Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. Tips niki n FREE friends. Yoshe tovi hato uhoshanguo ya, menyalimone kiazank, na konandizi hapo. Kuna higina, lukuna display, hapo iwi, nigani hapo. Lemi just continue with what I have. Shiazi Diana. Anasa maha, all roles are equal. What about bimi nikiwa na tokea job let's, bimi nikiwa na tokea mapema jobs, na tokea mapema sasa job. Sasa which means atangodia addi ni kam, do ni pike ama atapika. Do maana kuna kwa gana men's conference, muneza kama limuongi, kama wanaume, atasilas mawa kunyue, nikofi, muneza kunyua kofi, nona, ama iwi higine atua kubua, mukiyongi hangu. Uziya higine kwa kuna mapema, ambeliya bibi ya, kuna imbaya, kibisa. Apo mi nasianga kuna na suma ni imbaya, manome kuna kuna mapema. Nene na kufanya ni kuna mapema. Nene na nisha responsibility. Responsibility kuna mapema. Responsibility kufanya je. Nene na kuna higine kuna mapema, na kuna mapema na tandikana, kujama saya sana ni sataan uko, bibi kasha kujama, pika muna kula, nga kina uko, atakupatia respect. Nene na kuna kujama mapema, bro, highway zi. Prins geto na mi nasianga, what about the co-curricular? Prins geto kinga na suma, acha ni ulize wajakoya, ni nisha suma yo. Kuna niya marita kwa skinti mo? Let me read this. This is Danny Lajoan. A guy in White Anaya za sema hata moa naume wapia mimas asa. Anaya za sema hata moa naume wapia mimas asa. Anaya za sema hata moa naume wapia mimas asa. Ceci klasika na sema, yo yaku meqfinal decision, that is male chauvinism. The guy in White, that is the other genitoria? Hakimbanya bakía tbspu wa na t embarrassu wura Premio beb각u Nez caption webia Halinsa ambendi na hizi Antusu matологiiredaka Michosa kbutya Meche Building Skutu 1 2 Wie 2 Mechosa kbe nalเลp Ja Uki na unge hanga tu Kristine Bihanga, wao wao Mwenye ako na hudya waita Aki na unge vizuri kudos Anela wao tu needu kwa relationships Mari Shigadi Mwenye ameva hudya waita na unge vizuri Ali wa Amazing Gladis Kananu Uyo maasa ya traje lewi Nge kwa demia ke Ange tamboa Nili kwa mi utapiyo na wana Baze Ange kwa demia kusundi angeni elewa vizuri Eiii, mi isi ezi kufulia Apa iyo ni kazi ya ako Na najiwa, siya tia atama ya Ame post, anajiwa kitua na sema Anajiwa iyo ni jubu ya ka nafa Afuwe, nafa apike Jiza sii viduzangu Utawai, akuna sii kutawai treats Demia koka mbibiga, laika fil vizuri Ile kumpa ampai Afiltu napele koutu na mspoil Unafanya tubi tuzenya nafilsuit kwenyumba Nini, nini, nini Iyo ya kumpele koutu naeza, iko Lekini zasi yoku ni ambe kufu Wazi ni ambe tii atiku bamba demu Angunu ni kufulia ungo Ungo, ungo Iyo ni ungumu saan Okay, so Okay, so Keep talking to us Your comments are so many So many So many I want you to consider As you continue this conversation But remember, this is power talk And of course we are here To empower you Today is all about amends Talk, and ladies Let us know whether you agree with this conversation That our people are saying Masaya ko api ifi Anthony Pia ko api ifi the man in whites Iyo inkyu atakata vene nasema But ni ukueli, mi na ambe ukueli Iyo ukueli Iboosa imagine umu mefunga kaleso apo inkyu na fuwa Madhya kondu uza zingina, ame kushituki atu, ame koja E bro Anasi anasa kusama mutunongu anateseka Ru di dupa nyuma Tora sumati wewe Sii muana umu Wei sii muana umu me obvious Ningumu saan Half is hard I want us to continue Where we left And I am trying to remember what we were talking about Masai Nowadays we see people Who go in restaurants And these videos have been trending online on social media Manamke ame ka pete Atu wenge kusuku katiana Mamia katiana tu mechiana We are talking about Proposing Marriage Whose role is it Muma dates Muna juwana Muna juwana You are in our relationship And she pops up the question Will you marry me Na ring Na ame nil down Ame piga magoti Na tumedate date Obvious kama tumedate date Na ii mi fika maali ame nil down Anapropose Obvious ame fuwa Ame pite pite Na ii juwa Ntakubali I thought you would say no Ntakubali Ram, I honestly speaking It starts with it's a man's role This is a must Vini nilianza niki sayama Adam and Eve Adam wasn't created from Eve's rib It is Eve was created from Adam's rib So kuma nishaivi Muna ame ke I am the one I am the one who will marry you So awuma nilin down to propose for me Genuinely speaking Na Apana Wacha mimi nil Kama ugunafikiriyan Mbisemi kumalu na fikiriya kufanya Ito change nimi mimi na kuniliya down But it shows Kwanza yo pigcha ina kaage Na imagine masayumi niliwa down Na yo nini Na yo niliwa kota Uta Ya tani menotisi ewezi Ewezi Don't change your mind Uli sema utakubali I menotisi Nikiwa talipa nitu kiyanta relationship Afuwe nini, alafi tikiapa mwishu mwishu Nikiwa ngompre Masayumi niliwa mwishu mwishu mwishu Nikiwa mwishu mwishu Nikiwa mwishu mwishu Nikiwa mwishu Nikiwa mwishu Nikiwa mwishu pillikumari nini Nikiwa kote IIwa mwishu Nikiwa mwishu Fullysema utakubali woman finally that the moment maжoua nafatu kwa kyatumata taku kwa kuu pateya nafetu kwa chi yam manam wa kufanya kwa mga mpa ni tamu nili pisha tu ya mahangu mamba kwa wami na nbama kuchunia kwa kwa namin maasa na kwa kuturo kwa wami na nili katis � ni dutibosa mamba mwenwa kwa kwa kusim examine kamana aina, kabalo mwenwa kwa milo na kama ya mahangu wa kuturo kwa rubi kwa kama na mahangu ya m***a kifi kwa maina kwenwa kua kwa kwenwa kwa m 주 mbu na kapisha mskalda kwa mkudzi stö, shutivali Kwa na stages a relationship? Kuna dating, the 3 stages of now and when you get married is the dating aspect. No, it's that of the friendship. You become friends first, then you date. After you date, you court. Then after you court, now you marry. Tasa mibu mme mpele kasa na yu stagesote, muna pata me date for, me court for 6 years, nothing. Ay, si mwa na mke atachoka. So na pata me omu, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, pana wacha ni kuhu proposiye, kama ni kuhu ni yao, ni kuhu kuo wacha mi ni kuo, ibasi. Juhu mme ni ya kasa na. Abono na zisema muna mke, ame choka sana, but out of nowhere a woman's ego to come and kneel down just kwa zana fila na kupenda na na fila. So meneu lukwami suma nisa kiyukwati? Aki kukatia nisa hawa, but tasa ikifikan responsibility now to officiate things kwa marriage, let them undo it. Laki nisa asa kama, kama uliku valia kakukatia. Sindiyo. Muna jia zasa anafanya kitu aliyanzisha, anafa amalizi. Yeno aliyanzisha, yo story. Yeno aliyanzisha, aliyanzisha, aliyanzisha, kakukatia aga kumbia bimai ini. Una jwa masa indiwa lukwami suma takubali, so mi usi jingili liya sana. Masa indiwa lukwami suma takubali, so. Sawa. Fair enough. Fair enough. All right. Tu kuja kwa hii story ngini, ame na jwa wasa wengi piya wama kwa ki discussa na. Dahwari, mahari. Na nana lipa mingini. Nowadays we hear, even ladies are saying that you know what, kama ni mahari, nezaka kusahidi ya kulipa. Ha maata kama si, istoria maari, usilipe maari kwetu. Ataki mambia ni, because they see it as an issue. Ati yo, I'm not an item to be bought with goats and cows. Okay. When it comes to Dahwari Ram, yoni kitu atwezi avoid. Yoni cultural na yoni traditional. We cannot avoid that. As much as we want that atwezi, akuna culture yena zakubali. Actually, I don't know if it is true, but there's some religion that it's a woman who pays for Dahwari. Yes, it is true. Yes. There's some cultures where it is a woman that pays Dahwari to the man. It is okay, because this is cultural. This is cultural. This is tradition. Atwezi changed tradition. But now, naturally, ata Dahwari waimali zivi on the first, on the immediate day atu ratio. Imali zi hangu that day. Inakuna ila yuna kuja. There's a process. Kumbari demakusahidi kulipa maari. Kama si na pesa? Na, nizakubali demakusahidi kulipa maari. Kamerangu ni? You are still here? You are buying time? No, I'm not buying time. I want now to address it. Mstia na kuni sayidi kulipa maari. Niki kukatia ama eida, uginikatia eida. Sinili kwa ni mejipanga, there was that process of that time ni me take before me, officiate things, doi fika ni Dahwari. Then na kama mi misiku ina position financially, tunasahidi ana. At the end of the day, it is not society's relationship. It is not the traditional's relationship. I'll repeat, it is our relationship. If I'm not financially okay, you can just chip in. Misi na shida? Ma sayu nasa maji? Dema. Nizahidi kulipa maari. Suesi kubali. Ataka maakuna dum. At least ataka masina ni nuengompe moja. Ya kiki. Sumesama ni process dumari ishanki mara moja. Ya ngompe moja ya kiki, yentri sana ni ukokwao. At least ni tuwa na nyewe, ni me lipa maari. Lekini atia ni sayidi kulipa. Aa, paana. Yun patawezi wunke anka? Lemi go to Facebook. Kuna sababu mbo na card zaharusi ziliyandi kwa mail's name, words, female name. Good. Imandikwa evo. Adikuna sababu. Sasa name anna propose adi kwa boy. Kwan yee? Anaoa ama anaolewa. Ma sayu ameko aki collect ganks a pointa mi fika hapo kwa kupropoziwa aka kubali aka Karidin zote. Nili kuja ni ka? Nili kamaunz bake. Nili note uzu kuwa tu jangili ala wu kuji ukuwa, kwa paata. Uka ni gangsta 20 na mbaka mwish? Ulu kwa na gangsta pointa. Karidin zote. Timozi anasa mati kuna zene, anata kwa display kwa screen. Tu na kwa ma na mati ubu mamakiku ma na ma ma ma ma ma mnda wo ni ni na ni morengi mwanyke na se masi juwi ni slide di miya anto. Anto? Ma la ma. Ma niniwai? Ana ito ma nini, ma niki? Mwanyke nahini, ma niki profiliya. Mi ziladi? Ma niki ni jena ma namme. La kini, mwanyenge. Muringe Muringe I want to here in my DM I am dating unpo' And my girlfriend is the happiest Wherever you are, please I know you are so happy You're so happy, so why not Mapo, mapo. Mapo, mapo. What's going on? Tresa maina, a relationship is supposed to be 50-50. I can cook, clean and do business as well as my man is supposed to because niki ngonje sasa ataka ki wam chafu, a kilim tu hangu. Nga wambie masahiwe mentalitya kona yo hache ocha, yuku na irobya tau miya. Tresa maze mimi yo kuwasha siyezi, ata kama ni 50-50. Miki ni kuwasha na kupiga yo ni kasiya. Eriko de nekisto ya nga nasama, unangia kwenyumba mapema, kwa ni wewendiyosufuriya? Asanti, uni nanitwa nani? Eriko. Eriko, congratulations. Sa sita, sa saba, sa anne mapema. Meso biste, masahiya ku 50, kufuwa na kuwasha viyombu hache ama demu, kupiga mboka. Yuna manja ni mimi. Mboka ni? Mboka ni kasi. Ni kasi. Ei, shank. Remember one consequence of sin was women should be subjected to men. Chari gathiru, masahiya kufain for me. I believe kwa express love, she must ufuwa ama upike. Thank you. Na dampeleka aotra jenjoi yo ni naf. Danimpe na joa na nasa maa gai inwae na na zasa maa atama wanu, mehapema mi basasa. Shinski tesishiki. All I need is true love, nothing else. Shakuin makena, masahiya nabunga fiti lakini, ni uliziai e kama demiake ako na bol. Awa zifuwa ama atama wanikiya mboka? Demu kwa kiyo na bol. Ita lingara ni yamiye zingabi. Ako na bol tu. Ako na bol tu. Apo, labda ni wanikiya kusikiya na kasi. Williams Jerrick. Ni nakuja po next dayo. Williams Jerrick. Anasa maa masahi ukoraitia ni 100% pia. Ambiya huyo dem pesa huisha. Alvin Kabibu anasa maa masahi. Some things doesn't cost you like decision making you have to share. Saying about mystery. Uta katiwa kubali ujuwi ulicya guliwa nani. It doesn't mean you are a lesser man. Being an alpha man needs hard decision making then a role in a relationship is never to simp. Vini BK, KEE anasa mahi konvazisioni kali. Kazi ni kupovayda zaman huyo masahi hana clue ya life ya ma dhim. Saneri Bajya anasa ma masahi kupa moja. Masahi kuna ma fans apa hiwi. Sana. You wanna get a win. The guy in white got a point. Masahi watcha zako. Iba Juliet anasa maa na checka all through man. Man in white kudos. Man in white kudos. Mtu wa masahi siyoku nipeleka out to pampa your baby girl. Stella Kibbe, mimi ni dey mana isapot masahi 100% kila mutuna rotuzake. Muli sa kona mutu. Uumunya nani support. Stella. Ukona mutu Stella masahi na uliza. Uta momia. Twente Twitter. Let's go to Twitter and see this is Chris. Twente Twitter. Yeni Twitter? John Were. This on Twitter. Masahi anongia kama muwanaume sasa. Heshima lazima yudumu kwenyumba. Antoni romantic man kijana waku furaisya mke na kumfanya. Feel special. I like it. I'm following from Sogomo. Thank you so much. This on Twitter. Remember to keep talking to us. A very big thanks to Celestas. This is Celestas Manira Amos Odunga Mtotoa Kosmas. And of course, thank you so much to everybody who is tuned in also. In this conversation. Let's go to another one. This is Patelo. And some of the guy in dreads is talking like a man. Very masahi. He will put the agenda of equality. It sucks. Mama's boy uyo akona hoodya jungle ele. Hei masahi. Guy is your thing. At mama's boy akona hoodya. Of course, Adyatumalizia nani amusya. Sendio. Lafu we give our final word. This is John Werem. Asana. Nga kama mama naume sasa. Asanda sana. This is Gamalie Mulusa. Pia naona. Natunin JP Kenya. Asanda sana. Guys, thank you so much. That is our photo on Facebook. Eji kwa po. Wei. Today she was epic. Kuna wita jaguzia bado mob. Kusama kwe li bado jaguzia wita mob sana. But I want us to wrap it up because I'm being told time is not on our side. So I'm giving you time to have a final word. To mazeh story. Masahi. Time. To fungi hi story. Mi neza wambia hiwi. Ma pensi ni atuawi li. Laki ni acha moanaume ako moanaume. Ako hi kichua. Laki ni si shingo. So kama wana mpenda mutu. Kainichi ni musiki zane. But make shu na mpati roleak. Acheze roleakia moanaume. Juma dempi anapenda kama tumeni anangia. Una mwambia kitu. Una nikamu na mukomad. Wana takahi voju. Ata kuna dola kinesa wio mutu ana. But kiyona yo ni ni. Mpati e. All right. Anthony, final word. What I can say when it comes to gender roles. I believe kuna watu ona me ni. Everybody has a decision to decide and to. Venyata mo it is okay. But what I can say relationship is for both of you. Let's nothing. Let's not the culture, the society come in between what you have to say. What you have to define about your relationship. Apart from that, if you're watching. I'm a counseling psychologist. Kama kuna issue yote when it comes to defining roles. Amma any other issue. You can talk to me. My number is as always 0725-0293-98. You can get me on social media. On TikTok, official Anthony Jenga, Instagram official Anthony Jenga. Tama nambadena? Nambayangu ni 0725-0293-98. All right. Yes. Guys, it was a pleasure. This has been a man's talk. A man stable. Ha baby. Lelo tumeku wa drew. Lelo na hatu. Tuku wa drew. Asada sana. Neshkuru sana. Ni kwa. Wana social? Social media. Social media. Ni mass comedian. Facebook, Instagram na. Pia, TikTok ni mass comedian one. Sa, sa. Thank you so much guys. It has been a pleasure. That is Masai and the man in white. Yes. Mr Anthony. Anthony Jenga. N growa u mebandikoa, ati mamas booi marazi man in white. Lelo tumeku wa drew. Lelo tumeku wa drew. You cannot have to have a spotlight? Ni ileo. N西 n likhubali. Leli n eelika. The idea is to see who there is. Two close When All is done. Yes. We've laughed we've had a great time. Let's bring it, let's wrap it up with this quote as always strong men strong men men who are truly role models don't need to put down women to make themselves feel powerful amazing and i repeat that again because i believe in this men who are truly role models don't need to put down women to make themselves feel powerful amazing and this has been the conversation about men's role in relationships keep talking to us a repeat of this show as again tonight at 10 p.m. my name is Ram Maguko and that quote is what brings us to the end of this conversation a big thanks to Anthony and Masai as Anthony Sana and a big thanks to everybody that ensure this show was a success Ron and Timothy and the whole crew may god bless you may god bless the work of your hands this is power talk