 Why will a woman agree to be my wife and not give me sex? Could it be I am underperforming? Could it be she's emotionally detached? Could it be I'm hurting her whilst we are being intimate? Could it be my reaction towards a there should be a reason? Why will a full grown man that is not impotent refusing to sleep with a wife? Do you have math order? Do you have body order? Are you putting him off? Are you unclean? There are variety of issues.