Regularly, couples end to a position in their relationship where things are not the same. They feel alienated, lonely, and sometimes even as if the other person does not love them with the strength that once was. In your heart, they might be sensing "I want to save my marriage", but they merely don't know where to start.
This is the time to put all of the cares of the world to the side and save the marriage first. Typically, this is one of the most important reasons why couples have troubles. Not every day, life-long problem: but issues that should not have advanced to a much bigger and more critical level.