 What's going on and you run a daily YouTube channel? What's up daily crew singing YouTube channel? Me and Chris were cast together on a MTV show, but but as most things in the industry So I want to talk to you about sex because we always have super interesting Super interesting sex conversation. Yeah, one of the few guys that I know who I actually have not had sex with He didn't come out right You're one of the few guys on earth that I've never had sex with I'm like damn Okay, people on earth that I haven't had sex with that. I would vouch is probably fantastic I didn't lose my virginity till I was Almost out of high school, but when I was in college I was on a music dorm floor So this is literally the this one time at band camp story It really is it was a lesbian girl on my floor and she was she was like kind of kind of butch a little bit But like feminine to those are called stems Stems. Yeah, cuz this it's a stud, which is a masculine lesbian and a fem which is a feminine one stem. Oh I walked in and I was like yo, teach me. She's like you're not trying to like hook up I was like no, this is purely educational. She's like, okay close the door She takes her pants off and it was like First you got to learn what parts are what you know you learn the anatomy This is roughly where the clit is it's gonna be hide under that little hood right there or whatever and Then when you when you go into the vagina just that spongy feeling that you got up there That's where the g-spot is but not every woman has a g-spot and I'm sorry for some of you who don't but there's other ways Because most women orgasm literally so the g-spot orgasm is just kind of like a bonus if you get it One of the most important things to men is is our competency like our ability to be able to handle things on our own So I think a lot of the problem with men when it comes to sexual experiences is they're not Humble enough to admit that they don't know what they're doing so they don't learn So if you can get past that and just open up to the idea that you don't know everything There's always more that you can learn and at the end of that experience you will be a better lover for it Just ask questions. Give me the top three mistakes that men make in the bedroom. Okay Foreplay is number one. Don't skip foreplay. I think we just ended the list right there That's it. That's the main body part that men forget in the bedroom is the woman's mind Because the woman's mind unlocks everything else when you think about foreplay Don't only think about touching touching her body thinking about getting her mind in the right place because The main component to any woman being able to orgasm is where her mind is at that point in time Focusing too much on the same area for too long of an amount of time It's just kind of like if you rub like this on your arm after a while. It's not gonna feel good. It's gonna hurt I would debate that I mean that's it's the same. I guess for you as well today when you Self-pleasure you pretty much you're not down there like casting a spell You're not like doing 50 things you probably have emotion that you do right get you there But I can get there in 30 seconds. Yeah, but I think the mistake a lot of dudes make sometimes is the opposite of what you're saying Is they do too much? Yeah, so it's there's a balance All right top three mistakes that women make in the bedroom that you've experienced Thinking that just because they have a vagina that that's sufficient enough I I hate feeling like a woman's like well, you know, I'm gonna let you have sex with me No, I'm sorry be an active participant. Call them starfish You know, there's a lot of other things If you don't like performing oral sex, don't Don't because it's not it's not I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna enjoy it. It's not gonna be good Don't kiss at it. Don't blow at it personally oral sex is a huge component of a relationship It's and you know what it is I think a lot of it has to do with oral sex is about the your partner's pleasure over your own really and That that feels nice I want I want to know that it's not solely just about our pleasure or your pleasure that you want to do something Just for me I'm gonna force a tip on you because I we had this conversation lucid day when you first came in about hand jobs Yeah, just Just don't just don't most men that you meet don't want a hand job. It's just like We we're gonna we do it all the time to ourselves. We want a different experience Just unless the guys like yeah, I really like hand jobs like I don't know any guys like yeah I totally got a great hand job at least since like high school women women I don't think truly understand how sensitive that area is too. So when they do it a lot of times it hurts There's reason there's whole self-defense courses built around how to hit a guy in a dick, you know Because it's sensitive with a nut sack sense. They're not the actual shaft Oh, all of it doesn't feel good, but yeah, the nuts are the focal point But if you mean if they're like coming down like oh god, it's just like oh no you bring them back memories You're bringing back. I'm having flashbacks. Just like If a guy says this is just sex there's nothing more Afterwards don't expect because you've had sex with him that all of a sudden his mind is gonna change Don't have that mindset because I'll tell you what you're not really gonna be able to hook a guy with sex You might think that you can't it might last for a little while or whatever after you've had sex a bunch of times The same person, you know that newness wears off. It's it's a little less exciting So you yourself have to be engaged with that person mentally So don't get into bed with someone who said they just want to have sex with you thinking that they're gonna change And then getting mad at them when it doesn't because you're gonna find yourself Heartbroken nine times out of ten sex is to Chris as what is to what as video games are to children It's not something I want to do all the time But it's fun to do to be able to just pick up and go do it, but it's not my sole focus in life Thank you so much Chris for all the experience. I know where these hands have been now Which makes this a little bit more uncomfortable. Yeah, where's it? Where's it been? Oh, no, that was her hands Don't you go anywhere yet, please subscribe to Chris's videos as you can tell he makes awesome content every single day If there are any youtubers or personalities that you would love to see a sex talk with write it in the comment section below in return I would love it if you guys liked Comment it and if you learned anything from this video share it with your friends and family so they too can get an edging occasion