 Pretty little black skinned girl, pretty little diamond ring Oh, Carrie B and Beauty, Carrie B and Beauty Hey Gems welcome back to my channel I hope you guys can hear me, I'm trying to speak a little low because the baby is sleeping but I just wanted real quick to let you guys know that the clips that you're about to see were recorded the day I gave birth Everything happened so fast that I was unable to actually record the entire experience It was just literally just me, my partner, my midway and my mother home and in the room and there was no one there to record I was in denial that I was even in labor because it was two weeks early and it just all happened really fast extremely fast My midwife got here at 12 and the baby was born at 111 There was literally no time to do anything to try to record anything to try and get someone to record anything and everyone's focus was on me and my focus was on breathing through my contractions and not working against my body and allowing the baby to come into this world in a peaceful and calm environment and that's what happened I just wanted to say real quick that I still wanted to share what I did have and my immediate reaction after giving birth which is what you're about to see So I hope you guys enjoy that It's not like my video with my first son that I was able to record the whole process and give you guys a whole storyline There's none of that I just wanted to record this little intro real quick so that you guys know what you're about to watch I will record another video maybe speaking about how I prepared for my labor and delivery When I say prepare I just mean things that I was doing throughout my third trimester to prepare my body and mind for delivery not really me preparing as in planning what will happen, what's going to go down when it's going to go down I have no control over that and as you can see I wanted to record and I didn't have control over that part because it just all happened so unexpectedly So I do hope you guys enjoy the clips you're about to see So I had my baby 14 days early Yesterday was something I was not expecting to go into labor Everything happened so quick, so fast Everything happened so fast that I wasn't even able to record the process like I did with my first birth It just went I don't even know where to begin So I'm just going to run through this real quick So my contractions actually started Friday night I was up doing my partners here on the porch I noticed I started getting what I thought was Braxton Hicks but the only difference is they felt more intense than the regular Braxton Hicks I was getting So but I just breathed through them you know their platinus here I'm just breathing through them I noticed they just kept coming like just back to back I was like what is happening? And this was like minutes to 12 I decided to start timing it I noticed most of them were like 10 to 15 minutes apart lasting for a minute or a little less I was like no man, I can't be in labor It's not time yet I pretty much ignored it Well not ignored it but like I didn't think okay this is labor I'll say probably around It kept happening so I couldn't sleep I didn't go to sleep Around 2.20 am I went to the bathroom I had to pee and when I wiped I saw part of my mucus plug come out So I was like Shit Am I really in labor? I was sitting there trying to figure out Am I in labor? In fact my best friend texted me About something else And I responded and she was like Wait, what are you still doing now? I was like I'm just sitting here Trying to figure out if I'm in labor And she was all shocked So it turned out that Clearly I was in early labor I didn't call my midwife or anything I just went to sleep Like we'll try to go to sleep But of course the contractions kept happening So I was like sleeping in like 10 minute intervals Whenever it gave me a break I slept Then of course When it started back up It woke me up So now I woke up at like A little after 9 in the morning And I told my mother like Yeah I was having contractions online And she was like yep this is it And I was still in denial I was like there's no way this baby Is coming today That yesterday was my nephew's Birthday he turned 1 I was like no way this baby is coming today I was supposed to go to the little beach gathering I couldn't even go because I kept getting contractions So I think it was like 10 10 something I said I'm gonna call the midwife Just to let her know what's happening Even if this isn't really actual labor At least I'm alerting her Calling the midwife Couldn't get through, couldn't get through I called someone that I know know her And She let me know that You know my midwife Left her phone home And she was on her way home to get it So I was like okay cool She'll see my miss call and my message And call me when she get there So I think What time was it Probably 11 Probably around 11 My midwife called me back And she called another contraction hit And this one was Way more intense All she heard was my moaning and groaning On the phone and she was like I'm on my way I'm on my way So she came And she checked me And from there everything just went Mad quick Like it was literally Just me My mother The midwife and my partner And I was happy Like it was the perfect birth And although A little sad that I wasn't able to capture it It was just so perfect That I'm okay with not capturing it Because It was just It was intimate and perfect That's all I can say I had every intentions of capturing it But it just didn't work out that way Everything happened way too fast Nobody here like as an extra person To record Because my sisters took My son to the beach To my nephews party So it was literally just me My midwife My mother and my partner And everybody was hands on Nobody had a phone in their hand I wasn't even thinking about a phone Because I was just Yeah I was already not mentally prepared I was just trying to focus on getting My mind right So that I can breathe my way through those contractions Because They were intense They were intense but It happened so quick I gave birth at 111 And It was so different than my first birth Like I think I would just record a whole Not a video comparing the two births Because let me tell you Your environment And the people you surround yourself with Impact everything So deeply Like this birth was just Perfect Peaceful and calm As calm as it could be through Me having contractions My mother was such a great coach Initially when I was getting those Active labor contractions I was like ah It was intense in my body And she just reminded me like You have to relax If you tense You are working against your body You have to work with your body Breathe And then my midwife She put her hands on my lower back And she was swaying my hips And it was just It really helped me after that Like I was able to just breathe through Every contraction I was making a little moaning noise And all of that But I was not screaming and yelling And ah It was so much more peaceful And let me tell you When it was time to push My body pushed I didn't have to force I didn't have to Do anything My body was just pushing I couldn't not push It was just pushing It was out I was I wasn't in the pool For my whole Laboring process Because like I said it happened so fast So my partner was busy filling the pool And I was going through my contractions But when I felt that push It was like two pushes Outside Of the water And the midwife was like if you want to have the baby in that water You have to get in now So They both held me And helped me walk over I climbed in the pool And I got on all fours And as I got in that pool My body just went straight into pushing I could not hold it back I couldn't not push It just happened And three pushes in the water And the baby was out It was just It was perfect To say I was like in disbelief I was like did that just happen Did that really just happen After I pushed the baby out My mother took I think a little clip With her phone So if I get that clip from her I may insert it in here But yeah I know I said I was going to share my birth But listen It just didn't happen that way Because it was such An intimate and Personal experience that I guess the universe just told me I didn't need to share it in detail And that's okay with me But of course I just wanted to share Verbally What happened just to try and Inspire other mothers out there Because listen When you trust your body That's another thing I have to do At one point I was in the room by myself Just And I noticed Myself getting tense again And I just told myself like listen You can do this Your body was made for this You know what you're doing And I just talked to myself At one point I was like Ancestors please give me the strength And I did it Like I did it Y'all I could personally say I am so proud of myself Way more proud of myself Than I was the first time Because it was just I really listened To my body And was way more in tune And it definitely Was worth it So Yeah That's about it I'm gonna say in this video And you guys See me in my next video Which will probably be me going through The lotus process Of the baby's coat falling off And that's about it Thank you for watching I hope you guys Enjoy this little clip This quick clip And you will see me in my next video Peace I'm making bubbles I'm making bubbles You ready? Yeah help me help mommy get the placenta out Tell her it's not gonna hurt Because it has no bones So if you Take a little sip Of some colostrum You will help out And we can have a lot to release I'm about to I'm tired too That's the Just sigh out there boy Just sigh out loud Look at that mouth Oh it's a boy Yeah it's a boy If it's a boy it will be a Pride in your joy If it's a girl she'll be your black pearl I knew something was up Yep It's only about 20 seconds And one day or further 26 I don't know I think so And this is my wedding I was going to go on my own Jamier birthday Come on Jamier birthday Yeah Wow So you want us To hold her under one arm My older and the other arm And while The grandmother holds the baby With Again another contraction But standing up Will also gravity Use your Back to your feet Okay hold your baby And you hold her I need some kind of traction I know she has lost her Did you give us your birthday present Isn't that That colorful joy A colorful one A colorful The third one The second to the last The second to the last Oh Grandma can you help me please Oh no they're doing something No