The dream of any woman who has been dumped is to see your ex chase you and beg for your love. That might seem impossible to you right now, but it can be done. Here are proven steps to get the guy who dumped you back. Learning how to get back the guy who dumped you could be as simple as understanding why you want him back. You may think it is because you love him so much and need him in your life. But, that is only part of the reason you want him back so badly. Losing your ex has made you feel denied. Denial is a very powerful emotion, it can make you obsessed with getting back what you have been denied. That is why you are so desperate to get your ex back. What if you could make the guy who dumped you feel that same feeling of being denied your love? That might seem like a crazy idea since he is the one that dumped you. You cannot only make him feel denied, but you can make him chase you and beg for your love. But, you will have to get a grip on your emotions and follow your head instead of your heart. When he dumped you, your guy was sure that you were still in love with him and would try everything to get him back. That gives him control over you and he can sit and watch you cry and beg. He will let you lose your pride and your dignity while he keeps denying you his love. As long as you continue to chase and beg him, he will keep denying you his love. If you want to get the guy who dumped you back, you need to stop having any contact with him. The best thing you could do is take a vacation or visit relatives. If you cannot do that at this time, at least stay as far from your ex as possible. When he begins to wonder what has happened to you, he may ask your friends. Have them tell him that you are doing great and seem so happy they think you might have a new boyfriend. This will make your ex boyfriend feel that he is being denied your love. When he dumped you, he never counted on losing you, but now he wants you back. Being denied your love will make you more desirable than ever to him and soon he will be chasing you and beg for your love. Citation: H. L. Archer.