 But guys, clearly we have a situation, we are, clearly we have not been appreciating our men from the man in the group and the ladies are telling us why. But I want us to come back a little bit and assume the men that we do have are good to us. So how do we appreciate our men from there? Our director is going to give us a couple of sides that we can look at. And one of the questions is using the love languages. Alright, so I listed the love languages. And number one is words of affirmation. So, for example, if you're a football player, so na kujya, nikuwana wiki chen maybe if you to kaiso then I encourage you. Like yeah you're doing great baby good job. Nya fanyuwa do you do that for your men? Have you ever experienced that to say me kwanza? So mama, this is the owner. What's the name of the man? Nini, nini. Nini, nini. Nini, nini. Nini, nini. Nini, nini. Nini, nini. Nini, nini. Nini, nini. Nini, nini. Nini, nini. Nini, nini. Nini, nini. Nini, nini. Nini, nini. Actually, it's it's she ok to strange. Nini, nini. Bathuh aimama nya na intension near hurt. Love has only one intention to be pure. So kawana fanya kitu and you're pretending to be in love But have different intensions. That is not love. W最anama wat kenniku juwa...... Nmba npent ali manakuni mwenalia boomen shoes nami liberan representative Вот ona nibisha na matutu. Actually we're fighting! When they say please please please! When must I go to this hotel? When must I leave the hotel or haven't I repetEN? When I need tickets for Resource possibilites? Okay Ben Capital is not running hot How can I get tickets? Guys, a ye concept her... A ye concept her ma me kwe e beyond help me understand what this means because first of all in the hands of ma dem jusei chalia na ibiya chali mminginas In ma dem tu kwa iwi help me understand first of all why someone would want to take someone else's man Let's be honest, loutunong yato First thing foremost actually the people in yowa wana nyanganyana ni ma bishite baitewe So, okay, unesa, the people actually when you need to say matilek, mi na be we have this, this and this issues, they are the same people, ama those people you call that, you call that TBFS. Those are the same people in yonaku, jangana, kunyangaya. I don't know why, but I think maybe, okay, maybe they want to be empowered too, maybe they want to feel what you are feeling, but I don't understand why you can be my friend and want to be where I have been, especially in matters concerning relationship. I don't think that's a friend, that's just someone who wants to be like you exactly. in a jari book, because I've actually encountered someone like that, na ni kafa nya kak experiment fila ni, ni kone karana chali, mingine apo, like we're just friends, but we made it look like it was a little bit more than friendship. Ata ye, kansatu evo evo. So, I don't know, why, is it an individual thing, is it all girls do this, ama ni mingine tu, akonako kakitu, because I don't understand it. I don't think all girls do that, kwa sababu if all girls do that, then mi bingi kone shatu kwa chali. Na wei niwa kwebam jwe ata jimte ibiwa. Wei niya tu me pati yogi tu, ye, evo tu niwa nga nga, there's a message before you say something, dem anafau, kwa ambia big up, good job, superb, e, e, after performed duties za kepale, especially zilezam singi, ladies compliments Complement us, compliment us. Mama, Kumusikikikikiki.收iko kwa na mafutu wak морimia kwa na mafutu wak mafutu wak mula mula na mafutu wak ka mafutu wak mafutu wak mafutu wak mula no kusaka no ni mi wak lakia wak mafutu wak mafutu wak wak mafutu wak mafutu wak mula. Aba Dec 1200 Iwa na mafutu wak raja. We are in out, you know you'll go out, you'll say that you have sent in your child in out. You know the child in out, your daughter will say that she's coming out. It's not about the price that you want. So, they'll say, OK, how you're going to stay in the same place? OK, you're going to stay in the same place? We won't stand by you and you'll get a chance? Yeah, sure, I think no one will. It's up to you to try to find the same girl as you, because I think you're admitting the wrong girls. You are meeting the wrong girls. Yes. Ati. I am me. Kuna me me me. Sorry. Watch on my list. I love food tender. Exactly what she has said. I think you are meeting the wrong girls. Because if you are meeting the right girls, actually, okimit solemit, amasis solemit, ama potential. Atahua kiku peleka. Ume sema, mibu me toka, sujum jengo, me kuja me choka, me mista kwambia kitu, then kitoka inje, bishdengwata kwambia, sindio. Ume unia, ok. What if I, ok. What if you? What if you aya na kwambia, tundu wa kuatrag, ta kwambii genu. You know this genu na appreciation and fake appreciation. Ama ona tukatu appreciation. You don't care whether it's real or fake. Ona tukatu uskevi tu tamu. Do you go for appreciation or love? Alright. Nakapa kama drone na ni angaliya tu na kuangaliya. You want to be, ok. Ok, for example, vene tu me shkamek, if she was your girlfriend and she appreciated you, but upa te piya uyu, wakando piya na ku appreciate. Alasu tamu rumia tu, appreciate what it is. Asi asi appreciate uyu sababu, uyu na ni appreciate na ito kitu ni kuwanataka. Ume sema tu mazema ukweli le. Asidi usini mazema ukweli. Pimajia wait, rebu, na choku sama kitu ma. Kwanza ni li sema mkona tama. Siya tulima liza mkona tama. Tuna kama ni tu mkona e. Siya tuna tama by the way. Sii katu, sii katu mependa, tu mependa. Uneza skemstia na mekoa with the guy for more than three years ako too loyal. Lakin ni kijana game a namcheza. Ako na ato ewa wili. Ume sema ta Chelsea na joa games. Vene ato e. Sii ni li kwa na sema. Ume sema tu me toka kazi amji, umenda kwa hau, mepata galdema, mechil ateta kwa mbi, oh bebs, sorry, sujali, it's live, tutafika tupale. Uyo demtua me niya maza. Apu ivo there is nothing. Mono je ke kwa mutu. Ka uno na hakuna feeling. Suji toe hapo. I don't think they really care about feelings. Na wezi joa, cheki, cheki. Skiya, skiya, skiya. Dema me kunya mazi asawa. Labda iyo li kwa skiya. Muna joe, ma-demtuna kwa nga na mood swings. Muna sili mtu e lewe, muna sili mtu e lewe. Sii atu kwa? Ati. Mood swings. Sii sisa kama, kama me mwag tukwa. Muna joa mood swings. Epo. Akiwa. Akiwa puji. That's what I know. No. We go to, umda kunyanga niya tamimia. Sii simi kwa kumbali. Mali za pweta ko train the next. Ona, miki sema sii tukwa natama. Apu muna kwa seju. Sii saka mao me niya maza apu. Mimi, uke, uke, uke, konfoto. Ati. Ati. Une ambitu kitumzuri. Ati. Asi. Ikitu li kwa na fani kwa zamani. That's why, by the time li yanza kwangen li sema, ma-demwa skwezi. Zamani wali kwa on point. Wali kwa menyawashu anjia. Miwa skwezi, tunakutana niyuku. O na kaakwani sii. Sii wana ume yundi okazimili po. Na mungu sa yundi om na juo siya riku li kwa kilamtu. Wow. So, sii sii, sii sii, hatuna tama niyundi om na tama juo. Ah, wea nenda mijei. Wana kujatuna naungaya ugali, of which inlazima. So, wea wana kuna chali wana, wana kukonjiya mahachu, akiwa mehendesha vids. Uji mimi nesa janga, nesa jasa yo miata no miata no miata no. Ije, Ije inunuwe vids, second hand. You don't think. Okay. So, mikama wasana wasana wasana. Wata ge, wata ge kungoja. Wata kungoja. Very good. Okay. Sikiya sasa. Why 254? Nadifuga niye. 254, cheroa Twitter. Hashtag is my the morning. Our mums were better, wali kwa na tolea, dadi koti. So, kusnata kum suguli amtuna mkono. Skwezi ni, silekwe ni macho kama omena. Bas. We utongi evo. Wao. All right. Hashtag is my the morning. All right. Very able director Brenda, please do give us the next slide. So, we started with words of affirmation. Number two is acts of service. So, acts of service ni kufanyi amtukitu. Ya ni to seme. Ya. Sasa, mkabisa, wano mende wana fanyi, oschana, oschana wana fanyi wano me. What would you like to be done for you? Nataka eji. Nataka eji. To kupende eji. Kupenda tuli shia pendana. Sasa tuli lei kupendana. Iotuna jyotuna pendana. So, kile mimi nataka, ni, kikingia, ni metoka kaziangu. Sama. Mm-hmm. Yo, staki imambu excuse, siji yo, it's a must, you hug someone, siji ni ni, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, kwatemi .. Whisa tunun kunikikia boo kat situwa kunikia witoria into kulشa kintung ngu mondдl enterprises Wajun Pتيita Micarde Mubur Itadakiku Itade Unapenging Uya Niki ni fa-ni ya evo, ni metokaka kuno kwa kwa-, su-toko meneke kwa konna kini, ni mevaatanda sa au Ki tu wa nime chunka sayu kiriagi Guys, form Fa-ni ni tu evo, juj pa– Fa-ni trimazeevo, tenguot Hello fu! Usimu na ufi? Ufi-che Uchi oku fecha Okay guys Si situnaika, mazo miimu kiweka Ku — Let's focus on the, on the dini Aya kuna, uo mnili kwa mesemapa, o mums uo betu alikwa na tutulia dadi koti, evo socks nini wapita, so those are acts of service. Evo ndom na tkaku pendo, na tkaku fanyu avitku. Indi ya, I feel relaxed. Okay. You can bear mine. Oh no. Talk to me. Hiyo. Hiyo ili pituwa na akachi by the way, lakini ikunu engino na fanya. Lakini umonaume unakuja sasite usiku, sasabe usiku. Oh mimi, mendi uyo apu evo numekungoja. Oh, dadi umnefika, niku toe. Oh, socks. Oh, nikulete hi, utakula nini. Sasabe usiku. Yes, tukubalia ni umnefika sambili, satatu, nimejwa timi ya kutuka job. Tuna fika, unaka, tuna chill. Kuna kuanganaile kabonding. Unajokno nyomeshita for more than 20 years, but kuna that akabonding, unaka onatu. But kuna umonaume unatwitingi their wives like trash. Mziaku uko evo klabu, anapati na waschano adogo, alafu nenda home, munexpect, bibi ya kwa kutreatsijue aje, wanaume hawa kofia. They should up their gem. Okay. Hey, but I thought we were going to give a little more love to the gentleman, but it seems like people are hurt here and we got to talk about it. Okay. Point next. Kwa kuna atewe, inaka uko na uchungu maile. Sanya, sanya. People are hurting here. Give him the mic, sorry. This ratio is one to three. Tuna wana uschano ako engi kenya, unashinukse mawa nomen do engi, as you can plainly see here. So many. Miki sama tu kenya sama tu. No, lazima we stand with our sisi lazima to stand. I know you're going to like the next one. It's physical touch. This is another love. Sasa skia. Apos, sasa. Kuguza, guza tu. Poli poli. Sindio. Ske uchamu. Muna relax. Mika muzia apo. In fact, kenya nendele apos, na jo inakawe mefanyuwa, mefanyuwa mefanyuwa baka research ya physical touch. So what is also happening there, meh neza extend. At least ni jo experience ya ko mefika api. Okay. Help her with that. I'm feeling like... I don't want to say... It's not written in stone, but this is a very big part of appreciating a man, physical touch. Or as we put it today, na kani kompasari almost. How do you feel about this? Right. For the first time I'll agree with him. I think... Hata kama as much as maybe they may hurt us. Of course they don't hurt us every day. I think there's also a part we have to play as ladies. Ya, when he comes home, treat him nicely. You never know the sheet he has had to go through maybe because of you, so that he makes it to bring that daily bread, that you gaza eating. So I can come home, when I need to massage, let him feel at least someone cares. You know men don't talk, but whatever they go through is a lot. Me have seen it. I know my dad shout out to him, I love that man so much. He's my favorite human. He's all I got. So I know he may not speak at times, but I know the sheet that he goes through. For you. So I think maybe appreciating them in accret to any, they get to feel that at least someone is there for me. I'm not just doing this. Alone. To my dad. No. Okay. No. Why should I do that to someone? I'm not even sure I will marry. You say no, no sister okay because this is very key. There are some things girls will not do to a guy because they know they will not end up together forever. I'm just trying to open a bridge of communication. It's useless sorry. Yani what I am trying to say is when you present yourself in a certain type of way, we are allowed to appreciate you in the manner that you have come. So kama kujakama naume yani you want to do this, you want to take care of me quote and quote. Namimi in turn nita kujenga vayan naeza. Like I will treat you like the king but if I feel I'm a woman you should know I will treat you like a child I will try sex. Why should I do things for you? According to her statement it's like you ladies always want to have a sure bet. I want to have a sure bet because you don't give us time. That means where time is when I stand by and I don't know you don't know but when I stand by at the end of the show I don't know but when I stand by I don't know because according to her statement I will say I will say I don't know but I will say I don't know after the show. Yes, sir. I will say after the show. I don't know. Okay. It's good. Physical touch. Come on. Come on. Come on. Come on. Come on. Come on. Come on. Come on. Come on. Come on. Come on. Come on. Okay. I tried to fight for Facebook. I tried to fight for Twitter. Hashtag is why in the money we are about to get the next slide but before that a good woman should not let her hubby go for professional professional massage. I am finding when you are in a pakaoka Sawa. I am finding when you are in a pakaoka I am finding when you are in a pakaoka I am finding when you are in a pakaoka I am finding when you are in a pakaoka I am finding when you are in a pakaoka it's a good woman She is not a girl, she is not a young woman. She is not a girl. She is not a girl, she is not a baby. Baby, who hurt you now? Baby, who hurt you now? What is the problem? But girls, she has not told you that she is not a baby. But girls, she has not told you that I am not a baby. So that's what ladies So that's what ladies The next slide is gifts ladies give men. Hei, na ito pikila wemeguza maali, I can say. Okay, so at the gifts, meanwhile see to na itisha iPhone X na flata kagari, but you know a pair of socks, you know a pair of vests, na sayi yo, paper bagi ngeli, replace plastic bagi neza tumika ka vest. Msi yone chne nambali. Ties, we see boxers. Boxers hiya umetwaki kwa mba mba umba wu. But badot in the box, how sick were you? So you take me like I used it. Na kubaba youvo? No, sii mi kuna mba besti wu aneskiwaki saia mba youvo. No, I'm talking for all men, because you people are also talking for all ladies. So those who are not here, I'm representing them. I'm giving out there, in fact ni mkwaniki tembe the last week because I knew about this topic. So ilkwa nera ni kifanya research na sample from ya. Na ukweli umetwaka men's conference, so it could be true. You know they were all congregated at some where. So ilkwa na skisa mashida, mashida na letter. So me kujakusema. Ia wacha mi kupi at least mawa idha moja. Itut mesha tuki postpone manzei. Lakin ni ladies conference uta ita tu, laki uta kasi rikiya na tu uko. I don't know. Maybe it's just... Ah, kichita kasi kasi rikiya ne, qiama nawe ma nawe. Kusiku na tia lady. Sa kabukami san tu tkosana. Ah, come back, come back. I was educating you. Kaya su. Kaya su na tombere iti na to muwafia ya conference. So iiwa. Automatic. Ah, anyway, I was educating you. We were told that men are all the same. Siya ti tabiya zote zinu zote nafa nana, but there's a kaba baseline where you're all the same. I'm not too sure if that's true. We have a topic understanding men 101 to try to discuss your bad day. But wastana muwona from my experience and my opinion is limited to my experience. Wastana piyana sisi tukona kaba flani. There's a point where all the same. We all experience mood swings. We all want affection. We all want to feel secure. We all want to look nice. We all want to thrive or something. We all want apoto. Batsasa, tukipata uyu, uya sata penda evi tofouti. Amoata penda evi tofouti. So we're not speaking for all ladies, okay? We just have two opinions. And I'm trying to be a moderator, but sometimes I also put my opinion there. So na ni elewa. Usiai se mama demo uti ni tofusim. Wene tutajaribuk sema, wanome ote, sisiim, sendo. All right. We have two minutes left. Kwa ushe watj game miyabol, alafu gundue vene two minutes ni important. Kwanzei ya Chelsea. Kwanzei ya Chelsea. Atapa nuwani wa Shinda. Okay, but meanwhile, give me your last remarks, King. Kwanzei apo. Yamuisho tuki rapap. Okay, Yamuisho. Okay, kenyatu neza sema. Ataka ma kuna ufisi na ufislet, but at least, what this lady has and this lady has, it's one and the same thing. What we want at the end of it is still one thing. Na, let me say ni se metu na kinjengine, mungu haku create, mwenyana skari na mwenyana chonzei. Kama ni skari wali puwa ote, kama ni chumvi wali puwa ote. So at least, ataka ma una kula skoma, kama ni nyama una taku wangi azea, isi juli kana kumbali, kachumbari kumbali, lakini rudias kumayako. Wow. Advise from a real man, I want her too to be next, I'm sorry. Give me your last words before we leave. My last remarks. Baseline still remains that men should be appreciated, that men go through a lot of shiit, which they may fail to say it at times, but once you appreciate them, at least, wakenda pakea wapeni wako, maybe they cry, maybe I don't know how they let out their pain, but I think they still should be appreciated. They need that appreciation so that they feel at least someone is there. Kuna kupea na shouta? Pea na shouta. Shouta to my dad. I love you so much, daddy. To Gladys. Stop confusing my guests. To Plum, Waifi, Wate. Nga wapenda sana. And, yeah, nga wapenda sana. Kwa wacha kwangusha CV apa? Just after the show. I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say. My last remark, ita kwa, you guys, if you want to be appreciated, learn to appreciate us. There is no way, takatofani akitu, na yad ham tufani, lazima 2050. Relationship, haiku ati 50%, haiku ati 80%, sisi tuna apia, then nini muna shoa 20%. It should be a fair game. To all the lovebirds, penda nini, wala mafisi wuku inje, kinabrayo en kevon staf. Please, punguzeni, please, be kind. Finally, I learned to give a shout out to all my friends, nga wapenda sana. Daddy, mami, nga wapenda sana. Klamtukitale, kina Beatrice, Vita, Kasarani, all my friends who are a cooperative university. I love you so much. Ni kwa atuengi mina penda tufani sana, kina George, kina Bien, I love you guys, kina Darren, nini wato angubu sana, God bless you. Na ukuna memori shabshab, pukuna list kwa kechwa, mi wato awili ngekonshasa hao enkine. Ya, me to have last remarks, amina am old school, mi kika kutu aviatu manze, na pungu zestiyo api kupatia massage, massage, I like that. I like to appreciate someone who appreciates me. I like to make you feel very important because you've given me love. WhiteFive for Facebook and WhiteFive for China on Twitter. And these things, by the way, remember chamwe muleo nituko on DSTV. Hallelujah. Ya, bana suwe kabsah, by the way. Tumeto kafa, so ni God tu, ni God tu anajwa manze. We are now on DSTV, channel 367, if I'm not wrong, 365. Please don't hold it against me. But yes, please do check us out. Monday, Delhi, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday,