 another one The narcissist doesn't want you to watch for this one Hey sunshine state. All good. Thanks. How are you? welcome everyone To another one the narcissist doesn't want you to watch this one This is definitely one that the narcissist doesn't want you to watch I'm not gonna waste any time. I'm just going to get straight into it. We spend all this time trying to prove ourselves to the narcissist Trying to get their validation trying to get them to like us To be happy We're running on this endless hamster wheel trying To get their validation instead of realizing That they're not bringing anything to the table They're not of benefit to us And yet we go through all of this effort Trying to prove ourselves to them and that's what I mean When I say that the narcissist doesn't want you to watch this one because I'm hoping that By listening to this message you're realizing That you're not getting an equal exchange you you're putting in all this effort And you're not getting anything back when you deal with a narcissist You always end up getting the short end of the stick They always get what they want from you But you rarely ever get what you want and that's what I mean when I say the narcissist doesn't want you to watch this one because Once you've realized this it just makes you want to stop everything you're doing for them You just don't want to put in the effort anymore because you're thinking all the stuff you have to do for them All of the time energy and money spending on men that you could be Investing into yourself You're doing all that stuff For what? What are you getting back? Of course? Narcissists are expert manipulators They're very good at making you feel like you're not doing enough not doing enough for them They're doing everything for you. But what you can do is Write a list of everything they're doing for you Every way that they're making your life easier and they're writing another list Every inconvenience they've caused for you and then put those two lists side by side and then Write one more list All of the things that you're doing for them Now you should have free lists in front of you. Take a good look at them Look at how little they've done for you and look at how many problems they've caused and then look at everything You've done for them Who's getting the most out of this situation? That's what you've got to think about and that's why I decided to Record this because I want people to think about it I want people to understand and deep down I think these narcissists are fully aware of what they're doing. They know they've got nothing to bring to the table That's why they're so dependent on people There's a reason why they can't be alone for long periods of time. They need people The takers and what does it take a need a giver someone who gives stuff to them? So when they target people I Think they make a conscious choice To look for people Who are going to give them as much as they can without expecting anything in return? That's what these predators are looking for Don't be the narcissist don't be another fool because that's all they're gonna do is just take everything they can from you Waste all of your time and energy And it really doesn't matter how much you invest in them by the end of it. They're just gonna say you didn't even do anything They're gonna say that they did everything for you And you didn't do anything for them So naturally They're gonna feel like you owe them You have to everything you've done. I don't want to go on for too long on this I think you guys get the picture. That's just how it ends up with these narcissists You can give them the world, but it will never be enough and no matter how little they do for you They feel like they're doing a lot. So really there's only one way can end All that's gonna happen is They're gonna feel like You owe them something No matter how much time energy and money You have invested in them. They could put you out of business They could leave you out on the streets and they will still Be holding their hands out Expecting something delusional Arrogant entitled people and nothing's going to change that but yeah, I don't want to stay too long on this I think it's safe to say that the narcissist Doesn't want you to watch this one, but yeah, thank you all for joining this life because some big Premiers coming up over the next few days So keeping out for that and if you enjoy these live chats on the comment section on the channel We do have a support from now on the website and I'll also be answering questions on there, too So check out the new website www.knocksurviver.co.uk and also I have my Instagram as well knock survivor YouTube Where I post narcissistic abuse quotes and pictures and videos of my travels So check that out, too, and I'll see you all in the premiers tomorrow Have a good day