 He enters into the home of this family, recognizes that this child is grieving and in distress. Something is wrong. He's not doing well. And as busy as the Prophet is and as so much is happening in the ummah and taking care of all the matters of the ummah, he still recognizes what's happening with this child. And then he asks the people of the household what's wrong with the child. And so they tell him. And then the Prophet, our beloved Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, approaches the child with so much gentleness and asks the child in a very beautiful hadith. Do you know this hadith that I'm referring to? This companion, this Sahabi, he was very young but we still call him a Sahabi because he lived to his contemporary of the Prophet Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He lived in the same time period but he was a child and in this narration we learn that his name is Aba Al-Maid. And the Prophet Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam goes to him and says Ya Aba Al-Maid. Oh Aba Al-Maid. What did the Nughayr do? And the Nughayr, if you can listen to the name Al-Maid and Nughayr, you see that they're rhyming. And you also understand that the Prophet Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in his eloquence is able to take Subhanallah right there on the spot, take the name of the boy, rhyme it with the name of a little bird. He had learned that the boy had lost his pet bird and that's why he was so sad and upset and he clearly showed it. And when the Prophet heard this from the family members he didn't just dismiss it and go oh it's just the pet moving on. No, he actually was tuned into the child and was able to go to him and look at how he actually asked the question. He asked him Oh Aba Al-Maid, what did the Nughayr, what did the bird do? Not what did you do to the bird? Right. And so and nor did he dismiss it, and nor did he belittle it, nor did he minimize it, nor did he blame him. And this is really important when we talk about children and we talk about their emotions and we talk about how they're doing and being tuned in with them. Validation is what we saw the Prophet Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam do in his and his interaction with Aba Al-Maid, where he validated him without blaming. He essentially in the in the question had the way he asked it, there was a validation in that this is okay, it's not your fault, hence his using what did the bird do and not what did you do to the bird.