 Okay, another example, Roddy Rich ain't one of them, is there be just out here like, hey, hey, hey, flashing this and that and all that stuff, so I would tell him like, don't be one of them, because there's like, always like flashing your money and buying all this flashy, showy shit, just be real subtle and like really tone it down, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, like just less is more, that's what I like, less is more. Alright, so remember last time, we were talking about, not last time on camera, but off camera, we were talking about like, what it's like to be, what it's like to be fine and, why are you going like this? Nah, because I think it's an interesting conversation, but like what, how do men interact with you, just based on how you look, what have you noticed? We'll go from there. I already know, when you looking at me, it's a look of, I already know when the nigga lay eyes on me, I already know what he already, you know, conjuring his thoughts up with and shit. Say more, what is that? Like, okay, let me give you an example. I can post a regular selfie, right? And not even doing nothing, like a real snap. And then here go niggas, talking about my lips and all type of shit. Some of them are like, you got some nice lips and this and that, but you get niggas that just do too much. So I already, like when you start doing too much, I already know, because don't be sitting up here fucking like creating things in your head. I already know when you, when you saying shit like that, I just know what you're thinking, because then people will be like, you got DSLs and shit like that. DSLs, huh? They suck on lips. That ain't even funny. I didn't know that's what it was. Yeah. DSL, huh? You got DSL, they stay in middle school, they suck on lips. Oh no, middle school, you went to. But so, you know, we're talking about how women go to the gas station and stuff, and they always get harassed and stuff. Like what is, as a dude, I don't really understand that, but what's the experience as a woman? Harassment. Like walk me through it. Like what type of dudes? That's all. It ain't going to be nothing else other than, hey, hey, that's it. I want you to keep walking. So what's the right way to do it? If you had to sit and you had to sit and you would come put men on there. Get me some gas or go in and get me some woods or something. Like I'm not even trying to be in there for no more than five minutes. So I'm already going in with the thought process of getting in and get out. It's the gas station. So I'm going to try to avoid any type of interaction period. So what's a good place? If somebody is really trying to get at you, what's a good place? Or is it less about the place and more about the person? Both of them. Oh, they said tell me more. Both of them, like at a public event, that's okay. I would say at the gas station, that's like similar to, I really can't even pinpoint what's the best place to highlight a female. I really can't say it. It really all depends on the female. I would say the worst place to even try to even do that is the club. I would not talk to nobody. Why? Because like, come on now. Just think about it. You at the club, that ain't even, you already know what type of people you're going to meet at the club. So typically, typically the type of person you're going to meet at the club. You leave the club, somebody will hear you go, what you feeling to do? It's fucking 2 in the morning. You already know what the fuck is trying to do is 2 in the morning after the club. I do not want to talk to people who, I mean, I do not want to like meet nobody at the club. I will not allow that. I don't want that. But I'm saying like, a lot of people do say nobody at the club is looking for something serious or nobody at the club is a good person or whatever the case may be. But if you're at the club and you consider yourself a good person, it could be other good people at the club. I never said that. It was bad people at the club. No, I'm not talking about you. I'm saying some people say that. Like, if you want to meet somebody, go to church or go to this or go to that, but the club is not the right place. Well, that's me personally. I don't want to meet nobody at the club because it's just not a type of environment. I don't want to meet somebody with, meet somebody if I'm going to be like talking to somebody. To a church for you. Church, hell no. Church, really, hell no. So where is the ideal place for you? I can't even say it's no ideal. We can be crossing the street and you bump into me. If somebody bump into you, you'd be trying to fight. I mean, not a dude. I mean, not a dude. Not a dude. And I've been bumped on purpose before just for a negative try to get my attention. That's crazy. So that doesn't work? It just depends on me, man. I don't know. I'm just not very, I don't know. I'm not got a problem, okay? Because I don't be liking nobody. It's okay. If you can't give me advice on how to get somebody like you, just in general, if you were a dude, I think I asked you this last time, but if you were a dude, how would you, you know what I'm saying? How would you approach women? What have you seen that, okay, if I was a dude, I'd want to do it like you did. I would be cool. This is the thing. If you're too formal, I'm going to feel like you too serious. But if you're cool, I don't know. My personality is just silly, funny, goofy. Like you come walk up on me and tell me a joke or something. Do something make me laugh. That's like, you know what I'm saying? It's gone. It can possibly spark an interest because now without you even trying, we just like connected in some sort of way, you know? So it just all depends on the female or depends on the dude or depend on where you at. Because if you in the club trying to talk to somebody, music, like I don't just get out of my face. I don't even, yeah. Even if it's, who's celebrity you like? After the club. What? Who's celebrity you like? Like Michael B. Jordan. What celebrity? Yeah, like who's a celebrity that you be like, you know what? He can get away with it. Roddy Rich. Okay, so if Roddy Rich tried to talk to you at the club, that would work. But he would have to stand up on his tippy toes and try to talk. I don't even know. I ain't never seen him in person. So I don't know. I know he's short though. He's like five. Five. You probably talking to him. If we the same, I mean. He probably like five four. I'm not even joking. But he's Roddy Rich there. I mean, I done talked to a short dude before. Well, not short. I mean, you're not short, like shorter than me, but at least my height are better. So right, but you say Roddy Rich. Yeah, but that's what I'm saying. Like I really don't even know if he really. So he's short. I don't know. I mean, I can, he might can give. So famous niggas have a good first. I like Roddy Rich. Gotcha. This, yeah. So if you're famous, it's a little different. No, it ain't got to be the difference at all. Yeah, I got nothing to do with Roddy Rich. If Roddy Rich was a regular dude, you wouldn't like him. And he was still, okay. So take away the fame and the money from Roddy Rich and he a regular nigga. But I still think like if he, it just got a lot to do with like just your energy and your vibes and like your charisma. Just how you, you know what I'm saying? It's a lot of niggas with like Roddy Rich energy who work at the factory. Who what? Work at the factory. Or they flipping burgers. They just haven't, you know, they haven't made it yet. I don't understand. You know what I'm saying? So it is the fame. You can't separate. It's nice. It's nice. You wouldn't know who he was. Because I like Roddy Rich in general. Like he just. What do you like about Roddy Rich? Because I like the fact that Roddy Rich ain't on front street with his business. He a really low key dude. Like he don't, you know, put himself out there until he wants to. Like he, you don't hear about Roddy Rich and no bullshit out there. Like he quiet. You know what I'm saying? But it's other five, four dudes who the same way. They just not rich in fame. But it's just the fact that it's Roddy Rich. Okay. You want me to name something? You want me to name a bro nigga or something? Yeah, name a bro nigga. I don't know what, whatever bro nigga I name. It ain't like they going, anybody going to know him. So. I think what I'm trying to get at is like for, let's say it's a 17 year old watching this, 18 year old, 20 year old. They're trying to understand women, understand how they could be more successful. Like. Like how they, like the 17 year old can be more successful with like getting good women. Like what can he take from what you've observed with Roddy Rich or somebody else? I wouldn't say like try to go be like nobody. Just. You know what I'm saying? Like you know how we take pieces of people. You know what I'm saying? I like how he do this. So I'm going to take a piece of that. Okay, okay. Another example, Roddy Rich ain't one of them niggas that be just out here like, hey, hey, hey, flashing this and that and all that stuff. So I will tell him like, don't be one of them niggas that's like fucking always like flashing your money and buying all this flashy showy shit. Just be real subtle and like really tone it down. Humility. Yeah. Like just less is more. That's what I like. Less is more. I don't really like all that big boast and brag and shit. It's just really obnoxious and it's just doing too much. That's not going to move me. But a lot of females ain't like this. So, you know, some females like a niggas to do all that. So, so in her mind that clicks that, okay, he having shit like that. So that's why I need to be fucking with niggas. That's low key might confuse bitches that need to see the glitter and glam for her to know that that's what it is. And it's like low key niggas that really be having probably way more than the flashing niggas. So, I know a couple of dudes like that. Like too much, but I ain't do little, but really have a lot. Yeah. And it's a lot that do a lot and don't got nothing. So that'll be confusing to females too. So just don't even worry about it and just be yourself and just be yourself. That's the best advice I can give somebody. All right. So let's talk about the last interview and the reception you got and the comments you got and the things that you said. Is there anything that jumps out to you from the last interview that you, you felt like you need, you needed to clear up. Okay. So I saw how a lot of people were complaining about how I be saying, about how I say like a lot and I can't like, like, like, but I'm gonna work on that because I do need to stop saying them. Yeah. But other than that, I just, a lot of other stuff I went back and watched. I mean, over time, you know, you can learn to like change your view on things. So I can, I feel like some of the things I said, I can look back now and be like, maybe that ain't the right way to look at it and stuff like that. So, so it's like, even though they was talking shit, I can still like accept the criticism and see, even though niggas was mad and my bad, they don't like when I say niggas either. All the men in the comments was mad and shit like that. But I get like what they were saying because I was looking in, I would consider like their points of view as well because, you know, I never said once ever that my own way of thinking was the right way is just my own opinion on things. So yeah, went like, okay, for instance, the video, the one on like being submissive and stuff and how I feel like it's conditional. And somebody in the comments was like, submission is a requirement, not a condition. And when you were explaining it to me, I mean, I get what you were saying because like as women, it should just automatically just be within us. And I was saying that it just depends on the man. And I kind of agree, and I kind of disagree still. So I'm kind of still stuck in the middle, but I'm still like working on it. So let's talk about it. You think submission should be not all the time. I just feel like it just depends on the person. Like say you getting into a relationship and you with somebody for a few years and shit like that. And you've been that type of female, like to be kind and soft spoken and submissive and you listen and you're, you know, you're agreeable and shit like that. And things change. And you know, over time, people will eventually reveal who that really are. So then what if she don't want to be submissive no more because of like how she's being treated in a relationship or how he's conducting himself. Now, like, why do you deserve for me to be so loving and caring and all this shit and you don't even want to do right. Now there's a problem. So now there's like fights and like disagreements and shit like that. It's just, I just, I don't want to put it in a way that like, I want to put it in a way that being submissive comes with conditions, but I just want me to acknowledge the fact that they played a role also in how a woman treats you or is towards you or how she conducts herself like in the relationship with you. Like that's all. That's how I look at it. Because the reason I say it's conditional is you just never know who you deal with. So I'm not going to be sweet and nice to you and you a asshole. That's not fair. And I want to, I'm like, I'm over here wanting to be submissive and you over here like just acting like I ain't nothing. No, my opinion don't matter because I'm a woman, but you want me to just lay down and just listen to everything. And that's not fair. That's not fair. Like because at the end of the day, like why do we have to be so small and why we got to shrink ourselves for a man to be a man? Like why the fuck we can't have a voice too in the house? Why we can't pull our own way either? And the fact that women today in modern, in the modern world want to pull their own way around here is like, I'll be wanting to fight us for that. Like why we got to be all that just because we want something for ourselves? Should masculinity be conditional? Like should men take that same approach? You already had said that before. And I, okay, how about this? How about this? How about this? Let's put it like this. I got two things to say. One, should masculinity be conditional? I don't think it should be, but I will say this. You know, for example, people say treat a female how she deserved to be treated. So however somebody care of theyself, if a female don't respect herself, would you respect her? But I'm not talking about just any female talking about the one you're with. Just like with a dude, the dude you're with, you should submit to him. And the woman you're with, you should cater to her and provide for her in the whole nine. But you're saying that people change. So should men come in with that same mindset and be like, oh, I'm only going to be sweet to you or buy you stuff or take care of you if you dot, dot, dot, dot. That's not how I was really saying it though. But that's how a lot of women move though. Like it's almost at the back of your mind, you're waiting on the dude to fuck up. And dudes can, we can feel that. Because it's certain dudes, they've done everything, they've checked all the boxes. Everything that you might say is a condition. They've met all the conditions and they still don't get submission. So like, what do you say to them? And when I talk to women, they say something similar. Oh, he might switch up or you never actually know how people are. But things don't ever remain the same. And that's what's fucked up though. And you even said men get tired. So what's the difference? Y'all are what you say, we're made to move on and want better. Who said? You said, you said that. No, different. I said we want different. Different, better, same thing. It's not the same thing. When it comes to this type of situation, yes it is. It's not the same thing, it's not. Because at the end of the day, like. Women want better, men want different. I'm just talking about how we're wired. Like if we talk about like white men cheat versus white women cheat, for men most of the time it's about different, it's not about better. But we'll get there. This is the thing. This is the thing. This is the thing. Okay, talk to me. If y'all can't be with one woman anyway, why the fuck do it matter if you're getting this type of certain person or treatment out of a woman when y'all gonna probably five years later be done with us and go move on to the next person anyway and we the ones gonna be hurt. Y'all can move on and just switch up women like if you want to but like we gonna be the ones stuck with the scars, with the pain. But that's saying that like most men or the majority of men cheat. That's not true. Even if like biologically we might want to, most dudes just want a good woman they could build with, they can grow old with. But if you're going in with bad expectations with like bad faith then you're not setting the relationship up for success. Could you see yourself with one woman for 20 years? Me? Yes. For 20 years you can see this the same pussy, the same pussy that pushed out your kids. The body that changed the, I mean the kids that changed the physical form of her body from once. So she not gonna look the same from when you met her if like in 27 and now 20 years later she's everything to change. She's you know. When I'm ready to settle down. Everything dropping and she like so. When I'm ready to settle down, yes. Absolutely. When I'm ready to settle down. When you're ready to settle down. But you didn't say that when I just asked you could you be with somebody for 20 years? Yes. When I'm ready to settle down. It could be both. Now I'm admitting that. We can't be with one man forever. Y'all can't be with one woman. It's just fucked up how we gotta do so much to keep y'all when y'all can't even stick with one woman anyway. Let's talk about it. That's bull, that blows me. Let's talk about it. Okay. So why do you think men can't be with one woman? Let's really get to the side. It's not about why do I think. It's things I've learned over time. Things I've seen. Things I've been told. Things I've stumbled over and you know figured out all my own. So it's just like one of the things you gotta accept. Because at the end of the day men and women were not created equal. It's the reason why it's so much power and masculinity. And it's the reason why women have to be down here when men while men are up here. It's the reason why women gotta sit at the house with the kids. Why do men go out and provide and do all the big shit. It's the reason why we're only for nurturing and y'all are only for all the hardships. That's not true. Shit like that. That's not true. Especially now. What's not true. It's changing. Like women are just for nurturing. No, I don't think that. Okay, but what's not true. But no, I'm not saying that. I'm saying technically speaking like that's how it supposed to be. That's how it was built to be. Going all the way. My granddad had two wives. One woman you know in Nigeria can go to Nigeria and say she want two husbands. Or anywhere else in the world. Because it wouldn't work. Exactly. But that's my point. I want you to answer this. All the shit when it comes to men and women. The shit is not, I don't know how to put it. I'm not finna say nothing is in our favor because really just all that shit y'all gotta do for us. But I'm just saying like y'all gonna go be with another woman anyway. Why the fuck we gotta put all this work in the time to keep you. Not necessarily. You gonna go get somebody else 10 years after we break up. Okay, so let me ask you. You don't let me with a dog. Fokie. Let me ask you this. Let me ask you this. Street smarts, oatmeal stomach. Is Russell Wilson going to leave Sierra? Because he want other women. Nah, let's talk about it. Is Russell Wilson gonna leave Sierra because he want other women? Because you said men are gonna, men are gonna, men are gonna. So answer. I ain't got nothing to say about it. The answer is no. You don't know that man, you don't know that man. You don't know that man. You don't know her, you don't know him. I know certain type of men and the point is you don't know him. You ever had a conversation with him? You met him? I know Russell Wilson. You be in that house? I know Russell Wilson. You in that business? I'm using him as an example. You was there when I got married? It's an example. You can see it to the future? Yes. What is wrong with you? The point I'm making is certain types of dudes, everything you're saying is true. Other types of dudes? No, they want somebody they could grow with. Okay, the majority. Because listen, having a majority. Russell Wilson is like out of the... It's more Russell Wilson's out here than futures. You crazy. No, you crazy. So then why, if that's the case, then why the fuck is so many of us saying we can't get them in? Because y'all want future to act like Russell Wilson. No. Yeah, that's what it is. That's what it is. Y'all want future to act like Russell Wilson. And it's like you want two different types of men and one... But you know what though?