 Yes it is. And I'm so glad and proud of both of you gentlemen that you didn't give up. Well no, we're only a year and a year and a half in. We've got a long way to go man, like I mean, I have some of my favorite YouTubers that have two and a half to four million subscriptions and three million views of video, I mean they didn't do that in a year and a half. And they didn't do it in six months. Probably not. Wasn't where you were discouraged after four months or you had a slump after six months and you had to build that following back up and use back up when they dropped, you kept at it. I definitely think we have to add some different content though than just this personal development or business related stuff. We will. We'll do the cooking show and other things. That's going to be awesome. I'm going to be so colorful in that and so loud it's going to be in visceral. I can't wait to see that, it's going to be funny. I'm going to be like the George Ramsey but not quite as brutal, but I'm going to be telling people to get off the couch, yelling at them, quit stuff in your face with that process crap and let's make some real food, that's why you have no energy. Area though. I've got a lot of good ideas for it, it's going to be awesome. Phil contacted me. He said he wanted to do the aggressive cooking with you. Phil Anselmo? Yeah. Aggressive cooking. Lesson number five here is you're only as good as those you associate with. Wow, don't we all know that one. So if you've got toxic people around you, you're not going to feel very motivated are you? No. So people who make you want to be better, the ones you want to be around, people who inspire you, but what about the people who drag you down? Well, people who make you feel worthless or anxious around you. Oh, I don't know why you want to keep going, you know, I'm over the entrepreneurial spirit. Yeah, that's exactly it. I mean, quite possibly they're wasting your time and quite making you more like them. Life is too short to associate with people like that, so I come loose. Amen. So, I mean, and it's sometimes it's tough for people to understand because they have certain ties with people, or maybe it's they're dating someone like that, you know, and I'm thinking, well, the sex can't be that good, like just, I'm adrift. If you can't cut someone adrift, it's over. I plead to Biff. And 66 years old, I plead to Biff. I love it, Fran, but yeah, I mean, it doesn't matter how close someone is to you. You eventually have to make the decision that, well, I have goals. I want to be a positive person. I want to help people. I want to change things. I want to continue to grow and develop. If you're not with me, then I'm out of it. So I think that's very important that people can differentiate people that really belong in their life and the ones that don't because I think a lot of the times people get conditioned to believe that just because someone's been around them for long periods of time that they're their good friends. All this person must be my friend because they've been hanging out with me for 14 years, but every time I hang out, I feel worse than I did when this person came over. No, that's not a person that's a good friend of you. Do you think that's because they came over to see what they could get from you instead of what they could add or give you or leave you with? Hypothetically speaking, probably, but a person in that position may not be aware of the manipulation factor going on. So that's kind of something I consider and I had to consider a long time ago. And now I just have no, I've got a zero bullshit tolerance now. Like, none, none. If you're not positive, then you're not in my life. Simple. Go ahead. Could you clarify what your last statement was? They might not be aware that they're doing it? Well, I'll make them aware. And then if they don't, if they continue to argue with me or push their point of view on them, I just say, OK, well, that's nice. I keep going about what I'm doing and just. Oh, OK, so like trash, hand them and keep moving on. OK, OK, that makes sense. I thought maybe. Maybe there were people that would just hang out to by curiously drain you under. That's only happened when I when women were involved in that. That I changed that pretty quick, too. So. So you're smarter than the average Boo Boo Bear. Thank you. I try to be. I'm trying to be smarter than Yogi. That's for sure. Yeah, number six, your biggest problems are mental. So when we live in the past or we live in the future, we're not balanced anymore. Right. We go to the future. We feel anxious about events that haven't happened. And when we slip into the past, we feel regret over things we haven't done or things that we should have done. So I think that when we do that, we lose sight of the one thing we can actually control nuts now. So I think we have control over is right now. How are you going to feel in five minutes? How are you going to feel in 30 seconds? Don't know. You don't get tomorrow. You don't get the next hour. You only get now. Well, I know, but you can control how you feel. You can control how you react to whatever stimuli your brain processes. I follow you. All right. I agree. I agree. Emily, you can't control it. All right. Go ahead, Dan. I was going to talk. No, no, I was going to say the other part is also, I don't know, five minutes from now if I'm going to be alive. Exactly. That's the big thing is like, you know, even though we can plan for it and look, you know, say, OK, I plan on the next, you know, and set up, you know, our plans and stuff as part of our daily routines, part of the things we do for our business and our lives, but I really don't know five minutes from now if I'm going to be alive. So if you are so worried about the future, you know, you're looking past what you can maybe see and have right here. Now that could help set you up for the future that by looking so far ahead, you really miss what you need to set up for that. And two, if you're looking in the past, you can also get caught up in the old feelings of the past, how things used to be, how it was, how you felt. And so then that might make you stagnate there, too, because you don't want to lose those feelings. So you're afraid to move forward, too. I've never done that before. No, I've never, ever, ever remembered how it used to be with my wife and how happy I was. Come on, no one on this calls guilty of living in the past. Yeah, what are you talking about? We never, we don't do that here. No, yeah, that's huge for me. I think that is something I've had to make a lot of peace with is the past. Yeah, that's been a big, big, big monkey on my back for a long period of time. But I just realized, you know what, I can't do shit about it. So move on and keep moving forward every day, get to know new people, meet new people, keep learning new things, keep learning new skills, keep reading new books, keep listening to new courses, all on personal development or learning new programs for video production and things like that. And that pretty much keeps me going, keeps me busy. Well, and you can draw from the past, I mean, like a little child that puts their hand on this hot stove and they pull it back and they're not critically hurt, but they know that it's hot and they shouldn't do that the next time. It depends on if they've been eating paint chips or not, because you know, if they've been eating paint chips, they're going to go back over and over and over again because that cognitive functioning is kind of slowed down in their brain. I'm going to be like, hey, I can put my hand, oh, wait a minute. No, I can't, I forgot. Yeah, that's a good point, you know, I mean, I don't learn the first time, however, I like to learn the first time. Some people are slow. A bit, yeah, not playing with a full deck, some people, I think, but yeah, and I mean, then you look at self-control number seven, it's got to come from within or sorry, self-worth must come from within and my personal experience when I had failures in relationships or friendships or I was a pretty bad person in my back in the day. It was really hard for me to feel worth because I'd act out before I think about it and then I'd realize, oh crap, I just hurt somebody's feelings or oh crap, I just treated somebody with probably a lot less compassion and resolve than I should have, or less love and respect than I should have. Oh, because it was all me, I was in a bad place within myself, I didn't feel worth anything, so I didn't treat anybody else that way. So I think that that's very important. So when you, when your sense of pleasure and satisfaction become derived from comparing yourself with others, that's another big one because you're no longer the master of your own feelings or your destiny, but when you feel good about something you've done, you don't allow anyone's opinions or accomplishments to take that away from you, and that's been a really big one for me too, because while it's impossible to turn off your reactions to what others think of you, I don't agree with this point, but you do have, you don't have to compare yourself with others, and you can always take people's opinions with a- That's a big one. Yeah, oh yeah, and I've gotten to the point now where I register what someone thinks of me for maybe 15 seconds, and then I just don't care anymore.