 Hello everyone in the car today Just being for a walk in this park, I know it's quite dark in here Hopefully you can hear me clearly So again, this one we're going to be talking about why you will never hear from the not the narcissist ever again and In these types of situations, it's likely that you were dealing with the player type of narcissist So the player type of narcissist is someone who Tends to deal with people lightly They deal with them for recreational use just fun and enjoyment And you're gonna know if you're dealing with this type of narcissist they Can often be somatic they focus heavily on the physical appearance not only Yours but also their own and Yeah, that's what it really tends to be be about is just superficial things. It's all about money sex Just fun and enjoyment They need constant entertainment and One person could never be enough of them That is why they're always entertaining of the prospects. They've always got someone else lined up. I Mean some of them They might even have 10 20 30 different supplies all lined up and you may not even know about it Some of them can be so charming and charismatic It's like You may suspect it that they've got someone else going on on the side And you just never really know how many people they're dealing with They get bored very easily one person can never be enough of them So they just tend to deal with people very lightly. It's always just for recreational use just fun and enjoyment It's never anything serious But to get something from you especially in the beginning They may act like it's something more than what it actually is And they are often the ones who come to you and they try to portray themselves as Your soulmates this person that you've been looking for When that's just so they can get what they want from you And then before you know it They're off on to the next person. I think some of them they may actually believe in the beginning That's what they have with you is something real and they're actually Fallen in love with you While others they do know exactly what they're doing. They're deliberately manipulating you And they've already got others on the side and they already know that they're gonna leave you behind They're gonna get bored eventually, but they disguise it often as a connection Often where you're actually building something with them But it never tends to last for long These types of relationships. They usually last for it could be a few days or a few weeks If you're lucky a few months, but even then They're going back and forth between other supplies And then when they when they finally Get bored of you they have no use for you anymore. They've already learned you figured you out They know what you're about the board That is when they just get rid of you they discard you they just completely forget about you like you never even existed Because these types of narcissists Even more than a regular narcissist. They just do not connect to attach at all As it may be quite frightening to you How when they target you they meet you they get involved with you and yet There is just no connection, I mean it feels like there is in the beginning But there as time goes by It can just fizzle out completely And it's like they never even knew with you and you never even knew them It just cuts off like you never even existed to them like you never even mattered And that is how you should know that yes They are most definitely entertaining other sources of supply Because otherwise Probably would not be possible for them to do that Remember narcissists need supply. They need a constant stream of attention and admiration They can't live without it So if they're not dealing with you they must be dealing with someone else There's no other way they can't be alone and if you think After you've dealt with them and you you've you've had enough of them if you think you despise their company You can't even imagine how much they hate themselves. They do not want to be alone to themselves And that is why they targeted you and Why they've always got other sources of supply Because it's escapism It's a distraction from their internal State of chaos and disorder So that's all they're really seeking is distractions And that's all that you were to them. It was nothing more than that If it was anything more than that They'd likely still be with you now And they wouldn't just be coming back with fake apologies and future faking They'd be coming back to actually build something for real But these types of narcissists especially They don't even have a capacity to build something real And that is how you should know that Since they dealt with you lightly and for recreational use Of course anyone else they get involved with it's never going to have any depth It's never going to have any meaning or substance It's just going to be fun and enjoyment They're going to objectify people and they're going to objectify themselves And that's what it's ever going to be They're never going to be satisfied with anything they get into Because They're egotistical and they always want more they're never satisfied with what they have they're never grateful And I'm sure you experience that with them And that is how you know That's what they're going to experience in their next situation as well So you don't need to worry about that These player type of narcissists who deal with people lightly Yes, they do get their karma They never find satisfaction in anything They're just going from one relationship to the next One situation often one job to the next as well They're just constantly moving around they're never happy with anything Well you You were seeking something of meaning and substance I understand that And you can find that just not with them They don't even have the capacity to build something like that They can only give you the illusion A simulation of love and intimacy But if you're seeking something real You're going to have to go elsewhere for that You are not going to get that from them Especially not from the player type of narcissist I mean these types of narcissists they often have So many different supplies on the side There's just no way that one person could ever be enough for them And in fact even with all of the sources that they have As you probably noticed they're still miserable This charismatic charming side to them it's all just a front It's just a manipulation of means for them to get what they want So yeah, that's all there is to it That's all you really need to know about this type of situation And for you I advise you just Take some time to heal Grieve the false character that they despise to you I mean just look back at what you went through recognize you got nothing out of it All it did was just Ruin your dream Of what you wanted which was a relationship a connection Real intimacy It just ruins your dream. It just completely trample that And it just left you Confused Maybe feeling hopeless So that's all you really need to do when you get involved with these narcissists is remember how you feel How does it make you feel after being involved with them? And that should make it a lot easier for you to move on and forget about them But whether you hear from them or not, even if they try to come back you should be wanting to deal with them It's not going to be anything good. It's never going to develop in anything real Or meaningful Do you want to develop something like that? You've got to go somewhere else Deal with other people and pay attention to the bread flags the revelation and deception And you'll notice it because they're often so forceful It's like they're always trying to Feed you this character this dream Of what they can be as though they have some potential But you never see the potential actually manifest into anything of substance So that should reveal to you what you're dealing with there anyway That's all I have to say for this video. I'm going to continue on my journey now I'm going to go and get something to eat As always if this video was helpful, you can give it a thumbs up down below Let me know your thoughts in the comment section as well Sorry if I seem a bit distracted in this one. I've got constant Messages popping up from Airbnb on my phone But this one thankfully the noise has been rather to be quiet. 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