 There's simple reason why narcissists have to hurt you Narcissists have limited emotional capacity They have a low ability to overcome limiting beliefs They struggle with adapting to challenging situations They lack emotional intelligence They have a low ability to perceive or manage their emotions Which is why they will treat the people closest to them the worst You are their emotional punching bag If they see that you're happy They will fight you. They don't want you to be happy Because they're not happy So they will take it out on you They will blame you for everything They will hold you responsible for their choices and decisions And this may cause you a lot of anxiety But there's nothing you can do about it You're not responsible for their happiness We can only make ourselves happy But because they have limited emotional capacity And they hate their own lives They have to take it out on someone because it's too painful for them to regulate their own emotions Narcissists are very sensitive to their environments They often experience over-stimulation Where they have conflicting feelings or too many feelings happening at once It makes them very tired It causes them to experience emotional exhaustion As a result of accumulated stress from their personal or work lives So then they have to take it out on you To relieve their stress They will argue with you for hours every day Because they're always miserable They're very unhappy with their lives They're unhappy with their jobs They're unhappy with how much money they make They're unhappy about where they're living at And they blame you for that They blame you for their unhappiness And it never stops Because narcissists are never truly happy So they will blame the closest people to them Instead of looking at themselves And taking accountability for where they find themselves in life Because it's easier for them to do that Instead of them going to therapy And making some progress in their lives It's easier for them to blame you But it's not because they're unhappy with you It's because they're unhappy with themselves Thank you for watching I hope this video resonated with you Please like Comment Share And subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link Is in the video description Coaching inquiries You can email me at coachingupnarksurvivor.uk Thank you for watching And I'll talk to you soon