 Have you ever found yourself in a situation where after the three month mark, you were uncertain about the relationship, you were uncertain about even that your boyfriend and girlfriend? See today, sadly, dating today is turned into mostly hooking up, mostly hooking up. And when people hook up, they find themselves in something called a situation ship. Now, the reason why it's called situation ship is it's not defined. There isn't a clear cut boyfriend and girlfriend. There's no clear cut direction.