 Welcome to another life. We just had the premiere a few hours ago When the narcissist Sends their monkeys after you fly monkeys They are people who Act on behalf of the narcissist Usually for an abusive purpose So Maybe the narcissist doesn't want to get into trouble Maybe it would look quite inappropriate If they were just chasing around after you on their own, so they send out their monkeys They're useful idiots, I'd like to hear from you. What are your experiences? With the narcissist fly monkeys please let me know here in the live chat and I will read out your message. I found that the fly monkeys are Very similar to the narcissist for someone to go around stalking and harassing you They've probably got Some kind of mental disorder And it's usually going to be One of the cluster bees they're highly likely to be narcissistic And even borderline sociopathic Maybe even psychopathic some of them Kathleen says I am alone 73 years old Handicapped I was married to a narcissist for 53 years Turned everyone against me. Yep, that's what they will do if they can't control you They'll just try to ruin your life. They'll try to turn you against everyone And if that doesn't work, they'll try and turn everyone against you EJ says my cousin was the fly monkey. Yeah, that's really sad. You know when it's people in your own family Jamila says my sister is a fly monkey for the ex-knock. Yeah, it's really bad when it's family Especially your own sister, but it does happen. You know, it's really common Sylvia says they are so fake Pretend to be your friend then refer back to the knock. Yeah, they will especially in the beginning If they think that you don't know what's really going on They'll try and get some information out of you Other than that, they'll take that back to the narcissist then once they know that you figure them out They're not gonna try as much after that Kathleen says my children are fly monkeys Wow I really can't imagine Anything worse than that. I'm not sure what your relationship is like with your children, but you know, just the thought Someone's own children Being used by the narcissist, which does happen a lot, you know, it's very sad God's favor asks Do the monkeys even know they're being used by the narcissist a lot of the times they Don't know Then sometimes they do but even then they don't fully understand it You know, they see it as though they're like these powerful people They see it as a prayer. They don't realize that they're just these idiots who have related By the Used and most of the time they can't even see it because they kind of like it. They like what they're doing So they don't even really question it. They just see it as though they're being given all these privileges So why should they even question that and then looking at it like Who cares? I'd rather be the one going around harassing someone I'd rather that than be you That's how they're looking at it And then, you know, most of us the ones who are being targeted by these people We're also thinking Thank God, why not you? because If you're empathic, you're not going to want to be anything like these people You wouldn't be able to go around harassing anyone. I'd rather be dead than have to do that Mao 59 says When does the fly monkey get tired of it? They don't ever get tired of this. In fact, this is what gives them energy This is what keeps them going. It gives them a purpose in life. It gives them something to do It gives them a sense of belonging to the group. Just think about it. These people who are involved in such meaningless activity What would they be doing if they weren't doing this? They've got nothing better to do. They haven't got a life of their own. So This is all they've got and it gives them energy. So they're not going to get tired of it. They need it to survive And maybe I'm just looking through the comments here Ghetto Paradise Productions says my ex-knock sent two people to my last job through a temp agency And I noticed just by checking them out they will These people will watch you at your home At your workplace They'll just follow you around wherever they can These are really desperate people, you know and desperate people do desperate things They're hungry starving and you're like They're dinner. They come after you They eat you up, but they're never satisfied and that's why they keep coming back for more That's why no matter how much they try to hunt you down It's never enough for them Spiritual saggy is asking what time is it? Here it's 10 to 9 at night here Just by the beach Evie says the knock is a drama queen That's so true. I agree with that Everything you get from these people It's what they have to give And it's what they don't want to keep to themselves They're trying to get rid of it So they try and give it to you and most often what they'll give to you is drama chaos Misery and pain but just remember That doesn't belong to you God's favor asks is it safe to assume that the behavior of a narcissist is learned? I Would definitely say so. I mean you've only got a look at these flying monkeys and how they all mimic each other I Know flying monkeys taken from the Wizard of Oz, but you could also think of it like monkey see monkey do Because all they ever do is copy each other They all do the same things I've said to people in my videos before it's really no different, you know, they're all like the same Entity and you look at your knock Many of you you still find them attractive physically and it's like there's no different To To you looking at like an old man or one old one because on the inside. They're exactly the same They share the same thoughts feelings ideas beliefs The same behaviors, there's really no different So yes, I Think most of it is learned Anyway, I hope you enjoyed the premiere earlier on when the narcissist sends their monkeys after you I also have another video Which is really good on the fly monkeys It's how to destroy the narcissist and their fly monkeys So I highly recommend watching that video just like to thank you all for joining this live and There will be a Live premiere very soon Where we will be celebrating the big 100k Yes, we did it we hit 100,000 subscribers and of course We have got to reserve some time to celebrate that if you haven't already Check out the new website Wdorydory.nok survivor go to UK. I've got new blog posts on there all the time Usually at least once a week. 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