 What's up you guys? So I've been getting a lot of questions from guys asking me. Hey Lloyd What are some great opening lines to start talking to a girl with? Hey, Lloyd. How do I start talking to a girl? Hey, Lloyd. What do I say when I walk up and talk to a random stranger? Okay? So in this video, I'm going to be covering all of these things Which is really just one thing and that's like how to start a conversation with a stranger or if you enjoy the pickup terms You know that I don't like them, but you can call them openers opening lines or whatever Okay, so you see a girl. I don't know walking down the streets. He's here in line for something or whatever What do you say when you first walk up? Well, it really depends on the situation You know, that's something that you really got to learn when you're going out and doing this and you're interacting with people Is that every situation is different? But typically I would say For any of these scenarios, I'm going to give you like four or five different kinds of things that you can start with When you walk up now, this is something that I literally just covered in my mastermind group Which I'm giving you guys as well and I'm also going to be coming out with a system or approaching system Which will be available. It's going to be a lot cheaper than my regular premium programs So if you want to get notified about that click the link in the description below But to start with we're going to be five things That you can start with the first one that I would go and this is probably the best one is Try and pick up on some commonality that you guys have. I'll give you an example What does that mean? You want to start with something that you have in common so you don't seem like a complete stranger right off the bat one time I was on I was in Venice Beach. I Was about to get a hot dog. I was hungry. I don't usually eat hot dogs But I was hungry. I wanted some food. So I walk up. There is another lady in line Next to me or whatever behind me. So I go I order I get my hot dog. I'm looking at it I'm not satisfied with what I got So then I look at hers and her hot dog looks way better than mine. So I'm like damn man. They gave me the The fucked up hot dog. What did you what did you get and she's showing me? She's like, oh, I got this and I'm like look at mine yours is like way better than Sony. We were comparing hot dogs We started out on the journey together To get a hot dog and we got a hot dog. I think I might have said something in line to her as well, too But I started from the standpoint of we're both getting hot dogs It could literally be as easy as that You know very commonly when you're at a bar you're at a social event where there's a lot of alcohol Some people ask like what are you drinking and it sounds like a really corny line and it is Sometimes it works and it's because you're starting from like a familiar place a place something that you guys have in common Sometimes you might see the ladies wearing like the sweatshirts with like a school on them like like UCLA or something like that I remember I started talking to I've done this actually more than once where I'll walk up and I'll be like hey Could you go to UCLA and she'll either say yes or no the answer doesn't matter and then I'll be like oh, that's awesome Like my buddy one of my best friends went to UCLA. What are you majoring in or what did you major in? Easy way to start the conversation off from there and guess what we didn't really have that much in common I had a friend who went to UCLA. I didn't go to UCLA But it's somewhere to start a conversation with okay So start from something that you guys kind of have in common if you can find it Okay, whether it's it can be just as simple as you are wearing the same t-shirt or something like that literally that's simple, okay The second one that I would go for is something observational. Let's say you can't see anything that you guys have in common Let's make an observation about her and comment on it Okay, maybe she's got like a really really nice jacket with a nice material on it You can comment on that and be like wow your jacket looks amazing. What is it made out of? Is it made out of pure crocodile skin? You want you can also observe maybe like your style the way that she's walking one time I saw the girl who looked like she was like she went back and forth And I was just like I just commented on the fact that she was walking I was like hey, I've seen you three times. What's so what's so cool around here? What's so awesome around here? Basically, we're just making an observation that she was walking a lot back and forth Okay, so observations are good if you can come up with a good one. That's great the next one that you can do is like a question you can ask them a question about Let's say you're I don't know walking around looking for a coffee shop or something like that You be like hey, where's the nearest Starbucks? Do you know where the nearest Starbucks is and she's like oh, it's over there I'm like oh cool. Do you live around here? And then she's like oh, no actually just moved here. Oh cool I just moved here too. Where'd you move from now? We're in a conversation pretty simple The next one and this is the most popular one that was in the pickup community Was the opinion opener walk up and you ask this is good for like a group of girls I would say okay. I don't really use opinion openers that much I used to when I needed something but they usually have a pretty good reply or like There's usually a lot more interest at the beginning from these ones So I'll walk up in the classic one that people used to say was hey, who do you think lies more men or women or Hey Do you floss before or after you brush your teeth? You know like comes a little either either answer doesn't matter who cares But it's interesting fun to talk about another thing that you can do as well, too Is if you can get some gossip going like people women everybody loves gossip So anything about that Will be interesting to to ask about you know, I The whole Will Smith and Jada Smith thing I don't really know much about it But that might be something that's topical that people probably have opinions about okay Don't choose something that people are gonna get really offended about unless you're you just want to instigate Which can be kind of fun, too And then the last one okay about it after opinion openers opinion over is yeah, like I said good for I think maybe groups but Actually wait to see if the like With openers or with things where you starting the conversation with Sometimes the things that get the best reaction at the beginning aren't the best thing for you long term So that's why I don't I tend to tend to not use opinion openers or opinion statements Questions as much as I used to Okay, and then the last one literally if you cannot think of anything else I would just walk up to her and say hey, I thought you look cool or I thought you looked interesting or I thought You know you seem cute just wanted to say hi Or you can just literally be like hey, how's it going? I'm Lloyd. No, I just saw you over there I was walking getting a sandwich and I thought he come say hi It's fine like literally like too many guys They stress they all they have to have a reason They think they're not enough They think them their presence the vibe the energy that they bring to the table is not going to be enough Look, I know whatever I say at the end of it. I'm gonna be like well Even if it gets kind of awkward, I'll be like alright. Well, I got to go But it was awesome talking to you you're awesome love your style I'll give them a high five and then I walk away and then just doing that at the end, you know Brightens up their day it makes their life better, you know, why would I not? Want to do that to somebody why would I not want to brighten up their day and make them happy, you know Yeah, sure there might be a little bit of discomfort. It might be a little bit of awkwardness There always is when you need to talk into strangers and stuff You don't really know the person or what they're about. It's normal. It's fine But as long as you end with something positive and brighten their day up I see absolutely no reason why you should be scared or ashamed to go up and talk to somebody or Starting to over-rationalize about what you're gonna say. 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