 I don't want people to think of me as like having a vagina or anything. I want people to think of me as like a Barbie. Yeah. Just a large piece of plastic. Yeah, don't even think about it. Why? I don't know. Let's get into this. Why? Oh god. I don't want to be like sexualized, right? Really? Yeah. I love to be sexualized. Can you tell, honey? Hi there, lovers and friends. I'm joined today by a lover and friend. We are like YouTube twins. Do you feel that? What makes you say that? Because when I first found your channel, we were at the exact same subscriber count. And I was like, we are like, we're together in this. You know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, yeah. I feel like you've been on YouTube less than me, though. When did you join? I think it was maybe like 2013 or 14? Oh, okay. Yeah. Very similar. Yeah. But I only really like, really started in 2015. We're twins. We are twins. You're right. I actually was shocked today because I thought that you were ouchie. Pardon? I thought you were ouchie, like chatting about sex, talking about your sex life. No. That's why I thought we were twins. When I saw your channel, actually, I think the first video when I looked was about polyamory. Yeah. And so I thought we were the same person. No, we're not. Because I want to learn. Like, I did that video with Gabby Dunn. I was like, what is it? What's going on? That's what I am. I was like, yeah, I was getting down. That's not what I'm doing. So then let's back it up. Okay. So you are kind of, are you prudish? Do you identify with prudish? No, I'm not. I'm really not. I'm a total freak. But just not like on the internet. I want, my parents watch my videos. You know? Yeah. I want to get monetized. Right. Important. I want that coin. And I want brand deals. So. And also it makes me be like. So you keep it to yourself. Yeah. But to yourself. To myself and like with my friends. You're swimming in women with their own condominiums. Totally. Yeah. That's exactly how I would put it. Okay, good. So let's back up to the beginning. Yeah. What do you remember your first sexual memory being? It was after I had already banged a dude. Really? Yeah. Like age 5 to 17? No. Thought about yourself as a sexual being? No. I was busy hanging out doing all this stuff. I mean I was busy hanging out too. And DJing. And hitchhiking down there. Oh my God. Okay, well I was not. I didn't even like think of my badge for many, many years. Decades even. That's nice. I mean this is exactly. You are the child that parents want. My daughter is just innocent. And then meanwhile she's in the shower with the shower head. But you're not that person. I'm not that. So when is the first time that you masturbated then? I think I was like 19. Wow. I know. That's awesome. How interesting. It is very interesting. Yeah. I just didn't think about it until then. So at 19 years old you first started thinking about yourself as a sexual person. But you're saying this happened after you already had sex? Yeah. Because I didn't like like it, right? Everyone's first time is bad, right? Well not everybody's, but majority of people. I think this dad is like one out of five. I just guess I didn't care enough because it was a guy. It was only when I was having sex with girls that I was like woohoo. I love this party. What would you describe the difference between your first time with a dude and your first time with a woman? I don't know. I think the stakes were way higher with a woman. I think I was like way more nervous. I think like when I had sex with a first time I was kind of like one out. Probably vibe. But then when I had sex with a woman it was different because I actually wanted to. Right. Took some time. Then you're like okay on which you want this one. Makes sense. Yeah. So in terms of like the Kinsey scale. Yeah. You know how it's like a ranking from zero to six. I'm the gay one. So you're all the way six. Yeah. So there's no making out with dudes at clubs. No, no. Thank you. No. I actually don't know the answers question at all. What is sex education like in Australia? I honestly don't remember it being good at all. Or bad though. Like helpful. Yeah. No. I mean good isn't like helpful. I mean they definitely didn't talk about gay sex. They didn't talk about gay people. But I went to a really Jewish school too. So they don't even like gay people anyway. So they want to kind of tell us about that. Did your parents give you good sex ed? Or what was your relationship with them like? No. No. No. We like they never spoke about it. Not that they were like don't talk about sex. They just like didn't talk about it. But my parents are pretty private people is what I'm learning. I feel like we don't talk about stuff like that. So then how did you learn? So you didn't get it from school. You didn't get it from your family. You didn't talk about it much with friends. When was your big like okay let's figure this out. I think I learned like via practice. So I kind of just like figured it out. Did you learn from your own body? Like where you once you decided that like I am a lesbian. I'm gonna have sex with women. Yeah. Where you like let me master this. So I can apply this information over there. Totally. Totally. What was some advice that someone gave to you that completely changed your game? I don't know. I can't think of anything like specific. I feel like I don't know because my friends like my friends here are younger than me. So I feel like I was up to no good before they were. You know so I don't think that I got any info from like I was going to name people but I feel like I shouldn't do that. She ain't telling me shit. She don't know nothing. But like is there specific things that for you made sex from that's kind of boring to like wow. I actually feel like I want to do this thing. Um it was just it was having sex with someone that I really liked and someone that I was attracted to. I think that was the big game changer because I was not attracted to like the dudes you know. So I think that then I was like this is we should do this a lot. A lot of people think that lesbians don't have to worry about safe sex. I'm one of those people. Really? Don't tell. Don't put that in. Yeah but you never think about it? Never. Ever. Never. What about like cleaning toys or? Oh my god I probably like I'm doing that wrong too. Well there's a time to learn and that's whatever you're ready to do it. I think like because I've come so far and I'm like it's been fine. Yeah. But that's probably dangerous like something. It just takes one. Gotta go awry. Totally. It doesn't have to. I mean it's rolling the dice. It might. It might right? It probably won't. I mean the statistic is like one in four people will get an STI before the age of 24. But one in how many lesbians? I mean not to say one at the end of the day like chlamydia, gonorrhea, herpes are all transmitted through skin to skin contact. So you don't need any type of like ejaculate or like semen to get into the mix. I just feel like robbing shoulders or something. Do you have a relationship with toys or? Sure I love it. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah totally. Do you use toys? I do. I'm actually not as big of a fan of toys as people might think I would be. But I've always opened to trying new ones. And so we have like a box. Do you have a box? Totally. Yes I have a box. Okay a drawer. What's in your drawer? Just like a couple vibrators. The one that like I actually don't even like it. I bought it because I saw I don't remember which YouTube was talking about. But I think it's called the Womanizer. Yes. Saw that. That's like the little hub. Like the clitoral. Yes. It's almost like the clitoral beamer. Yeah. Like if it's beaming it up to the aliens. Yeah totally. That's it. Yeah. Got that. Do you love it? Just a bunch of stuff. No. I don't love that one. To each their own. What's your own? Oh my god. I know I seem like an immature little whatever. But get me naked. But I'm a total heart. Yeah. You're like what camera do I look at? Yeah. Are you and your partner like are you big on talking? So what's your comfort level around like when you decide okay I want this person to be my sexual partner. How much does conversation communication come into play? Oh a lot because I want to know what they want. I'm pretty comfy with that. Like if I'm going to get naked with someone then I can totally be like okay do this and what do you want me to do. Yes. You know I used to have this app that me and my partner had and it was like I don't remember what it was called but it was like passion something whatever and they'd be like you'd answer a bunch of questions together. It was like a game so like you have to guess what they wanted. Oh no. How do you do whatever and then they could be three answers and then they'd pick what they want and then you pick what you think they want. So then you like find out what they want without being like what do you want. Right. You know. I like that. Like a game way. Do you love it yourself and aspire to be more like outwardly a whore as you are or you like no like for people out there who watch this show who are a bit more like this is a private part of my life like is that for you like the way that you want it to be. Yes. I mean like it's sharing it with like your friends and like people in your circle that's I'm up to that but I mean I don't need to tell the whole internet about like everything I'm up to you know just because I don't want to be sexualized like I said before. I'd rather be known for like oh that's the funny bitch. Yes. Instead of like that's the whore. Which I said whore so many times. But I'm a total whore. That's the whore. I'm a total freak. But just not like on the internet. I can't stop. Okay. I think that's really helpful because I think a lot of people who do watch a channel kind of feel the same way where they're in like this feels like more of a private part of my life but there is a pressure from people like myself. To be like I talk about it all the time. But you don't have to. It doesn't mean you're not still having an incredible sex life that you're really proud of. Yeah. It's just a secret. Yeah. I can deal with a secret. Thank you so much Amy. You're so bomb. My hands are fucking sweaty. Right. I literally put you in the hot seat. I know. And I'd like to make you even sweatier. Thank you. You look great and you look really hot. Oh my God. Thank you. I meant sweaty. Oh. I don't know any straight men.