 All right. Does anyone have a question? Oh, there we go. Patricia has a question. Okay, question. Do you think once a cheater, always a cheater? Thank you. Stay salty. By the way, I have a son in heaven this month is the 22nd anniversary of his death. Oh, my heart goes out to you, Patricia. You know, interestingly enough, I spoke to a woman today who lost her son gosh, about nine, 10 months ago and her son's name is Connor. In fact, interestingly enough, when my son Connor passed away, I had another friend whose son named Connor passed away. So I'm almost inviting people not to name their children Connor. I am truly sorry about what you've experienced. So coming back to once a cheater, always a cheater. I do not subscribe that once a cheater, always a cheater. Just like I don't subscribe. If you've lied once, you're a liar. If you've broken the law once, does that make you a criminal? I don't believe, I don't subscribe to that, folks. I have said white lies in my life. I think I've actually lied in my life. Does that make me a liar? No, I have lied. Have I broken the speed limit and broken the law? Yes, does that make me a criminal? Maybe, I don't know. Here's the thing about cheating. It takes two to tango. And what I mean to say is unless someone has a sex addiction, most of the time people cheat because there's a lack of intimacy in the relationship. There's a lack of oral sex in the relationship. And what I mean is talking and listening your way to a passionate relationship. So there's usually a breakdown in intimacy that causes someone to seek intimacy elsewhere because it's oftentimes not the act of intercourse. It's the act of connecting with another human being and most couples that have taken each other for granted or lack erotic connection, that's where people cheat. And men and women are like, cheat. By the way, I've heard now women cheat more than men. Now I'm not saying that's true. I heard that from someone recently that recited a statistic, but I highly recommend checking out the work of Esther Perrell. She wrote the book called Mating Incaptivity, Mating Incaptivity. And why I recommend this book is she talks about erotic connection. And one of the challenges in most relationships today is they've lost that erotic connection with one another. And erotic is more about the sensuality of the mind as well as the body. Yes, there are people that are sex addict that cheat, but most of the time when someone is unfaithful, it's because there's something lacking in the relationship. Now, if they pick another relationship and they're in the same boat, yes, it could happen again, but if that intimacy is filled for both of them, then I don't believe it has to happen again. So, once a cheater, always a cheater? Well, I guess if once a liar, always a liar, that basically means every politician is a liar, every human being is a liar, every doctor is a liar, every policeman's a liar, I don't care what you say. If we're gonna base things on that, then everybody is a cheater and a liar and a criminal. Okay, so that's my take on that. Thank you so much for that question, Patricia. I really appreciate it. Thank you so much. Cheating is a choice. Don't overthink it, forgive them, but you don't have to take them back. People can change, but a person doesn't. Okay, so another good point about this. My, here, hold on everybody. Do I have the book? Do I have the book here? Oh, darn it, hold on everyone. Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. Where is it, where is it? All right, so here's a book coming back to the cheating question. Not that I wanna spend all time cheating, but I did post a question earlier. So my ex-girlfriend wrote a book called Chatting or Cheating. By the way, there's a picture of Cherie. By the way, I ran into her at the wedding that I went at this past weekend. Got to break bread with her and her partner. She's been in a relationship with a great guy for the last four years, but she wrote a book called Chatting or Cheating. And what it says is how to detect infidelity, rebuild love, and a fair proof your relationship. I'm gonna tell you something. The last half of this book is a brilliant blueprint, a brilliant blueprint for creating a relationship that you can become a fair proof. And I highly recommend checking out Cherie's book. By the way, in the description, there's a link to Jonathan recommends book so you can get a copy of Cherie's book. This is a great book to understand what causes infidelity, what are some of the signs and how to avoid it. And like she says, a fair proof your relationship. And by the way, since most of you will ask, we ended our relationship went as far as it could because we weren't really a great match from a long term. We were there to heal one another. I don't think we consciously went into this, but the gratitude we expressed for one another these days is because we really needed healing. And folks, a lot of your relationships that you've had in your life are opportunities for you to heal, to heal. That's what relationships do. They're great opportunities to heal. It doesn't necessarily mean you're gonna go the distance with them. So I'm here to say that even though I was in a relationship that I'm very grateful for, we weren't meant to go the long term, but we sure had a great ride and we have, now we treat each other like family, not friends, we treat each other like family. And I'm literally friends with her partner and we're gonna play golf together actually really soon. So anyway, I just wanted to share that. Thank you so much. All right. 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