 This video is sponsored by Squarespace in a bit of context before we move forward. Yuri is a stylist and I was introduced to her while working on the TV show, Sexology with Shambudram on Quibi, RIP to that show, RIP to Quibi, but one good thing. A many good things came out of that show, but an amazing thing is that when it ended, I got to keep all of the clothes that Yuri pulled for me for that show. I'm talking like 200 episodes worth of clothes, which means I have not gone shopping in the past two, three years literally at all. And so now that I am post-second pregnancy, a lot of the clothes and the style that I had, which started before I even had any babies, doesn't really fit me now. So I wanted something fresh and new and as luck would have it, as privilege would have it, I booked another TV show, which I am leaving to go and work on in like six hours. I am going to Columbia for a month to shoot a show. And I was like, I got to get my girl Yuri on the show so that she can help me pull clothes to reimagine my look, not just for this particular project, but beyond. Because whether or not, I keep the clothes or not, because sometimes on shows, you can't keep the clothes. It's an opportunity for me to try on a bunch of different stuff and kind of see what feels good, what fits and what doesn't. So also in the comments section, be my homies. Like, let me know what you think works, what you think is cute, where you think I should go style wise, some inspirations, you know what I mean? Like be my dressing room homies. And you know what homies do? They tell each other about incredible deals, which I think Squarespace is actually the perfect sponsor for this video because Yuri takes the guesswork, a stylist having a profession takes the guesswork out of how to translate your personality into clothes. That's really what clothing is. Like what do I want to say? 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And if you like what you're building and you love what you're manifesting and putting out there into the world through Squarespace, amazingly, if you go back to squarespace.com slash sham booty, you can get 10% off the purchase of a website or a domain. So again, to recap, go to squarespace.com slash sham booty to try it for free. And then when you're ready to really put yourself out there, get 10% off at squarespace.com slash sham booty. Thank you to Squarespace for sponsoring this video. Speaking of this video, let's go. Hi, Yuri. Hi. Okay, so the last time that I got clothes, I kid you not with sexology. Oh my God, has it been that long? Well, we got well, X rated, but not as much. Yeah, it's three days, right? I do not buy clothes because I just wait for a show to show up. And then I got pregnant and I was not going to buy any clothes for pregnancy, right? Because I'm not going to, yeah, I'm not going to mentally let myself like, okay, you're going to stay this way. Right. And then I'm now in a sort of a tricky spot to post second baby because after Ryu, I think I had more time to work out. Yeah. So within two months time, I was back into my old clothes and everything was great. This time I'm not there yet. And also what I feel differently, like I feel like my style should be not exactly what it was. Okay. I should evolve somehow because my entire wardrobe from sexology is just colored pants and a crop top on repeat. Like that's 90% of what I wear. Yeah. Okay. I need to evolve past that one. And two, I feel like because of the two babies I have excess skin now up here. Do you really? I will show it to you. Yeah. But I feel it could be extra platoon or it could be that this is the result of two babies. Yeah. So when we looked at these clothes and I saw crops, it was like stressed. But then I'm like, am I supposed to embrace this? Well, you're covering yourself up. So I can't tell. I feel like you bounce back so well. Okay. Already. So I don't even know what you're talking about really. I have to see it. Maybe you just see it. It's a little, I mean, but who knows how things could shape out. But I also just also want to support the notion of it's okay to be different. Totally. And my style should reflect that. Yeah. Absolutely. So there's a whole, there's so much stuff here for us to try on. There is still stuff in the vein of crops and colored pants because I feel like colored wildlife pants is like your signature. Yes. That's Shan Shan. But there's like a mix of other things too in here. You've had three kids. Yeah. How did your style change after each kid? That's interesting. Well, from it went from not having any babies to having my first baby didn't really change. Having the second one had to change for the same similar reasons that you're seeing your body. It's like it's not the same. Yes. After the second and then after the third. Well, geez. I always remember the thing that you told me that your belly button is retired. Oh, my belly button has been retired since 2014. I haven't seen it. So I don't know. Well, look, you don't need to see it. Nobody needs to see the belly button unless I get a tummy tuck of sorts. No, it just gets, it stretches out so much. You didn't get very big. Your third pregnancy. I remember that picture that you took that was the silhouette selfie. That was... It's intense. I don't think there's any going back. Right. No matter how much I work out, which I don't. After the first, I think same experience as you. I feel like my body was better post-baby. Yeah. I'm like, wow, I feel stronger. I feel like more tone. I just felt and then my boobs were bigger. I love my body. Yeah. And then now, I mean, I'm still, you know, three months postpartum. So a little more, a little, I could have gone back, but I feel like I'm not there yet. I feel like you're going to get there if you don't feel like you're there. I feel like you're already there, but you'll get there. Because after the second, I still think you do bounce back. I didn't put much effort into it. So I didn't bounce back. The thing is, your style is just so impeccably you. So I can't even imagine you had to make any compromises. Not to, well, I didn't do like fitted things as much anymore after the third. I like glute, but then that's the trend anyway. So luckily I'm not needing to, but crop tops. I'd love to wear a crop top, but the only way I'll wear one is if I'm wearing a pant that's covering my belly button because we're not doing that. It's retired. It's retired. Yeah. So we can retire your belly button if you feel like yours needs to be okay. Well, there you go. I think it's the upper, like right underneath my ribs. Oh, like here. Like I thought that was a shame. Well, that gets soft, but I feel like that goes back to normal. Yeah. I think the skin is still not quite absorbed back into itself. Yeah, it's not right. Yeah. I think that takes a little bit of time after the, like your second, you know, did you feel like you had to evolve into like a more womanly motherly style? I don't know what do you mean? Like, you know, when you think of a mom, you think of just a bit more. Well, I'm hoping you're picking up on these cues. Well, let put it into words. Well, it's funny because when I think of moms or like, I think when people think of moms in general, like it's almost like you think of the lady picking up her kids from school and like some not cute outfit. I don't think about that mom. Okay. I never thought about that. That's the mom I think about and I'm far away from her who's like Nicole Kidman. Okay. You know what I mean? Like, yeah, a little more sophisticated. Sophisticated. I was trying to like do all the actions. The word is sophisticated dumb down. Sophisticated. Yeah, for sure. I feel like after, even after the first one, you kind of just your, your mindset, everything changes physically, emotionally, mentally, like everything. A mastermind. You are such a gift and a friend to me. I hope that you guys gained something from this video. Hope it was fun above all else, you know, getting dressed and playing around and trying to see the different ways that you can represent your truth to the world through clothing should be fun. That to be said, I will see you guys in the comment section. And while you are going down, you might want to stop off on the info box because that's where you can get information on Yuri. If you have any questions that you want to ask her, she's like such a kind, incredible, fun person and a really fun person to follow for personal style. Also, that's where you can find links to the sponsor of this video, which is Squarespace. Get 10% off the purchase of a website or a domain through Squarespace.com slash Shan Booty. Squarespace is a great place to build your next big idea out, whether that be your photography that you want to showcase or your online store that you want to launch or your wellness email campaign that you want to ensure as many people get as fast and as fresh as possible. Squarespace is your one-stop shop to do all that plus more. So go see what the possibilities are by going down to the info box and then go to the comments because yeah, let's chat. Bye.