 What to do when she rejects you now if you're watching this video chances are maybe you were rejected by someone that you liked Or maybe you're just used to experiencing a lot of rejection your life And you're wondering what the best way of going about it is because if you do this correctly There's a good chance not gonna say every time there's a good chance that you'll be hearing from them again Okay, so the way to handle rejection is number one Do not try and argue do not try and convince them otherwise or tell them that they made a mistake Don't act negatively towards them. The only thing that you can do at this time is be like, all right Or okay You have to accept it move on now You can reflect on your actions because you may have made a mistake or there may have been things that you could do better But if everything that you've done has been okay, and you've done the best that you possibly could You staying in this position and making yourself crazy about it trying to convince her will only push her farther and farther away If somebody rejects you they don't want to be with you anymore And you're trying to convince them logically with all of these things you're not convincing them In fact, you're telling them again and again that they've made the right decision, especially if you were being needy If they leave you don't chase them either because you're telling them the same exact thing too Why would you chase somebody? What would you chase people in general? But why would you chase somebody who has just rejected you? So they told you that you don't want to be with them I mean that's that's one of the neediest things that you could do really So being all right with it being okay with it will actually change the dynamic a lot of times when you react like this And you react positively not don't introduce negativity Because introducing negativity does the same thing too. It sounds petty. It kind of flips the script on them But they're like, huh? Maybe they maybe they tell you in person. They're like, you know, I just don't see us working out or You know, I just kind of see you more of more of as a friend Or we just don't really have any chemistry whatever it is You just being okay with it kind of flips the script on them like, huh? Wasn't expecting that Especially if you were being needy You just being accepting and supporting right And I know it's tempting for a lot of guys At this point in time Start to throw in some negativity. Maybe tell them. Yeah, well, I didn't really like you that much anyway, or you're not really that hot Trying to let them know that you know Yeah, I don't care about you any sort of negativity will only prove the opposite She can see through that from a mile away And it's gonna make you look petty and immature But if you're a high value guy a Lot of times a really high value guy will respond to compassion when somebody rejects them Why would a high value guy? respond with compassion Very frequently like if I find someone that like doesn't want to hang out with me or You know doesn't like me or a girl's not into me for whatever reason I honestly feel kind of bad for them because I know who I am and What you guys should be thinking what I think is it's a privilege to spend time with me And you know, maybe if I made a mistake I can reflect on that. I'm always improving, but I know who I am and If someone doesn't want to be with me. I'm like, wow, they must be going through a lot. I hope they're okay you know Because why else would they not want to want to want to spend time with me, right? And that's how you should think too You're awesome. So if she doesn't want to spend time with you, you know, I Hope she does well, you know, she must be going through some something or you know Maybe she's got some issues or problems or whatever it is too many guys put so much blame on themselves and as a result They're confidence dips right So the important thing is to have a baseline level of confidence. Don't reduce negativity. Don't try and convince. Don't try and chase accept support move on Right, I'll give you an example about when I did this perfectly So I was on a date with this girl. This is we've been on a few dates. We've been hanging out and things been going great You know, she's very into me But the text message is leading up to this particular date. We're a little bit different and so when we went out on the date She was like not acting that great and overall it was You know halfway through she decided that she was like, you know what? I'm just gonna go hang out with my friend now The first thing I did was respond with compassion. I said, oh, is everything okay? You feeling all right? She goes, yeah, I'm fine. I'm just gonna go hang out with my friend. I go, okay All right Want me to walk you to your car? She goes, yeah, you can walk me to my car. So then anyway, we go down We're walking to her car. She can tell that I've completely accepted it. I'm actually making jokes and re-flirting a little bit and You know, she's like laughing and giggling and by the time we get to her car I'm like, hey, well, we'll have fun with your friend. It's good to see you give her a hug little kiss on the cheek and Then she left and I can see as she's leaving You're starting to think the gears are starting to term sure enough three hours later I get a phone call from her ring ring ring and I wasn't I wasn't awake at the time I was asleep so she left me a message and saying that she was you know Wondering if I was up and she could come over and that sort of stuff So, you know, she was trying to contact me for the next few days and eventually we met up and She came over and we had a good time. So I accepted and You can even see that I it wasn't like I was trying to tell her hey Well, I'm not that interested anyway, like I still was you know interested in her But like I said it was a privilege to be you know with her and with me and if she doesn't want to do that That's totally fine. My life's pretty cool anyway And what she realized was what I realized was that it is a privilege It is a privilege to spend time with me and she just decided to sacrifice it and Then she came back Now if they do come back do not repeat the same behaviors that they you had before do not start chasing them Do not start like trying to convince them that you're you're amazing doing that will push them away again And in fact, you should be very very cautious if somebody comes back in your life If they've rejected you before there's a good chance that they'll do it again So you have to let them come back in your life, but don't break your back I'll invite them into your life Don't move and like change everything and drop everything to try and be with them, you know And if you guys do this enough times where you'll begin to realize is that rejection in my opinion doesn't really exist, you know it's just people with different situations and You know, I've been doing this for long enough That I've seen so many women come back into my life and so many times this happened with the clients too That it's just I don't even I don't even call it rejection anymore And hopefully you guys will be able to get to that stage too So thanks for watching guys if you made today and kids are subscribing If you want to take my mating intelligence quizzes, I'll tell you how well you can handle rejection as well, too There's a link in the description box below. Thanks a lot. Good luck out there