 So Damara says, I have an issue with feeling guilty. I broke up with him and now feel guilty because it's his birthday and he will be alone. How do I handle this? Well, you need to focus on other things that are going on in your life because if you broke up with him, he needs to be a big boy and he needs to experience his life as a man and sometimes you got to be alone. I've spent a lot of time in my life alone. It's no big deal, really. And if it is a big deal for him, he needs to have friends and he needs to have a life and he needs to have other people other than his ex-girlfriend to rely on for emotional support during his birthday. That's how I think you should handle that. If you're feeling guilty, you need to refocus your attention somewhere else so that you can experience some kind of other emotion during that or experience the guiltiness feeling fully and let go of it and just send it out to the universe and allow the universe to take the guilt because you don't need it.