 I just saw you and I had to come over and say, I thought you look really nice. And do you see the way I did that? I paced it a little bit. I didn't just say, hey, excuse me, I just saw you and had to come over. I thought you look really nice. The way you start off the conversation, the way your vibe is, is what her vibe is. She, her vibe is a reflection of your vibe. You control as a masculine person, you control and whether you like it or not, you've got to sort of dominate the vibe. You could be the ponciest spiv from Chelsea or the ponciest, you know, Habba or anything like, but you can be as feminine as you like, but your, your vibe will dominate her vibe, whether you like it or not. So you've got to be really mindful of the fact that you're now, you don't want to come across too smooth because if you do, it's a little bit like, okay, right, salesman-y, like it's just weird. This should be a special moment. And as I said, it should be like paced very well. Like I'm a bit flustered, but like that kind of vibe, you know, I don't know what I'm doing, but I just saw you and it's almost like I've acted on my intentions so much that I've got no idea that I've just fucking ended up here. And I wouldn't say that, but that's the vibe, right? Okay. Like there's got to be a bit of vulnerability to it. If there's just too much like of you trying to, and it's not, it's not even like being dominant, like that whole idea is like, oh, you've got to go and tell a man. It's just, that's just like weak, you know? You've got to be balanced and you've got to have a bit of vulnerability about you. Otherwise it's just not nice, you know? So, you've said that and I'll just be like, hey, I just saw you and I love your style. It's very sort of Melbourne. Thank you. Yeah. How come like you're so well turned out? Like, do you work in fashion? You must do. Yeah, I do actually. Oh, he's just showing off now, isn't he? He's a student, I think that's something. All right, thank you for that. Cheers. But, yeah, it's really important that you keep the observational statement sweet as well. As I said, uncomplicated. Just very sort of like just say, the sweetest thing is just kind of just, it comes across like you've just said what you've seen because that's just no pressure. It's kind of like she doesn't feel, oh, under attack. Like, oh, yeah, like the more complicated it is, you could say, oh, it reminds me of like later on. It can be a bit more complicated. You could be like, oh, it remind me of an actress who's playing some, I don't know, some crazy lead in the theater at the moment. That's fine, but a little bit later, a minute later after you've done the simple stuff, you know, otherwise it's just not normal to just go in there with like line after line and it's just pressurized and it'll put her off. Right, assumption stacking. This is when you kind of, as I said, I did a bit there. You kind of, you know, if she's wearing a crazy floral dress, you could say, oh, this, like, I don't know, this, you could actually be, you know, playing at one of the theaters, doing some, I don't know, Wizard of the Oz type character. I don't know why. You could, it's just going along with the story with what you've noticed. And it's nothing, you don't have to be too witty. Just, you know, be interesting with what you're saying, really, that's all it is. Now, right, we can do this. You see the pink lines and you see the white lines, right? I don't mean the outer bits, I don't mean the whirlwind thing. I mean the shocking thing. So the white bits are you. That's your investment, your energy, everything you're putting into that moment, right? Now in the beginning, she's inputting nothing. You're inputting everything, right? So you've got, but then you see what happens. After observational statement, usually, is when they start sort of getting into it. If you've done a good approach, if your eye contacts on, and if everything is, you know, like you've stood right in front of her and you've locked her in, then you are in, in terms of her responding. She will respond, she can't help but respond. So, and especially with the, if she's responding, then her response will just come bigger and bigger. Especially like I've noticed with just yesterday, I was just out for the first time properly. And I've noticed Aussie girls love a bit of banter and most Western European peering women do. You might, if you're in Eastern Europe for whatever reason, it is a slightly different game because you shouldn't expect so much investment from them. They'll stand there and give you nothing for two minutes sometimes, Russian type women. But it's still on. Her body language is saying, I like you because I'm stood here, although I should walk off. I'd much rather a Russian girl who's not giving me anything back but standing there. Her body language is telling me she likes me, which is a much more powerful indicator than anything else. Then an Aussie girl who's just like, or an English girl who's given me lots of blah, blah, blah. And I know, you know, she's, you haven't been doing this for so long. You kind of know that the patterns that go into a good approach are not a good approach. But she's just chatty and she's just chatting away and I'm just thinking, right, this isn't going anywhere. So don't be, it depends on what part of the world you're in sometimes, but yeah, usually it's a great indicator of how things should be going, right? So you've got assumption stacking and then she responds to that, to that thing I was saying, oh, no actually, yeah, usually with, as I said, with Western European women, they love a bit of banter. They've got women's rights and stuff. So they've got to speak up. And so they'll get involved. They'll get involved with the whole idea of, you know, oh yeah, yeah, I am actually like, I'm thinking I should be like, open up my own production. What's my character? They'll come back with like responses and stuff, especially Aussie women of now. Am I right or is that just me? They love a bit of banter, right? So it's great, it's great for that. So you've got assumption stories, then you can both get into that. This doesn't have to be an order. This is, none of it, this is an order. You could pick one or two even, just use those two. But the most important thing is, if we go back, this is the most important thing in day game, which guys miss out on is the attraction bit. If you're not doing the attraction bit, forget everything else. Like you can have the nicest conversation. And I've had the nicest conversation with girls for like 10, 20 minutes. I've gone straight to report, authentic communication. Should do that. And it's not going anywhere. I know it's not going anywhere because there's no spark, you know? We're just having a chat. It's like going up to an old person at the bus stop and just striking up a bit of a chit chat, you know, it's that kind of vibe. It's not a sexy one. You've got to remember before this happens, before this becomes relevant here, authentic communication. And before that becomes beautiful and attractive, you must do attraction. You must do a few of these, a few of these for her to then, for this to be juicy as well, right? So this, a few of these has to be done. So always have a self amusement about you. Always like, enjoy yourself. And that comes from warming up. If you warmed up properly, then you would be, you would have this vibe about you anyway. You'd be a little bit more free with how you're acting and she can feel you're having fun anyway. She doesn't need to be with you for it to be fun. And that is the best vibe ever. You can't get a better vibe than that. A bit of knowledge is if she said, I met a girl yesterday who said, I love Tokyo. I've been to Tokyo. She's done a bit of modeling in Tokyo or something. And I've been to Tokyo. That's the time to reveal that you've been to Tokyo. And I wouldn't say, oh, me too. I wouldn't say it like that. I'd be like, oh, you know, when I was in Tokyo, what I noticed is she's like, what the fuck? This guy's gone to Tokyo. Not many blokes have just gone to Tokyo. It's just, it's an interesting side of you. So why not reveal it? So yeah, you get the gist of that. Just putting in knowledge in the right way. Not in the wrong way. Not like, oh yeah, let me tell you another thing. I know. For example, if she's looking for a job, oh yeah, you're new to Melbourne. I'll tell you what, I'll get you a job. I've got all the inside knowledge. Don't worry about it. That's the worst thing you could ever do, right? That's just like, you know, I'm a pussy and I'll be your, I'll just get a leash and put me on it. That you don't want that. What you want is like little nuggets of I've had a beautiful life, you know?